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JOHN BENTLEY Obituary

BENTLEY, JOHN "JACK" E. Nov. 6, 1931 to Oct. 13, 2010 Born in Oak Park, IL. Jack graduated from Miami University (Ohio) in 1954 and married his college sweetheart, Rosemary Heuser, that summer. That same year they moved to San Diego where Jack was stationed in the Navy. After serving his country, Jack worked first for IBM and then retired from Coldwell Banker Commercial. Jack was also an active member of the San Diego Fly Fishers. Jack is survived by Rosemary, his wife of 56 years, sons, Jeff and Scott, daughter Jennifer, sister Judy Rule, brother Phil Bentley and five wonderful grandchildren: Ryan, Shayna, Jordan, Sean and Cole. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Foothills United Methodist Church or the Alzheimer's Association of San Diego. Memorial services to be held on Saturday, October 30th, 11:00 a.m. at the Foothills United Methodist Church, 4031 Avocado Blvd., La Mesa, CA 91941.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Oct. 19, 2010.

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Marty Aspenleiter

October 14, 2019

Rosemary and family. Thinking of you all today. Jack was a great man. Our best to you.

Frank Forest

November 1, 2010

For forty-four years I've carried a lasting memory of Jack and his willingness to help many inexperienced business professionals begin their career. To me...Jack was a role model of a Sales Representative at an impressionable time when their was an absence of role models. He lent a helping hand in so many different ways both professionally and personally that truly made him one of a kind!

Vaya con Dios Mi Amigo!

Frank Forest

Cathy Jones

October 31, 2010

October 31, 2010
Every time Jack called our house and if I answered the phone, he would ask me what I was reading. He loved to hear me talk about books. He and Kenny went on many a boys’ ski trip, they went to Alaska together to fish, and they played a lot of golf.

We just returned from Jack’s lovely memorial service and people were joking about his frugality. He may not have spent a lot of money but he spent a lot of time w/ people. He was also patient. He helped Kenny learn to fly fish. He watched our two children grow up. He helped our daughter, Courtney, w/ her tennis game. He came to our son, Brad’s, soccer games.

We and all the CB family will miss Jack.

Kenny and Cathy Jones, Del Cerro

October 29, 2010

Dear Rosemary, Scott, Jeff, and Jennifer.
Jack will be missed by us - so much fun to be around. Still remember the ribbing he received about being unwilling to replace his old Mustang-good decision.

Rosemary, our deepest sympathies go out to you and your entire family.
Bob and Julie Richardson

Jim and Debbie Barnett

October 25, 2010

Dear Rosemary and family, our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all. We are grateful that we got to know Jack and spend time with you both here in Tucson.

October 21, 2010

A great mentor to many San Diego IBMers and a go-to guy when you wanted advice on how to" do it the right way ". A very special man and friend.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Rosemary,Jeff,Scott and Jenny.

Jan and Phil Callahan
Frisco, Texas

Marty Aspenleiter

October 21, 2010

Rosemary, Jeff, Scott, and Jenny, Our family's have been entwined as far back as I can remember. When you 1st added your family room, & sleeping under the ping pong table. Little League to tailgates and parties too many... I loved Jack. Love to you all. God Bless.

Don Puls

October 21, 2010

Hello Rosemary,

Nancy and I send our condolences. It's been many years since our time at Miami and then a brief social 'reunion' in the 50s, and sure do remember the fun times at ETHS.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

Don and Nancy Puls, Northfield, IL

October 20, 2010

To Rosemary and family...Jean Murphy and Dick Stickrod send our deepest sympathy, and will remember the good times waaay back when forever and ever. Thank you Lord for our life time Illinois friends, Rosemary and Jack. ETHS 1950...Rosemary graduated number one gal in our class of 502, June'50.

Randy and Nancy Wilkerson

October 19, 2010

Peace and light to you at this difficult time. May the many accomplishments of a life well-lived bring you comfort in the coming days.

October 19, 2010

Condolences to Jack's family-- Rosemary, Jeff, Scott, Jennifer. I have wonderful, happy memories from the days when our children were in Little League together. Jack was a good man and we all remember him fondly. Bernice Krehbiel

Doug Johnson

October 19, 2010

I am so sorry to hear that “Gentleman Jack” Bentley has passed away. Jack was such a friendly and thoughtful man. Jack always had a big smile and a positive attitude. He loved his family, IBM and the Navy. He served all three in an exemplary manner. It was a real pleasure to have known and worked with him at IBM. My condolences go out to the entire Bentley family.

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