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BAYNES, BRIAN The San Diego music scene lost an iconic figure with the sudden passing of our dear friend Brian Baynes on December 19th. Born in the seaside town of Bray, Ireland on August 11, 1955, Brian, was an accomplished guitarist and international record producer. Arriving in the US in 1980, San Deigo was soon his home, performing in the local Irish music circuit, including headlining at the St. Patrick's Day Parade annually. His proudest accomplishment was playing with the San Diego Symphony on numerous occasions for the St. Patrick's Day Show. His musical knowledge led him to his other career of Record Producer at his own Avoca Studios. Brian's portfolio of talent included a brief encounter with the big screen, as he offered the Captain of the ship a life jacket in James Cameron's "The Titanic". Surpassing his love of music was his love of daughter Jessica, along with loving partner Rebecca. Brian will also be sorely missed by family in Ireland, Seamus and Miceal, Finola and Maeve, and their families. Viewing will be at St. Didacus Church, 4772 Felton Street, Dec. 29th, 6 to 8 p.m. Funeral Mass at Noon on Thursday, Dec. 30th.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Dec. 28, 2010.

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John "Tim" Uliasz

December 22, 2021

Was in Iceland with Bill Craig and Jim Ellerbrock last October. We talked a bit about Brian and how we missed him. What a talented musician and entertainer he was as well as good friend . There were so many great nights at the Blarney Stone that it is hard to pick out one night. He is missed so much by so many. Love you Brian.
Timothy

Valerie Kemp

April 12, 2021

Brian, you were a dear friend and a great talent. I can't believe you passed so soon after our reuniting in San Diego? How can it be that I was not informed of your passing? How is it that times goes so swiftly and then someone dear to you is gone. May you play for the angels as you did for us. Your newly found audience is far more worthy or your talent than we were. To one of the most talented people I had the honor of knowing, good night sweet prince and may you live on forever. As for your lovely daughter Jessica, I knew you when you were very young and I see what a beautiful woman you have become. You have made your father very proud, Valerie

KEN DOYLE

December 23, 2020

I WAS INTRODUCED TO BRIAN BAYNES BACK IN 1972 BY A MUTUAL FRIEND DANNY TOBIN ,THAT CHANCE MEETING WOULD CHANGE MY LIFE VERY MUCH FOR THE BETTER. I KNEW FROM THE FIRST TIME I HEARD HIM PLAY HE WAS SPECIAL.HE COACHED,AND GUIDED ME ABOUT THE BASS,INTRODUCING ME TO GREAT BANDS ,ON VINYL, AND CASETT .HE SHORTCUT MY LEARNING TOLD ME WHAT TO AVOID . AND HELPED ME GET MY FIRST REAL BASS A 1965 FENDER JAZZ ,WHICH I STILL HAVE ,48YEARS LATER I AM STILL PLAYING IT ALL OVER THE WORLD .I STILL CARRY A lOT OF BRIANS INFLUENCES IN MY MUSICAL TOOL BOX .I HAD IT LOOSELY ARRANGED THAT HE WOULD PLAY THE GUITAR ,ON OUR SUMMER TOUR WITH BAGATELLE WHEN HE WAS OVER FROM THE STATES ,BUT ALAS IT WAS NOT TO BE .GREAT MEMORIES OF THE MUSICAL TIMES ,AND THE LAUGHS WE SHARED . NEVER TOO FAR FROM MY THOUGHTS.AND NOW ROCKIN IN THE FREE WORLD ..KEN DOYLE.

fiona Carson

December 22, 2020

What wonderful memories I have of Brian. Entertaining us all at the Blarney Stone! I will never forget him.

