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GERTRUD BAYES Obituary

BAYES, GERTRUD E. Mrs. Gertrud E. Bayes, age 75, passed away on Tuesday, November 15, 2010. She was born December 28, 1934 in Heidelberg, Germany. She was preceded in death by her husband William E. Bayes in October 2009. She is survived by her children, Thomas Totoris and wife Eleanor of Corrales, NM, Martina Snyder of San Marcos, CA, Ursula Antinelli and husband Tom of San Jose, CA, Charles Totoris and wife Carmen of San Antonio, TX, Michael Totoris and wife Wendy of San Antonio, TX, Victor Totoris and wife Michelle of Carlsbad, CA, Martha McCallop and husband Keith, Philadelphia, PA, Carol Furtado and husband Mike of Roseville, CA and Holly St. Andrews of Gloversville, NY; numerous grandchildren; brothers, Bruno Stottmeister and Wilfred Gembe, both of Heidelberg, Germany. The visitation will be held on Saturday, November 20, 2010 from 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. at Sunset North Funeral Home. The funeral service will be held on Sunday, November 21, 2010 at 2:00 p.m. at the funeral home. The graveside service and interment will be held on Monday, November 22, 2010 at 8:30 a.m. at Ft. Sam Houston National Cemetery. To sign the online guestbook, please log on to www. sunsetnorthfuneralhome.com Arrangements are with: Sunset North Funeral Home 910 North Loop 1604 East San Antonio, TX 78232 210-495-7770

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Nov. 18, 2010.

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Martha Totoris-McCalop

July 27, 2011

Today was another sad day remembering my mom...I miss her so much and I just want to hug and kiss her and tell her how much I love her!

Martha Totoris-McCalop

February 4, 2011

I am missing you terribly today, Mom. I wish I could call and talk to you. But, I rest in the fact that one day we shall be together again and we can sing & laugh forever.

Susanna Tekut

November 29, 2010

I will miss you Trudy and remember you always. I have warm memories of the time we spent in New Jersey, laughing and dancing around with our children. God bless, Susi!

Tanja Williams

November 29, 2010

Aunt Trudy will be missed! I have fond memories of her and the times I spent with the family during holidays. Love to all and God bless during your time of loss.

Tanja Williams

November 29, 2010

You will be missed Aunt Trudy! I have fond memories of holidays spend together and the kindness and warmth you showed. Bless your family at this time of loss.

Tanja Williams

November 29, 2010

I remember the wonderful memories spend with the family and how kind and loving those times were growing up. I will miss you Aunt Trudy and am sorry for your families loss.-Tanja

Sis

November 25, 2010

An era has ended. I will miss you Trudy, I'm so glad Bill found you and shared you with our family.

Steven Rivara

November 24, 2010

Sorry to hear about your Mother, My thoughts and prayers are with you while you go through this very difficult time.
Steven E...

Chase Totoris

November 24, 2010

We will miss you so much grandma. You will not be forgotten. I will keep you in my prayers.

Tom and Ele

November 23, 2010

Mother, you are dearly missed. Thank you for the love and attention over the years. You were tough when you needed to be but you always wanted the best for us. Rest well and we'll see you again in our Lord's house.

Brian and Maysoon

November 20, 2010

We love you so much Grandma and we keep you in our prayers.

Rick Whalen

November 19, 2010

I am very sorry for your loss Martha, please let me know if I can be of assistance. Your friend Rick.

Jean Ward

November 18, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of Trudy's passing and offer our heartfelt condolences from the Ward Family and the Hogan families.

Martha Totoris-McCalop

November 18, 2010

I love you Mom and will miss you terribly.

Martha Totoris-McCalop

November 18, 2010

I love you Mom and I will miss you terribly. - Martha

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