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Sylvia Thalman Obituary

Sylvia B. Thalman June 21, 1927- Jan. 28, 2012 Marin County shines just a little less bright after losing one of its own this January. Sylvia Barker Thalman was a long time Marin County resident with a lifetime spent active in many community causes. Sylvia was the daughter of Florence B. Barker and Dr. Nelson W. Barker, a well known cardio vascular specialist at the Mayo Clinic. Sylvia grew up in Rochester, Minnesota, graduated from Rochester High School in 1945, and from the University of Wisconsin, class of 1949 with a Bachelor of Arts degree. She was a member of Alpha Xi Delta sorority. At Wisconsin, she met the love of her life, Robert N. Thalman whom she married August 25, 1951. They celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary August, 2011. Sylvia and Bob lived in New York while Bob was enrolled at N.Y. University and then, with Bob on active duty in the U.S. Navy, she lived in the Presidio in San Francisco. In 1955, they moved to Terra Linda where they raised four children, Mark, Heidi, Leslie and David. In 1964 Sylvia and Bob moved the family over the hill to Lucas Valley where she had lived ever since. With Marin growing rapidly in the 50's, Sylvia took an early interest in helping her community. She invited severely handicapped kids into her home as part of an after-school enrichment program. By the early 60's she began working for Dixie Schools as a library clerk, eventually serving at Don Timoteo, Hoffman and Mary E. Silveria elementary schools. At the same time she also was active as a Girl Scout leader for troops in both Terra Linda and Lucas Valley. During this time she began studying genealogy and developed an interest in archeology, which became a life-long passion. Starting with a community effort to preserve the Miwok village archeological site at Miller Creek Middle School in 1970, Sylvia, with her good friend Don Thieler, went on to co-found the Miwok Archeological Preserve of Marin (MAPOM) to teach native American skills and educate the public about tribal culture. After Sylvia and MAPOM completed two definitive Miwok archaeological studies, the National Park Service asked MAPOM to help recreate a Miwok village in Point Reyes National Seashore. Along with Thieler, she was one of the driving forces behind the creation of the Coastal Miwok village at Kule Loklo in the National Seashore. For over 20 years Sylvia spent her weekends at Kule Loklo, teaching with others as part of a curriculum of Indian skills classes. Sylvia may be remembered by many for teaching countless visitors how to make beads out of seashells, how to start cooking fires using traditional Miwok hand tools and showing visitors the resurrected village. Sylvia worked closely with Don Thieler and many California Indian experts and scholars researching the genealogy of the remaining Miwok Indians in a body of work that led to federal recognition of the Federated Indians of Graton Rancheria, an independent tribe. For her efforts, the tribe designated her an Honorary Elder of the Federated Indians of Graton Rancheria. Sylvia co-authored Interviews with Tom Smith and Maria Copa with Mary E.T. Collier, The Coast Miwok Indians of the Point Reyes Area, as well as several scholarly papers on Miwok genealogies and records of internments. In 2005, Sylvia received the Bay Area Jefferson Award from the American Institute for Public Service for her work to increase awareness of the Coast Miwok Indians and for making a difference in her community. Sylvia is survived by her husband, Robert N. Thalman, her children, Mark C. Thalman (Danielle), Heidi T. Myron (Wayne), Leslie Thalman and David B. Thalman (Ann), her brothers David Barker and Robert Barker, her six grandchildren and her six great grandchildren. A celebration of Sylvia's life will be held at Corinthian Yacht Club, Tiburon, California on Sunday, March 4, 2:00 - 4:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations should e sent to: Miwok Archeological Preserve of Marin (MAPOM) Box 481, Novato CA 94948; or to your favorite charity.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 3 to Feb. 5, 2012.

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Sandy Teller

January 28, 2021

What a crazy and stressful year we have just survived! What would Sylvia have said? Most likely a very positive sentiment about being patient and riding it out with safety and humility! Always the happy lady with a smile on her face! Good memories, especially when I wear my clam shell earrings that she helped me make out at Kule Loklo!! Take care, Bob!