Paul Verschoyle

December 22, 2019

You are always in my thoughts. Paul Verschoyle

February 15, 2013

My Dearest Brian,

We met at the Blarney Stone and I had the privilege of getting to know you as a man and musician at the Blarney Stone. Remember the earthquake we felt at the apartment? I ran outside and stood there. Then I called my parents. Remember the earthquake sitting in your car at the restaurant? It felt as though someone was underneath the car pushing it up and down. We were so freaked out. When Angela Fealy called me to tell me you'd passed away, I cried. None of us know when God decides it's our time to go. That's His decision. So many memories. Your perfection in recording Bob Bolton and Angela Fealey's CD....it took hours upon hours. So many beautiful memories at the Blarney Stone with Jimmy Mac and Danny O'Connell. Trips to Arizona and Chicago and Michigan to meet my family. After we parted (at Denny's) I had the pleasure of introducing my daughter, Megan Elizabeth to your dauther Jessica. They played together at McDonalds. My daughter still informs people of the fact her mom used to live with Brian Bayenes, the "guy who was in the movie, The Titanic". You were a very special person in my life. Rest in peace, my friend.

Tom Dermody

October 4, 2011

We are shocked and saddened to see Brian's obituary while trying to contact him to play for our Christmas party. For the past two years Brian had come to the Imperial Valley and delighting all with his talent and warm personality. We had hoped he would be joining us again and bringing Jessica to dance this year. Our deepest sympathies to the his family and friends. May he rest in peace.

Father Tom Dermody
and the Claddagh Club

Pattie

June 21, 2011

I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Brian's passing - far too soon! His music and kindness has touched so many, thank you Brian. Condolences to his loved ones.

Alice Clark

April 7, 2011

The mid 80's was a magickal time for music in Clairmont. I'm so glad I got to be apart of it. I just found out today of your passing. You are sorely missed. Thank you Brian.

Anastasia Burger

March 15, 2011

I am literally shocked and deeply saddened by Brian's passing. I just googled his name to see if he might be playing on St. Patrick's Day. Last time I saw him was in June. My husband and I met him at the Blarney Stone years ago and we followed him everywhere. He became a dear friend and I bought his Celtic Guitar CD for many friends and family. I just can't believe it! I would like to know what took this wonderful person from us, but I understand if it is private. My deepest sympathy to your family. Rest in Peace my friend. You always brightened my day.

Jim Corcoran

February 4, 2011

Brian you were a brother, a friend, and a hero to me.
I cherished the ground you stood on. You were an unbelievable dad to your beautiful daughter Jessica, and a wonderful partner to Rebecca.
We had some great times together (*to many to contemplate) in Bray , San Diego, Berlin, Belgium, Portugal, and Poulaphouca.
When you passed away I felt I had been hit by a steam train, and I still don't know which way is up!

Ken Reilly

January 31, 2011

I just had to write this, even though my wife had already posted on behalf of both of us. I knew Baynser in the 90s when I was living in San Diego. He was a quick witted, generous, interesting and friendly guy - and that's as a person. His talents as a musician were very influential and I almost never missed him playing. I lived close to the Blarney Stone and went there to see him religiously. Even if I'd been out most of the night with friends or in another pub or whatever, I would stop into the Blarney to catch his talent. I knew what he was - a one off. I've never wanted to miss these people when I come in contact with them...I'm sure that's unanimous. As a guitarist myself, I learned so much from watching him play. He would get lost in what he was doing if he was playing to three people or three hundred.
I have precious memories (and photos) of my daughter and Jessica playing together in his house. I will never forget you Brian - not for an instant. Rest in peace, my friend.

Tim Uliasz

January 28, 2011

I am a little stunned to be writing this. I will miss having lunch with Brian as well as his music. We would talk about music,guitars,politics,and Jessica. One of my favorite memories from the Blarney Stone days, is Brian and I talking for a hours ,in the parking lot, about becomming a dad. He wanted to be the best dad he could. We discussed many issues of parenting and he felt a bit less scarred. He obviously became a good dad. He was very proud of you Jessica. I will miss you Brian, Tim Uliasz

January 27, 2011

MEMORIAL MASS FOR BRIAN
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A Memorial Mass will be held at the Church of Most Holy Redeemer, Bray, on Sat. 12 February at 2pm.
All friends and admirers of Brian are welcome, and it is expected that there will be musical contributions from some of Brian's friends.

