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Sheila Littlejohn Obituary

Sheila B. Littlejohn Born in Croydon, Surrey, England on June 21, 1930, Sheila Hageman Littlejohn died at her home in Kensington, California on September 4, 2009. Educated at James Allen's Girls' School in southeast London, she worked as an editorial secretary for London newspapers, before moving to the United States (while remaining a loyal British subject) in 1959. She was working as secretary to the Senior Tutor of John Winthrop House at Harvard University when she met David Littlejohn, then a graduate student in English and a resident tutor at Winthrop House. They were married in Harvard's Memorial Church on June 10, 1963, six weeks after their first date. When David was offered a position at the University of California in Berkeley, they moved first to Berkeley, then just north to Kensington, where they lived in the same house on Coventry Road for 42 years. Their daughter Victoria was born in 1965, their son Gregory in 1967. Victoria now lives with her two children, Isabella and Liliana, in Burbank, Calif. Gregory, his wife Meagan, and their daughter Chase live in Nevada City. Both children, as well as Meagan and Chase, Sheila's wonderful caregiver Vasati Vaoleti, and a great many good friends helped see Sheila through her final days. Thanks to sabbatical leaves, fellowships, grants, and long vacations, David and Sheila were able to spend whole years with their children in England and France, and traveled for many months in Italy and other western European countries, whenever possible crossing the Atlantic by ship. In 1986, they spent four months driving about favorite places in Europe on what they called "Te Last Grand Tour." On a later trip, Sheila--an accomplished photographer--took hundreds of photographs of stately homes, fifty of which were used in David's book "The Fate of the English Country House" of 1997. After studying photography with Gerda Mathan in Berkeley, Sheila concentrated on intimate landscapes and historic buildings, and had several exhibitions. Other favorite occupations were fine cooking (she worked her way from Julia Child through Jamie Oliver), giving great parties, and maintaining her handsome garden. Her husband's work as a critic meant that they saw hundreds of plays and operas, as well as concerts, ballets and art exhibitions, and made many friends in the world of the arts, a world she greatly enjoyed. She played tennis on the Berkeley courts, and worked for several years as a volunteer for the hospice and bereavement programs at Alta Bates Hospital in Berkeley. Her greatest pleasures were her own children and grandchildren, her house and garden, giving and attending good parties, and her great many dear friends. There will be no funeral or memorial service; instead, a party in celebration of Sheila's wonderful life, to which these dear friends will be invited.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 12, 2009.

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All of us Cordero

September 16, 2009

Such an amazing, wonderful, and unique woman! I will miss my Aunt Sheila. Hugs and kisses to Uncle David, Victoria, and Greg. We will see you on the 11th. xoxo

Carol Metz

September 15, 2009

With love and warm thoughts I will remember dear Sheila.The celebrations with family and friends and the incredible hostess she was.Her devotion to her family and the grace in which she entertained... My love and prayers to all.

Anne Mitchell

September 15, 2009

Thank you Sheila you brought Class to our family. With love to my cousins David, Victoria, Gregory,and your wonderful children.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love cousin Anne

Becky Hemann

September 13, 2009

Dear Victoria and Gregory,
Over the years I have thought often of you and your family, especially your beautiful mother. I remember when you played with Hans, when we celebrated Christmas together, when Greg went skiing with us and Hans to Camp Blue with you. Sheila and I would prepare Julia Child recipes together and hers always came out better than mine!
After I started teaching we did not stay in contact, and I always wondered why, but was too shy to initiate contact.
Knowing that Sheila was always around Berkeley comforted me through the years.There was always a chance that we would meet and renew our loving friendship.
I'm very sad for myself, but so sorry that you have lost a dear, exciting mother and grandmother. She must have already been in heaven, having three undoubtedly beautiful, intelligent granddaughters. Please know that Sheila and both of you will always hold a special spot in my heart. My love.

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