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Cothenia Jolley Obituary

BOILING SPRINGS- Cothenia Jones Jolley, 86, beloved mother, grandmother and educator in Boiling Springs, passed away Friday, Nov. 8, 2013, at Wendover Hospice in Shelby.
Born Dec. 4, 1926, in Caroleen, Mrs. Jolley was the daughter of O.O. (Onze Oliver) and Mary Alice Jones. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband of 63 years, Marion Lansford Jolley, and by her sister, Irene Jones Hamrick.
Mrs. Jolley served 36 years in the field of education. She taught at Boiling Springs, Caroleen and Crest High schools and completed her educational career as guidance counselor at Crest High School in Shelby.
One of her proudest accomplishments was chairing the committee of NC Retired School Personnel who researched and wrote a four-volume history of the schools of Cleveland County. The recently completed series is titled "Tracings: Schools and Schooling" and covers the 170-year period from 1800-1970. The first volume records the history of African American schools in the county; the second volume, written by Mrs. Jolley, is a history of the Crest district; the third volume is the history of the Burns district; and the fourth volume, the Kings Mountain and Shelby districts. Mrs. Jolley was quick to acknowledge the contributions of many educators to this lofty endeavor, especially the late Ezra Bridges and the late Sybil Dixon of the Compilation and Editing Committee.
Additionally, Mrs. Jolley had served as the archivist for Gardner-Webb University.
Mrs. Jolley received her undergraduate degrees from Gardner-Webb Junior College and Carson-Newman College, and earned her master's and educational specialist degrees from Peabody College (now affiliated with Vanderbilt University).
She was an active member of several professional organizations, including Delta Kappa Gamma, an honorary society for teachers, and the NC Retired School Personnel of Cleveland County.
A faithful member of Boiling Springs Baptist Church, Mrs. Jolley had served in the past as the church's Minister of Education and also Minister of Music. She taught a ladies' Sunday school class, sang in the senior adult choir and helped lead the senior adult ministry.
Her service to the community included leadership roles in numerous civic organizations: Boiling Springs Extension Club, the Sorosis Club and the Philsonian Book Club.
Mrs. Jolley is survived by her daughter, Lana Jolley Henkel and husband Russell W. Henkel, and by her grandsons, Jeremy and Jonathan Henkel, all of Boiling Springs.
Heartfelt thanks to Wendover Hospice for the loving care they extended to Mrs. Jolley.
Visitation: The family will receive friends from 5 to 6 p.m. Monday at Boiling Springs Baptist Church.
Celebration of Life Service: 6 p.m. at Boiling Springs Baptist Church
Officiated By: Dr. Carroll Page
Burial: 3 p.m. Tuesday at Cleveland Memorial Park, Shelby
Funeral Home: Cecil M. Burton Funeral Home and Crematory is serving the family
Guest Registry: www.cecilmburtonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Shelby Star on Nov. 10, 2013.

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Cliff & Susan Perrell

November 15, 2013

Lana and family, we are so sad to hear of your moms passing. We would like for you to know that you are in our prayers.
With love and prayers:
Dixie Love Bug

Tim Hendrix

November 11, 2013

Lana, You, Russ, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy to you in your Mother's passing, so soon after the passing of your Father. I cannot think of more kind, loving individuals and remember them fondly--they were always so very gracious and encouraging when we were in school together. May God Bless you and Russ, and give you peace during this difficult time. Peace, Tim

November 10, 2013

To the Jolley Family, Our Deepest Sympathy in the loss of your mother. My Dad told me that Cothenia was his cousin. He wanted me to send his thoughts and prayers to you and your family. His name is Bobby Lee. God Bless Perry Lee Greenwood, S.C.

November 10, 2013

Lana,
I have thought of you often after I saw where your dad had passed and I could relate since I had lost my dad 19 years ago, then when I saw in the paper where your mom had also passed I began to pray even more for you . It must be so hard but God will see you through . I had the pleasure of getting to know your parents a little better as they came to the Shelby Eye Center and they were always so nice . I will be praying for you Lana Love Pam Melton Philbeck

Lou Reese

November 10, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. Following so closely after your Dad, I know how hard this must be. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
Lou Reese

Wyline Davis

November 10, 2013

Lana, I'm so sorry to her of your loss. I worked with Cothenia many years. As you know she was dedicated to Crest High and her students. She was so proud of you and her grandchildren. You were a true blessing to her. My prayers will be with you in the coming days.

Bonnie Doughtie

November 10, 2013

Lana,
Praying for you and the family at this time. Sending love to you as you walk this road again so close to your dad's death. Cling to the memory of a mother who loved you dearly. Memory is what God gives that death cannot destroy.

Joy Bridges Cooper-Williams

November 9, 2013

My Deepest Sympathy in the loss of your Mother. I know it is hard to loose both parents in such a short time. Mrs. Jolley was one of my favorite teachers. I will be remembering you in my prayers. May God Bless and Keep you.

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