As Brian's brother, I am greatly moved by all the comments posted here, and they accurately describe the Brian I knew for 55 years.

A hugely talented guitarist, with a unique style which could, and did, bring tears to many eyes.

Professional to his fingertips, like our grandfather, he was an invaluable source of advice and encouragement to me in my amateur forays into music recording.

Kindhearted, caring, and generous, like our father, he will be greatly missed by many people in Bray and San Diego.

Seamus Baynes

Ken Doyle

January 24, 2011

Brian Baynes got me started playing the bass guitar, thaught me all the right stuff , Helped me to buy a beautifull 1965 fender jazz bass back in 1972 which I still have ,and now will cherish even more,We played in various bands togrther ,And traveled to knebworth for the launch of the Pink Floyd Dark Side of The Moon.Sadly we will now never ger to remeniss over a glass of wine or a cold beer Brian was a wonderfull musician , and I will always carry with me Brians influance in my musicial tool box... Ken Doyle And Liam Reilly, Bagatelle....Rock And Roll Never Forgets xxx..

January 21, 2011

We are really saddened to hear the news of Brian's death. He always made it a special night for us when he played at The Blarney. God bless and rest in peace, Artie and Helen McMurray

Debbie Maldonado

January 20, 2011

Ive only heard about this today. I have such fond memories of you and Jimi Mac at the Blarney Stone. You were always so kind to us. Go with God, my friend.

Dawn Beebee-Doss

January 17, 2011

I have only just learned tonight of Brian's passing. I am saddened beyond words. I met Brian back in the mid-eighties and watched him grow into an amazing musician and entertainer. The world is a little less bright for me tonight, knowing that he is no longer in it.

Mairtin Brady

January 16, 2011

We were shocked to hear of this sad news. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. My family lived up the road in Bray (Brady's at 3 Carlton Villas) and I have vivid memories of a happy, smiling Brian walking up Novara Avenue guitar in hand heading to play somewhere. It would brighten your day to meet him.

Dave Lawrence

January 15, 2011

Sad loss! Good times at the Blarney i recall. At peace now Bryan.

Patty Hall

January 8, 2011

Such sad news that I just received this morning. Brian produced and contributed to my first two CDs and I'm broken-hearted that he has passed on. He gave so fully of his talents and musicianship and personality and encouragement, and Jessica did too. Jessica and Rebecca, my love and thoughts are with you. I will never forget how much Brian has given to my musical life. Love, Patty

Greg Timmons

January 7, 2011

We will miss you Brian.

Stephanie Kearns

January 5, 2011

Dear Rebecca & Jessica, We have fond memories of the brief times we were able to share with you and Brian as a family. There is one especially memorable time at Emmo and Keikos when Brian had the VW bus and let the kids, (Jess, Maeve and Patrick) all go up inside with the top popped. That is how they remember Brian and Jess, laughing and joking and playing. He was a talented, loving guy. If we can be of any service to you, even long distance, please don't hesitate to contact us. Thank God, he left such a body of work for you both to draw strength from.
Love from Stephanie, Gerard, Patrick and Maeve Kearns.

bill craig

January 5, 2011

I can't believe I'm writing this. Brian's gone and I can't just call him up and talk guitars anymore. He was a dear friend and wonderful musician and like many others I will miss him,his music and his great sense of humour.

Paschal & Andrea Dwane

January 5, 2011

Brian will be sorely missed by us.

Bonnie Sloane

January 3, 2011

Brian's love and passion while playing the guitar at the Blarney Stone is a vivid memory of mine. He and his music will be greatly missed. I will never forget his talent & friendship.
Prayers to his Family & Friends.

Ken & Bina Reilly

January 3, 2011

We're shocked and very saddened to hear of Brian's passing. Met him in the Blarney in the 90's and loved him and his music. What a beautiful person. Condolences to Rebecca and Jessica.

Linda Brawley-Carroll

January 3, 2011

I will always think of Brian when I hear "Spanish Lady" and "Handyman" which he used to sing for me in the old days back at Rosie's. Eamon and I will miss you forever Brian.

