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JEFFREY SCHEIDEL Obituary

SCHEIDEL, JEFFREY C. July 18,1958 to December 2, 2010 Jeff Scheidel was the oldest of five children and was born in San Diego. For those who knew Jeff, it was clear that his priorities were his family and his profession, both of which he was very passionate about. He was proud to be a civil engineer and past president of the Associated General Contractors of America, San Diego Chapter. Jeff also had a passion for the law, which was fulfilled through the completion of his Jurist Doctorate of Law, and membership with The State Bar of California. As an integral part of the family business - Scheidel Contracting and Engineering Inc. - he was committed to building infrastructure for the community, which he valued greatly. Among his favorite things were boating and fishing with his family, and generally creating unique experiences for his children. He also enjoyed coaching football and attending the Cathedral Catholic High School football and lacrosse games. His sense of humor punctuated his life, as he was always ready with the next line. He loved to laugh, which naturally engaged those around him. After being diagnosed with esophageal cancer less than two months ago and then enduring the most aggressive chemotherapy treatment available, his journey in life was cut short at just 52 years of age. Jeff is survived by his loving wife, Marta, and his four beautiful children, Shalyn, Sydni, Justin, and Jacob, along with his son-in-law Jeff, and two grandchildren, Grace and Wyatt. His mother, Carolyn, brother and sisters, Kristina, Suzanne, Alisa, and Matthew, and four nieces are very proud of their son, brother, and uncle. His family loved him dearly and will miss him every day. The viewing will be held at Poway-Bernardo Mortuary on Wednesday, December 8th, from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m., with a Rosary Service at 7 p.m. Funeral services for Jeff will be held at St. Martin of Tours Catholic Church in La Mesa on Thursday, December 9, 2010 at 10 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Jacob Scheidel Benefit Donation Fund at Wells Fargo Bank, account #9553579856. This fund has been created to assist with the education of Jeff's youngest son, Jacob.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Dec. 7, 2010.

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Leslie Saint-Maux

December 20, 2010

Dear Marta,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sitting at your wedding, I remember how happy you were that day and it is evident that Jeff was an incredible husband, Father, and friend to many. You and I had gone through so much together as young kids and to see how far you had come with such a wonderful man and now, your wonderful children, it was enlightening. Marta, I can not imagine what you are going through, I only want you to know, I am here if you need anything and would love to be there for you and the kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I will always love you. Your friend, Leslie

Carlynne Allbee

December 19, 2010

Thank you for publishing a complete obituary for Jeff to let us know what happened. Knowing him through both the Tumbleweed Riding Club and Southwest Pinto, his energy level, his great outlook, it is a total surprise. I remember his quick smile and laugh, especially when hearing good jokes. He was so full of life that at least now we know what it was that cut it short so fast.

I hear it so often on television shows that it sounds like a cliche, but here it is really important and meaningful to say this: I am so sorry for your loss, not just to his family but his friends and co-workers.

You chose a great photo of Jeff - so much like we remember him at the horse shows.

Thank you for sharing him with us,

Vickie Gardenhire

December 14, 2010

So sorry Marta and Family.... You all are in my prayers daily.... God bless you and keep you in his loving arms.....

~ Vickie Gardenhire

Mary Jane and Jeff Barger

December 13, 2010

Dear Marta and family,
In talking with you via phone over Thanksgiving I was worried to hear about Jeff's condition. I am so sorry of his passing. Marita is very sad to hear of this news too. You know you always have us to call on. We will keep you in our prayers.

December 12, 2010

Dear Marta,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Jeff. I haven't seen either of you in ages but remember the fun we had at your New Years Eve parties. Jeff was such a fun and generous guy, everyone who knew him will surely be sorry for his loss. My deepest sympathies.
Allone Twomey

December 10, 2010

To Marta and the Scheidel children,

I first met Jeff while working with the Southwest Pinto Club and out at Tumbleweed. It was because of his hard work, tenacity and forward thinking with Carol Albino that Southwest Pinto moved itself into the limelight for many years. He continued to support me when I took over the reins as President and allowed the legacy he had helped to create to flourish.

He was also a patient of mine and a friend of great value. I will miss his presence and especially his infectious laugh and smile which captured any room he was in. He truly was a man of his word in a world full of pretenders. It is an honor and pleasure to say that I knew Jeff Scheidel as a friend.

May God bring you comfort and peace during this time of sorrow.

Carl and Josie Boeck

Frank & Silvia Adame

December 10, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Wade Enniss

December 10, 2010

To all the Scheidel Family

My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time. I have always felt respect for your family, especially Jeff. His passing is a loss to all. The world needs more good men not less. May the lord watch over all of you! Sydni: You did a wonderful job speaking at his service today. Your dad would be proud of you! I wish only the best for all of you! May time take your pain and leave you Peace and good memories.

