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Timothy Kaihatsu Obituary

Timothy Graham Kaihatsu

b. December 23, 1945 d. April 7, 2014

Affectionately known as Muddy Fong, Mr. K, and Uncle Timmy, Tim passed away unexpectedly of natural causes at home on April 7, 2014.  Tim was born in St. Paul, Minnesota to second generation Japanese-American parents, Arthur and Lillian Kaihatsu.  Shortly thereafter the family moved to San Diego, California.  Tim was preceded in death by his father.  He is survived by his mother Lillian Kaihatsu and sister Lynn Kaihatsu both of San Diego, by his chosen nephew Taylor C. Gibbons and his kitty cat Tito as well as aunts and uncles Marian Muto, Elsie Sogo, Katherine Kumamoto (Junji), Martha Kaihatsu and Frank Kaihatsu (Cathy), cousins John, Barbara, Laura, Jeff, Steve, Lisa, Don, Carol, Andy, Paul, Don, Jane, Ed, Ann and Chris. His many close and loving friends and legions of fans are bereft at his passing.


Tim developed an early interest in music, wanting a guitar but told by his dad to start on the ukulele.  After excelling on that instrument he chose a banjo while he and his sister took accordion lessons.  In high school he got serious with the guitar and started picking up gigs at local coffee houses in San Diego.  In 1961 while a junior at Clairemont High School Tim was one of ten students in the U.S. chosen by Pomfret School in Pomfret, Connecticut to travel to South America.  For two months the group toured and studied the developing economies of Venezuela and Colombia.  Lifelong friendships were formed.  Tim graduated from Clairemont H.S. in 1962.


Tim entered Cal Berkeley in the fall of 1962 and his musical world began to expand.  Fellow students recall him playing constantly.  Again lifelong friendships were formed.  Tim graduated Cal Berkeley in 1967 with a BA in History and a teaching degree in 1968.


In 1967 Tim and some close pals attended a Steve Miller Blues Band concert on Telegraph Hill.  He was totally sold and his segue into blues music began.  During a trip to Chicago that summer Tim observed and sat in with some major blues performers.  All the practice, practice, practice had paid off and Tim came back a bonafide Bluesman.  Not long afterward Tim recorded on Vanguard Records, toured with Charlie Musselwhite and did a live recording with Buddy Guy.  He had honed his craft and fulfilled his personal goal to be a professional guitar player and play with the best of his peers.  During the 70's Tim toured with singer, songwriter and actress Ronee Blakeley. Tim often referred to his "Hollywood" days and the stories were legendary.


For most of the 1980's Tim was the booking agent at Larry Blake's in Berkeley a major venue stop on the West Coast for most blues music acts including John Lee Hooker, Etta James, Charlie Musselwhite, Tracy Nelson, Clarence "Gatemouth" Brown, Otis Rush and countless others.  Concurrently, he led the house band known as The Rat Band backing up many of the headliners.  A frequent performer was Robert Cray who Tim recognized as a tremendous talent.  Subsequently Tim was added to strengthen the Robert Cray Band - a band that won Gold Records and Grammies.  During his tenure with Cray, Tim appeared on national TV in a dozen countries including Johnny Carson Show, Jay Leno Show, Austin City Limits, Arsenio Hall Show and the Today Show.  He traveled to 40 countries on 5 continents and played in 35 of them (including the Soviet Union) and toured the 50 states and played gigs in 48 of them. In 1992 Tim played on the Grammy nominated gospel album "Steppin' Out" by the Oakland based Gospel Hummingbirds.  They recorded Tim's song "Measure for Measure" in 1995.


Tim was a substitute teacher in Oakland school district for many years.  In 1998 he began teaching as a career at Piedmont's Millennium High School, hired he said by a guy who was a fan of his guitar riffs.  Known to his students as Mr. K, Tim taught US History and Economics.  Despite the glamour of his rock star days in the music world, Tim found the passion and resulting fulfillment through his teaching of young minds.  Tim was relentless in his desire to prepare his students for the real world they would be entering.  He left his mark on countless past and present students.


In addition to music and teaching Tim wrote for various music publications over the years including Guitar Player Magazine, Rolling Stone and Musicians' Industry.  One highlight was his profile of B.B. King in M.I. in 1981.  He was a raconteur and chronicled his surroundings and friends in story and in film. 


Tim was a resident of Oakland for the past 30 years and an avid supporter of the Oakland A's.


Tim had a voracious appetite for life, music, knowledge, teaching, family and friends.  He touched so many people during his life in different ways.  He was son and brother, rock star, teacher, writer, photographer, storyteller, loyal friend, or just "Uncle Timmy".  Whatever hat he wore he wore it well and with class and dignity.  He was our "Renaissance Man".


