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Betsy Rhom Obituary

SHELBY-- Betsy Joann Carrigan Rhom, 80, of Pleasant Drive, died Thursday, Oct. 3, 2013, at Hospice at Wendover. A native of McDowell County, she was the daughter of the late John and Melita Webb Carrigan. She retired from Cleveland County Schools as a food services manager. She was a member of Crestview Baptist Church.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by two brothers, Boyce and Syd Carrigan; two sisters, Murriel C. Deal and Peggy C. Cranford; and great-grandson, Mason McCulloch.
She is survived by her loving husband of 61 years, Donald F. Rhom, of the home; son, John E. Rhom and wife Penny of Shelby; two daughters, Susan R. Guffey and husband Mitchell of Boiling Springs, and Heather R. Huskey of Lattimore; two sisters, Jana C. Baker and husband Hal of Marion, and Margaret C. D'Angelis of Florida; grandchildren, Heidi G. McCulloch, Joshua C. Guffey and wife Lizzie, Erich T. Rhom and wife Leslie, Syndi R. Hamrick, and Carrigan Huskey; great-grandchildren, Mollie and Maggie McCulloch, Georgia Guffey, Alex, Jacob, and Isaac Rhom, Johnathon, and Allison Hamrick.
Visitation: The family will receive friends from 2 to 3:30 Sunday at the church, and other times at the home.
Funeral Service: 3:30 p.m. Sunday at Crestview Baptist Church
Officiated By: The Rev. Stan Webb
Burial: 10 a.m. Monday at Cleveland Memorial Park
Funeral Home: Clay-Barnette Funeral Home of Shelby is serving the family.
Memorials: May be made to Hospice of Cleveland County, 951 Wendover Heights Dr., Shelby, NC 28150 or Relay For Life of Cleveland County-Shelby, 1901 Brunswick Ave. #100, Charlotte, NC 28207
Online Condolences: www.claybarnette.com

Published by Shelby Star on Oct. 5, 2013.
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We are so sorry to learn of your mothers passing. She is with God now and has no more pain or sorrow Frank & Patsy

Frank, Patsy Crump

October 6, 2013

So sorry to hear of your moms passing Heather. I remember the time we had lunch @ her house, we all worked @ CRMC then. She thought we were ALL crazy, little did she know then. May God comfort & strength sustain you during this time. My prayers are with you!

Sharon Crocker

October 5, 2013

Thanks for the memories we had in the Crest High cafeteria. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during thIs difficult time. God Bless.

Angela Howard Toney

October 5, 2013

Dear Friends.

I can't remember my age when our families became friends, maybe four or five. You are all special to me. We have kept up through Amy and Heather's friendship, so when we see each other it's as if we are caught up and can begin fresh. I visited Betsy about three weeks ago at Hospice. She shared about her family, her church family and of course as any proud grandmother her grandchildren, all of them.

I asked Betsy if she could recall the time when I was nine years old, our Dads were playing ball for FII, and I threw those little hoppy toads on her and momma, oh yeah, I forgot to mention they were both expecting at the time, who says expectant mothers are slow in the late second trimester. Betsy's concern was that her baby would be afraid of frog's. At the time they were pretty mad and then we all had a good laugh.

My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Remember the good times, have a good laugh, if some bad things rise up, give them to the Lord and have a good cry. HE can turn sorrow into joy.

I love you all, Alice Jones Towery

October 5, 2013

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