December 9, 2010

Dear Carolyn, Suzanne and family, I was so sorry to read of Jeff's passing, please accept my deepest sympathy. Sincerely, Chris Paterson

Casciola Family

December 8, 2010

Marta & Family-

We are shocked and deeply saddend by the passing of Jeff. He was taken much too soon and will be greatly missed. We are thankful for the good times we had and for having you and your family in our lives. Anyone who has ever met Jeff could feel the love he had for his family, friends and life. We will always keep Jeff, you and your family in our hearts.

-Mike, Tracey & Nick Casciola

December 8, 2010

Dear Marta and Family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences over the loss of Jeff. He was an able leader, husband and father, and his presence and influence will be sorely missed. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
The Garners
Rose, Will and Jeanie

carlos gonzalez

December 8, 2010

With love and respect we join you in this time of sorrow, may god bless all of the scheidel family, from Carlos & Yadira Gonzalez

Molly and Burnet Wohlford

December 8, 2010

We am so saddened by your sudden loss. We wish we would have met Jeff and seen first hand what a wonderful dad and family man he was. We can only thank him for doing such a wonderful job. He will be missed by many. God Bless your family in this difficult time.
Molly and Burnet Wohlford (Maloney)

Genie and Ian Holmes

December 8, 2010

Jeff will forever hold a place in our hearts as he was always warm and welcoming. He was an intelligent, wise and passionate man. Although he will be greatly missed, we are grateful we had the opportunity for his life to touch our own. We wish Jeff peace and happiness as he enters the house of the Lord.

My "Knight in Shining Armor" riding a bulldozer

Beth Broome and Jim Kirk

December 8, 2010

Dear Family and Friends of Jeff,
Jeff was my "knight in shining armor" riding a bulldozer. He brought to life my dream horse property on Rio Maria Road. 12 years and a fire after Jeff graded my arena, I have no puddles and the base holds firm. The areas he helped landscape are flourishing. We'll miss him terribly. Our deepest condolences,

Joe & Tiffany Petropolis

December 8, 2010

It was a pleasure working with Jeff through the years. I always admired the way Jeff operated & was a gentlemen no matter what the project entailed. GOD bless, my deepest sympathy, Psalm 23. Joe & Tiffany Petropolis

December 8, 2010

Dearest Marta & Family,

With sympathy we send my thoughts and prayers. Jeff was a good man with a heart of gold. He walks with God and that is comforting. God bless you and your family.

With Love,
Janet and Ken Stallman

December 7, 2010

Marta & Family~
I am so sorry for your loss of Jeff. You and your beautiful family were part of my family; Mike,Tracey and Nick Casciola. I loved being with you all at the games and you including me
in your hospitalty including me in the
payoffs. God Bless you all!

Sincerely, Gloria Jackson (Tracey's Mom)

December 7, 2010

To the Scheidel Family, We were very saddend to learn of Jeff's passing. He was a great role model to all and he accomplished many things in his short time with us. We have many good memories of Jeff and he will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Fred and Mary Lou Guglielmetti

December 7, 2010

I cant't belive Jeff is gone. We spent so manny years working together thru the good an bad. I know how much he loved his family.Such a loss for the family. My deepest sympathies. Mike Klein

December 7, 2010

To the Scheidel family
I can't belive Jeff is gone. We spent so many years together. I know how much he loved his family. My heart goes out to the entire family for such a loss. Mike Klein

Lydia Thomson

December 7, 2010

Dear Marta and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Jeff and his battle with cancer. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
The Thomson Family
Scott, Lydia, Andrew, Heather and Sarah

javier and christina gonzalez

December 7, 2010

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

david reckling

December 7, 2010

To the Scheidel Family, words cannot express our sadness for your loss. Jeff was a wonderful man with a great heart and will be greatly missed.
David and Connie Reckling, Ramona, California

Loren Godes

December 7, 2010

To the Scheidel family:The Hydro-Scape family has you in our thoughts and prayers.

December 7, 2010

Marta and family, we are very sadden by Jeff's passing. He will be missed.

Jeff and Arlene Allen

Scott and Kim Higgins

December 7, 2010

As friends and neighbors of the Scheidel's, we will surely miss Jeff's smiling face. He was and is an inspiration to all he touched.

December 7, 2010

To The Scheidel Family

Jeff was a great man, we had a lot in common, he gave me a chance with my trucking company and I will always be greatful. His smile and sense of hummor will be greatly missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Tom & Darrin Hardy

Jim and Anne Wright

December 7, 2010

We were so sorry and saddened to read the news about Jeff. Carolyn, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Taylor Coffroth

December 7, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

December 7, 2010

We miss you Uncle Jeff

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