There will be no service.  To commemorate his commitment to teaching and his love for his students, Tim's family has established the Mr. K Memorial Scholarship in support of students who aspire to become teachers.  If you wish to donate to his memory in this way please make checks payable to "Millennium High School" noting "Mr. K" in the memo line and mail to:


PUSD - Mr. K ℅ Michael Brady, 760 Magnolia Ave. Piedmont, CA 94611


Or make a donation online at http://www.piedmont.k12.ca.us/mhs/


A gathering of family and friends from over the decades will take place at a future date.  There will be a musical tribute alongside memorabilia from his illustrious past.  Refer to www.timkaihatsu.info for updates.


As we mere mortals grieve at our loss, the Angels on High rejoice at their newest addition.  His riffs will now truly be "out of this world".

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from May 2 to May 4, 2014.

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Brian Crum

March 15, 2023

He was a one-in-a-billion kind of guy. He was my "Emerging Nations" teacher in the late '60s at El Cerrito High. One day he brought in his band to play a concert just for us in that little course room. He was just fantastic! Charley Musslewhite was out of this world excellent too. He gave us free tickets to their performances around the Bay Area. Those were the days! Thanks Tim.

Ronee Blakley

April 28, 2021

Miss you Tim. Many great shows and adventures over a fifty year period.

Ronee Blakley

April 28, 2019

Still missed and remembered in countless moments, like once in New Orleans when we didn't get paid at Jed's and I wouldn't let him come down to the docks with my roadie and me at dawn to pick up the mondy, because I was afraid he would get hurt; he was on the road with two women and we were having a blast in our tour of 1976; we played many shows over the years and he never disappointed, with his wry humor, great blues guitar, and quiet ways; he was a woman lover in the deepest sense and supported equality for women when many didn't even know what it was; he was an intellectual, which I didn't appreciate fully at the time. RIP. Continued condolences to those closes to him.

Toby Campbell

March 19, 2018

For some reason just thought about him the other day, and got curious as to what happened to him. He had some creative skills at writing, and I recall he played some tunes, among them "John Henry," in Mr. Carey's Advanced English class. Somehow, I always thought he'd write novels...but that turned out to be me. He went into music, it seems, and the world was more pleasant with him in it. See you around...

Rasma Brempelis Atkinson

April 22, 2016

Tim was my Senior prom date at Claremont HS in 1962. We lost touch after High School. He went north and I stayed in San Diego.
I still remember him playing La Bamba.
My favorite song, though was "I Talk to the Trees".
He was a great friend in High School. I came to Claremont HS in the last 5 months of the senior year. Tim and his friends were very kind to me.
I had no idea he had passed away over 2 years ago. It was very sad news.

Kathy Sonheim

July 13, 2014

Aw Timmy, I'll be missing our sporadic emails, muddy fong. Before that there were the sporadic encounters at a gig at the Carousel ballroom, Inn of the beginning or now eternity. Even from the days in high school going with you and Stan to play in Pacific Beach was great music. Just found out you're playing with all the best, and all the rest of us will hear the music in the by and by. Thanks for all the good humor, fun and insightful observations.

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May 22, 2014

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Michele Hayes

May 6, 2014

I have the utmost respect for Tim. He was really a great guitarist, and a very nice person, too! I saw him innumerable times when he was on the road with Robert Cray; he and my brother ,Kevin Hayes, shared many a laugh and had many funny stories about their travels together. I wish his family and friends peace in their heart, and I am truly sorry for the early loss of a great guy.

Harold Adler

May 6, 2014

A truly wonderful human being. Rest in Peace Timothy! Harold Adler - Berkeley

May 6, 2014

I remember Timmy well, especially from classes at CHS. We played baseball together in Youth Leagues and he had a high leg lift and was a pretty good Pitcher. He was an overall good guy. God Bless Tim. Arnold Powers

Antoinette Olesen

May 6, 2014

Tim will be playing in a pretty good band in heaven. Blessings to Tim and all of his family and friends! What a great guy who did so much good for this world. I will miss him

Joe Alcoser

May 5, 2014

This is a very big lose for the music world,and the blues music people,I meet tim and Robert Cray after a great concert we shared drinks and storys about past blues people,both were gentalmen,Love you Tim will miss but you in my heart forvever.

Joe Zahner

May 5, 2014

Tim was a great friend of mine and I miss him. Even if we hadn't spoken to each other for over a year when we did talk it was like we had just seen each other last week. I'm sorry I won't be able to attend the memorial service. I'm also sorry he and I won't be sitting out in the bleachers watching the A's play those Wednesday day games. Tim truly "touched them all"!

Ronee Blakley

May 5, 2014

Tim was important in my life, actively so for at least fifteen years, from freshman year at college, when he taught me my first Dylan song, to later years when we toured the U.S. together, with him as my only sideman, so we spent lots of time together. I miss him now and have missed him since I saw him last. Tracy and I were just talking about him and I hoped to see him on my upcoming S.F. trip. May he rest in peace. Condolences to family and friends. A brilliant man, part of the student revolution of the sixties at Berkely, when everything changed. With love and respect. Ronee

May 4, 2014

Thank you. You added so much to so many lives. Thank you. Mr. K. You are missed.

JIM Kelly

May 3, 2014

Couldn't find a nicer guy!!!

JVK

May 2, 2014

RIP

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