Sandy Teller

February 5, 2019

Remembering dear Silvia and all the hard work she did to help the Coast Miwok people get their Federal recognition. I remember days at her house, sorting information, preparing mailings, etc. Meeting Silvia and Don Thieler when I first moved to Novato, made all the difference in how fond my memories are of our time in Marin County. Between the work at the Marin Museum of the American Indian, the festivals and classes at Point Reyes and Kule Loklo, and special projects in between....and, of course, my beloved, if not poorly made, baskets and clam shell necklace....I will never forget the impressive and inspiring woman who helped steer me toward these events, and also to many very special friends!! My best to Bob also, as he patiently sends a Christmas card every year to someone he probably hardly remembers! I love it! Thank you for the opportunity, Sandy Teller

Margaret Pearson Pinkham

February 28, 2012

She and Don Theiler were my first introduction to local Native American culture and learning the arts and ways of the people here. My time in the National Park Service at Point Reyes and Yosemite was greatly enhanced by the education I received through and because of Don and Sylvia. Such passion and absolute dedication is rare and I greatly appreciated it.

February 27, 2012

This great woman, and special friend for many years, was an inspiration to all those who were in her presence, myself included. My time in Marin County, being involved with MAPOM, the Marin Museum of the American Indian and the Coast Miwok friends, is, and always will be, an unforgettable period in my life, because of the friendship of Sylvia Thalman and Don Thieler. I TREASURE my shell bead earrings, made at Kule Loklo!!! May her spirit always be felt out in the Park, under the oak trees!! Sandy Teller (Billings, Montana)

Cecelia Dougherty Rhodes

February 10, 2012

I have fond memories of Mrs. Thalman at Mary Silvera when I attended school there from 1966-1972. She knew every book that our library had was always helping me "pick one out" when it was our class's to day to visit the library. She taught me to enjoy reading, no matter what the book was.

Lisa Fox

February 9, 2012

What a wonderful woman Sylvia Thalman was! A mentor and friend to many.

theresa heyer

February 8, 2012

Dear Aunt Lil..I remember all the great times we had. Remember Xmas in July.. the costume parties and all the late night dinners and of course cocktails. We will never forget them. We love u and u will be missed. You will b welcomed with open arms, hugs and kisses. You have thought us all wonderful things with your words of wisdom and your strength. Love to the family and friends. Love u

Mj Misailidis

February 8, 2012

What an excellent person Mrs. Thalman was. She was one of the teachers who knew how to get kids to read and be a better person. We only get a few like that in a lifetime. Thank you Mrs. Thalman for being there, for me and countless others.
Mary Jane Misailidis

February 8, 2012

In 1969, I learned to read at Mary Silvera. I loved it. Mrs. Thalman guided me through the library, always finding books that would appeal to me, exploring ideas, always offering a selection of books to choose from. She was patient, kind, and someone who never failed to take the time to consider a question and give a thoughtful answer. She opened a world of ideas to me, and instilled lessons of kindness and finding the value in everyone that still find resonance in my work with at risk foster children. Well lived, Mrs. Thalman, well done.

LORI PARSONS/PERINONI

February 8, 2012

MAY THE GREAT SPIRIT SHINE ON YOU AS YOU SHINED FOR US

John Gazdik

February 6, 2012

Mrs. Thalman was my librarian at Mary E. Silveira Elementary School from 1966-1972. She was my introduction to the great source of reading and information libraries provide and I am very thankful she is a part of my childhood memories. God Bless.

Carol Trimble Widger

February 5, 2012

Dear Family
Thank you for sharing your remarkable Mom with us. She touched my life , and our family'sin many ways, through Girl Scouts, MAPOM, and being a kindred spirit and role model. She was an example to countless girls for fearless pursuit of interests and dedication.
Blessings and consolation to you..

Heather Brecht

February 5, 2012

My grandmother was a very inspirational woman and a very influential person during my life. She instilled great confidence & showed me how to appreciate everything that came my way. You will forever be in my heart Grandma Sylvia. I love you..... Heather

February 5, 2012

Thinking of you at this difficult time. She was a lovely person, and she has a beautiful family. Some of her great grandchildren are some of my grandchildren. Lynn Davis Escondido, CA

Jennifer Heyer

February 5, 2012

I love you Aunt Lil. You'll be surely missed. Xoxo I know you'll always be watching over your family.

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