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SHARON HAVENS Obituary

Sharon Havens Long-time Los Gatos resident, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 5th after battling emphysema and a weak heart. Born in San Francisco, September 26, 1936, Sharon attended Polytechnic High School and moved to Cupertino with her three sons and husband in 1962. After a divorce in the early 70's, Sharon had to switch roles from a stay at home mom to a full-time working mom to support her family. She became very successful in retail sales which is not surprising if you've ever met Sharon. She had an amazing way to connect with all kinds of people. In 1978, Sharon moved her family to Los Gatos and became the top membership sales person for the new Courtside Tennis Club. Sharon went on to develop a very successful real estate career and became the "lady about town" in Los Gatos. Friendship and professional relationships were one and the same to Sharon. With her beautiful smile, sporty short hair and trim tennis figure, Sharon made and kept friends easily and loved nothing more than spending time with them. Throughout the 80's, Sharon could be seen cruising the streets of Los Gatos in her white 450 SL Mercedes, on her way to share laughs with friends at her favorite establishments, Steamers, C.B. Hannegan's and Cary Nation's. Sharon would be the first to tell you that her proudest accomplishment was her three sons. Sharon was devoted to her three boys, Mic, Sanford, and Tom. She spent over 20 years of her life rooting for them at every one of their countless sporting events. Sharon would always tell you her boys were perfect no matter what they threw her way, be it fights, broken windows, crashed cars or motorcycles. Her unconditional love forged an incredible bond with her sons and is the legacy she leaves to them as they raise their own children. Everyone felt like family around Sharon and her door was always open. No one ever knocked first at the Havens' house. They just walked in. Sharon's always calm demeanor made everyone around her relaxed and comfortable and her optimism and sense of humor got you laughing no mater what the situation. She was ahead of her time as a truly independent, confident woman whose kids were her number one priority. She was an old-fashioned gamer who loved to play Gin, Poker, Backgammon and Dominos and she always played for money. She won much more often than she lost and even her grandkids found themselves in her debt at one time or another. Sharon simply brought joy to those fortunate enough to be in her presence. Sharon is survived by her three sons, Mic, Sanford and Tom and daughter in-laws, Kelley, Margaret and Irma, and grandkids - Brett, Spencer, Evan, Brooke, Lucy, Elliot, Addy, Natalie, Courtney and Austin. Her life will be celebrated at St. Luke's Church, 20 University Way, Los Gatos, at 12:00 P.M. on Saturday, July 21st. A reception will follow. There will be a viewing of Sharon on Friday, July 20th from 6:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M. at Chapel of the Hills, 615 N. Santa Cruz Avenue in Los Gatos. Sharon was a one of a kind woman, loved by all. She will truly be missed.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 13 to Jul. 17, 2012.

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Barry Rahn

July 9, 2021

My family need meet Sharon in the early seventies thru sports activities in Cupertino involving her three sons and my four sons. In re-reading her obituary I concur she was one hell of an amazing woman. I also agree her greatest accomplishment was raising three terrific sons.

Barry Rahn

July 21, 2012

Micky, San, and Tom,
So sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother. Our thoughts are with you and your Mother.
Barry and Pat Rahn

Sharon Rintala

July 19, 2012

Sharon and I shared many memories of SF and watched many football games at Monta Vista High where my children went.she was a great mom and friend. Micky my thoughts are with you.

Robert Kavanaugh

July 18, 2012

Whoever wrote this obituary for Sharon did an excellent job describing this wonderful, wonderful lady. She was kind, easy-going, protective and mothering to all of the young people whose lives she touched. I pity those who never had a chance to know her, and for those of us who did, her spirit will never leave us.

doris passalacqua

July 17, 2012

Sharon was a great friend. Her sense of humor was "over the top". We had many, many laughs and many crazy experiences. We both loved dominos and played anytime we had a chance, and for hours---for money!! She was so very proud of her three sons. I could go on and on, I will really miss her.
She was so much fun, crazy fun!!

Karen Silva

July 16, 2012

Loved your mom, she was truly a unique one of a kind lovely lively person. I can think of so many fun times and good times with your mom and our family. That she was full of life!! Mic, Sanford and Tommy you were her pride and joys and you all were a direct reflection of your mom! I will miss her and truly am gald I knew her as a part of my life love Kari Wiseth Silva and family

Carol Randall

July 16, 2012

My condolences to the family. I believe Sharon would have been a Polytechnic High School classmate of mine, but no maiden name is provided. With that name,I could relay the sad news to classmates.

Darling Fischer Chapel of the Hills

July 14, 2012

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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