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Thomas Charkins Obituary

Thomas J. Charkins Passed away peacefully at the age of 88 on December 23rd 2010 at home, surrounded by his loving family. Born in San Francisco, Tom served in the "Mighty Eighth" Air Force from 1943 to 1945. After the service, Tom successfully ran Sunset Glass Co. in San Francisco for over 40 years. Tom's love of the ocean and boating led to his being Skipper of his numerous boats, the last being the "Kumbaya". Tom received many awards recognizing his service for the Oceanic Society and the Farallon patrol for whom he made a record 100+ trips. Tom is survived by Pat, his wife of 65 years, his son Wayne (Laurie), daughter Debra Handy (Michael) grandchildren Eric and Allison and sister, Nancy Rivas. Tom is preceded in death by his parents, Grace and Leo Charkins, Brother Leo and beloved Son Russell. A viewing will be held on Thursday, December 30th beginning at 9:30am at the Lifemark Center at Skylawn Memorial Park, Hwy 92 at Rte. 35, San Mateo, followed by a funeral service, committal and reception. 650-349-4411 The family wishes to thank Lei, his caregiver, and Sutter VNA hospice for their support

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 27 to Dec. 28, 2010.

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Teresa Brummett

December 30, 2010

Teresa Brummett - aka "Chenniel" as Uncle Tom called me! Tim and I were always so excited to see him and Auntie Pat and go out on the boat. We would ask "Permission to come aboard captin!" and he would say "Permission Granted!". I loved him very much and will miss him deeply.

Timothy Brummett

December 28, 2010

Uncle Tom,

The first thing I think about is not your iconic mustache, your salt-water aquarium, or electric piano that nobody ever played; it's your voice. I can still hear you in my mind as you call out to Charlie to pilot your boat and calling Teresa and I ‘Captain and Tennille’. I remember hearing you chuckle while standing in front of your fireplace and shouting ‘fire on’ and, to this day, I still don’t know how you started the fire from across the living room. I miss you Uncle Tom.

December 28, 2010

Well Tomasco, it's time to say goodbye to my "brother", and to our artichoke war, which we each claimed we won. Over the more than 65 years we knew each other, we shared good times and tough times. I hope there's fishing in the place you now reside. Say hello to Nana and Poppa for me.
Love, Noreen.

Linda Pugliese

December 28, 2010

I will always remeber your love of family. Uncle Tom you and Aunt Pat gave me wonderful memories I will never forget. The time we spent on the boat in SF Bay family together. God Bless your wondeful soul. We love you.
Always Your Neice
Linda Pugliese

Sharon Mundahl

December 28, 2010

Uncle Tom, You will always be in my heart Couldn't ask for a kinder an more wonderful person than you. I have so many memories of you and all of us together Love You Always Your neice/cousin
Sharon Mundahl

Becky Page

December 28, 2010

Uncle Tom - I remember so many fun times with you. One of my favorite memories is when I got to be co-pilot of the "Skipjack" boat and ride with you from Sausalito to Napa when I was 13. You were so fun - thanks for making our times so special.
xoxo Becky

Raymond & Cindy Martinez

December 28, 2010

Tom, the adventurer!
He lives on in all of our hearts and souls. He was a precious friend. We have the greatest memories of him that make us smile. We love him still, and his spirit remains with us, always.
We love you Tom.

December 28, 2010

His legacy will live on with his loving family. He was a great uncle to me and we shared many good times. I was an official co-pilot on the "Skip Jack, an honor I took very seriously. God speed, Uncle Tom. Much love, Becky.

December 28, 2010

A Great Husband,Father,Grandfather and Friend. We will miss you so much Dad.
Your Daughter Deb XXOO

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