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KADAR, FRANK S. AVCM, USNR, RETIRED Frank passed away on October 19, 2010, as a result of a short battle with lung cancer. He was born on October 22, l936. He went through Navy boot camp the summer of 1954, and graduated from high school in January 1955. He fulfilled a two year obligation with the Navy, returned home, met and married Betty. He wanted to go back into the Navy. In the following years, he was involved in recruiting and training at NAS GrosseIle MI, NAS Millington TN, NAS Los Alamitos CA, NAS Alameda CA, NAS Atlanta GA, and NAS San Diego CA. He officially retired in 1985 as a Master Chief. During his time in the service, he used the NCFA program to complete his Bachelors degree, and when he retired from the service, he completed his Masters degree in Computer Science. He worked as a consultant for NTA for 12 years. As a member of Solana Beach Presbyterian Church, he ushered for 20 years, serving as head usher for the last four years. Upon retiring from the usher commitment, he proceeded on to become a docent at the new USS Midway Museum. He was a docent forsix years until the lung cancer made it difficult for him to speak. He was looking forward to returning to the Midway to continue his work as a docent. He is survived by his wife Betty of 52 years, his daughter Denise and his son (in-law) Tony. He leaves many other family members and friends behind. He was the light of our lives and left us way too soon. But God needed another Master Chief aboard and He called Frank to duty. The memorial and reception will be held at Solana Beach Presbyterian Church at 120 Stevens Ave., Solana Beach, CA 92075 on Saturday, November 13, 2010, at 3:00 p.m.. Please come and share in a celebration of his life.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 31, 2010.

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Denise Kadar

November 29, 2010

No girl could ask for a better father. Dad was my anchor in my childhood. He was both protective and willing to let me make my own mistakes. I grew up knowing that my father was a person that was willing to lay his life down for his beliefs. As an adult, Dad was the role model I looked to when making the tough choices in life. He was my pun buddy, my football buddy and my partner in silly crimes. He taught me about history through the books he so loved. He taught to respect myself by respecting me. He taught me to be confident in myself by being confident in me. Dad taught me about honor, respect and faith simply by being. I only hope that I can live up to his standards. I miss you Dad more than I can ever express.

From the Memorial Service

Tony Fincher

November 29, 2010

I'm sure I wasn't what Frank expected in a son-in-law, but from the moment we met, he was never less than respectful and friendly to me. Over the two decades I knew him, we became quite good friends. People say this stuff sometimes when it's not so, but from where I sit, in all but name he was a Father to me.

I miss him a lot.

November 14, 2010

I wish to write a short message in this guestbook. I met Mr. Kadar through Denise 25 years ago, when I worked with Denise in a girl scouts camp. As I come from Holland and had no home to stay the weekends at, the Kadar family often invited me to come to their house. I have so many good memories of this family. Mr. Kadar picked us up at camp, took us to the beach, to a concert in San Diego and many other nice things. I also remember him making (or eating) a huge cake for 4th July.
My deepest sympathy for Mrs. Kadar, Denise and Tony. I wish you strength and power, because I know how much you miss your husband and father.

Love from Anja Koenekoop, Alphen aan den Rijn, the Netherlands

Diane (Hilton) LeBlanc

November 13, 2010

Dearest Aunt Betty, Denise and Tony... My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for putting this picture on here. This is the man I have such fond memories of. A very kind, soft spoken, intelligent, gentle man. I look at this and memories of you, My Mom, Dad and Uncle Frank sitting at the kitchen table playing cards. The VW camper pulling up to the curb in front of my childhood home. I still cherish and treasure a scrapbook from Mammoth Cave and a sailor hat. The two of you were very important memories of my childhood and no matter the miles that have been between us....I've always held a place in my heart for you. I'm so happy my sister and my Mom can be with you today. I wish I could of been there, too. Please know I'm thinking of you and always do. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you.....Always, Diane (Arthur and Darlynne's 2nd daughter)

Brent Englehart

November 12, 2010

I do not remember much, and have had reason to regret it, but there are memories that will always remain with me: Thanksgivings with Frank talking about the jets in a corner to all who wished to know; a Re-wedding with him ominously in the corner; and an attempt at the Meat Cake. But the more one knows him, either from experiencing his presence, or through the memories of his loved ones, the less one is able to forget him.

Lisa and Roger Krueger

November 12, 2010

We were greatly saddened by Frank's passing. He was an extraordinary man that everyone always had good things to say about. Our deepest sympathies go to Betty, Denise, Tony and the rest of the family.