Chris Aaron

January 2, 2011

I was fortunate enough to meet Brian through a close friend that shares the stage with him in heaven. You will be missed but not forgotten.

January 2, 2011

We are shocked and saddened at the loss of such a warm and talented person. Great memories of those teenage years in Bray and Greystones in the '70's. Our deepest condolences to Brian's family in USA and Ireland. Keith and Miriam Ryan

A beautiful double rainbow two days after Brian left us

Chandra Visser

January 1, 2011

Chandra Visser

January 1, 2011

Brian, we will all miss you greatly, thank you for all of the wonderful gifts of music you have given us over the years. Your soul is free now, and you can drift away.....

Eamon Carroll

January 1, 2011

Thank you Brian for being a big part of my life. I will really miss you.

January 1, 2011

There is an old Gaelic saying, "Ni Bheid a Leithead Aris Ann," meaning, "We'll never see his likes again." RIP my friend.
Lin Jakary, San Diego, CA

Tony M

December 31, 2010

I first met Brian at the "Blarney Stone" in the 80's! Thanks for the Irish folk songs, I've cherished them for 20 odd years.

December 31, 2010

Brian, Thank you for all the joy your brought to so many people. You touched a our hearts and souls with your talents. Your music, your personality and all your heart. We all love you Brian Gerry Kirkpatrick San Diego

Liam O'Neil

December 30, 2010

love ya brian, thanks for giving me my first guitar in life... you are and were an amazing mann!! :)

Patrick Fitzgerald

December 30, 2010

Go with God, rest well..

Chriscilla Arman

December 30, 2010

Oh Brian...last time I saw you I didn't realize it would be the last time. You were such a joy. You are up there amoungst a lot of very good souls. Rest in peace friend.

Kathy Ford Baker

December 30, 2010

I, too, enjoyed Brian's music greatly back in the Blarney Stone days. He will be greatly missed!

Martina Bartsch

December 30, 2010

Johannes, Anthea and I will miss Brian very much. Meeting him gave us great pleasure, and we shall always remember him as great friend, musician and very loving father.
May he rest in peace and be a guardian angel to his daughter and family.
Johannes, Anthea and Martina Bartsch, Kassel, Germany

Bob Redelings

December 29, 2010

We will truly miss you Brian. Your spirit and music will always be in our hearts.
Peace be with you,
The Shamrockers

Jerry McMorrow

December 28, 2010

Heaven just got a wonderful musician... God Bless you Brian!
Jerry ,Marion, Siobhan and Seamus McMorrow ( San Diego Ca.)

Dan O'Connell

December 28, 2010

Although I haven't seen Brian in many years, I was so sad to hear of his passing. He was a wonderful friend with a great heart. I will always remember the great times we had working at the Blarney Stone. God Bless Brian.

December 28, 2010

Your music will always be heard in my heart. I was priviliged to have been accompanied by Brian's strings. My sincerest condolences to your loving family.

Fiona Carson
Boston, Mass.

December 28, 2010

Keep his song in your Heart's He was so very talented & Loved by Our whole family we will truly miss him. May he rest in peace & Go with God
Dominick & Mary Scanlon & Family
Jim & Valerie Tuck
Matt & Angela Suchma & Son's

Jack Butler

December 28, 2010

Brian may have been the most gifted guitarist I have had the pleasure of knowing, I have been enjoying his Celtic Guitar CD a lot recently. It was only six weeks ago that we shared the stage at our close friend Craig Orth's wake at the Imperial House. They both are unreplaceable.

Paul Verschoyle

December 28, 2010

I have had the privilege of playing Bass guitar with Brian in the early 70s the first band that Brian played. I wish him the very best in his new world and pay deepest sympathy tohis wife and children.
Sincerely
Paul Verschoyle
Bray
Co. Wicklow
Ireland.

Peter Damashek

December 28, 2010

You were inspirational. You'll be missed. Love and condolences to your family.

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