David & Brenda Horvath

November 7, 2010

David and I wish to express our deepest sympathy for you and your family. We did not see each other often, yet we thought about you often thru out the year.
You are in our prayers and thoughts.
David and Brenda

November 5, 2010

The family of Frank Kadar wishes to thank everyone for their assistance and kind thoughts during this time of grief.
Betty, Denise and Tony

Sharon Larsen

November 3, 2010

I first met Frank and Betty about 16 years ago while ushering at Solana Beach Presbyterian Church. Later my husband Carl got to know Frank too as an usher--and we both admired the hard work that he and Betty did as head ushers. We were struck by Frank's calm demeanor, kindness, and modesty. A few years ago Carl enjoyed a private tour of the USS Midway conducted by Frank. We were so sorry to hear about his illness this year and so saddened to learn of his passing. He will be missed. He was a fine Christian man. Our thoughts and prayers are with Betty and family. May your Christian faith and the happy memories comfort you in the days ahead. God bless you.

Frank and Betty during one of my visits to SD

Brian Marsh

November 3, 2010

I will remember Frank as a good man, endeared family member and friend. I have enjoyed my visits over the years and the special treatment that has always made me feel welcome. I cherish my memories.

Erwin Vigilia

November 2, 2010

I was very saddened to hear about Frank's passing, and will miss our morning chats as we walked our dogs. I first met Frank when he held Cookie over my fence so that Malachi could say "hi" five years ago. A very kind and thoughtful man.

Anne Englehart

November 2, 2010

Betty and Frank are like second parents to me and my family. They helped make Mine and Mark's wedding and life together as we saw them very special. We love you!! Brent and Brie were closer to you than to my own parents. Thank you both. We love you and pray for you today and always.

Consuelo Sommers

November 2, 2010

Frank and his dog Cookie were a fixture in our neighborhood. His kind and loving manner endeared him to both people and their dogs.
We looked for Frank on our daily excursions. He always had a kind word and gave your dog a soft pat on the head. We will miss seeing him around. Much love to his wife Betty, daughter Denise, and son in law Tony.
Consuelo, Chris, Olivia, and Annie-(Cookie's blk/wht, poodle friend) Sommers

Karin Hanson

November 2, 2010

We are so saddened by the loss of Frank. He was such a kind man. My 2 year old son is enthralled with Cookie, and when we would pass Cookie and Frank on a neighborhood walk, Frank would always stop and let my son pat Cookie and tell him various stories. I could tell he was a patient and sweet man. On our walks these last weeks, my son still looks for Cookie and "Cookie's Dada". I know Frank had many successes in his life, but I can add "gaining the adoration of a 2yr old boy" to the list. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.

Aaron & Andrea Kendall

November 2, 2010

Aaron and I wish to express our heartfelt sympathy at your loss. We knew Frank too briefly but could tell what a special person he was.

Gene McKenna

November 1, 2010

Frank and Betty opened their door, and their lives to me, when I was little more than a stranger. In the few months that I lived with them, They made me feel more like a brother, than a cousin. I will miss Frank deeply. His kindness and gentilness made a very strong impact on my life.
Gene McKenna.

stephanie Horvath

November 1, 2010

Hi family in california from family in florida. Wishing I could be there in person but know that I am there with you in my thoughts and prayers.

With his grand-niece. A natural!

Kim Mycek

October 31, 2010

I joined this family less than 2 years ago, but Frank has always treated me as if I was always a part of the family. With kindness, caring and love. He will be missed.

Joy Crane

October 31, 2010

Frank was a dear friend to George and I. We had many great times with he and Betty. I will miss him. JOY Crane

October 31, 2010

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Rhoda Stephens-Yoder

October 31, 2010

Over the years I would pass Frank as he walked Cookie in the neighborhood (or was it Cookie that walked Frank ???). He was a kind, gentle man. I am saddened at his passing. His family can rest assurred that he was a much loved fixture in our neighborhood.

October 31, 2010

From Betty, his wife of 52 years, he never complained about his illness or how he felt. He had chemo the day before (#8) and was getting ready for two radiation treatments and then onto chemo maintenance until remission. We truly believed he was going to beat the cancer. He left too soon, he was the light of our lives, but he has answered a greater calling.

Teri Patterson

October 31, 2010

I am the neighbor who saw Cookie that morning, and alerted Betty. When I arrived at the site and saw what happened, I sobbed. Not only have I just lost a dear relative, but I also knew Frank as a fine human being. I walk the neighborhood daily, and for the past two years, I'd meet him and Cookie somewhere along that route. Just exchanging short pleasantries, I sensed a fine human being of integrity and kindness. I used to say, "Hi, Cookie's dad," and he would just smile. Never once, when I asked him how he was, did he ever indicate not feeling well. It has been an honor to know him for the short time I did. Our loss, heaven's gain. Rest in peace.

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