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MONICA KHOURY Obituary

KHOURY, MONICA HOWE April 17, 1956 to December 18, 2010 Monica was freed from her earthly bounds and the pain she had suffered from the cancers that invaded her body for four years. She fought valiantly even to the end. She died at San Diego Hospice with her family and adored dog Audrey near where they had kept a long vigil for many days. Monica is survived by her husband Sam, her loving daughters Amber, Rosemary and Callie, her mother and stepfather Carol and Bill Irwin and many of her extended family. She was preceded in death by her father David Howe, her brothers Joseph and David and her sister Cindy who have surely joyfully received her in heaven. She was born in Tucson, Arizona, attended the University of Arizona there, moved to San Diego in 1977. Her primary career was her family. Even as a child, all she said she wanted to be was a mom and she was the best. Monica loved many things, but especially reading, gardening, scrapbooking and shopping, shopping, shopping, particularly with her three daughters in tow. A special thanks to the compassionate, caring staff at San Diego Hospice, especially nurses Tim and Maria. They all made her passing so much easier and more peaceful and we will always be grateful to them. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in her name to San Diego Hospice, Breast Cancer or American Cancer Society. "To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides."

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jan. 2, 2011.

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Jane Toone

September 2, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I was doing a search for a Monica Howe and this came up and I am not sure if your Monica is the same as mine. I worked in downtown San Diego with a Monica Howe many years ago in a law firm that had 4 floors we leased and Monica was a receptionist. My Monica was very tall and she had red hair. I cannot tell by this picture if it is the same Monica, but I have a feeling it might be. Please let me know if you think it might be so I will not continue to search. Again, I am sorry for your loss!

Jane McCaslin Toone

April 17, 2015

Today would have been your 59th birthday. I woke up this morning at about 5:00 thinking of you. It was at about that time on April 17, 1959 that you started your entrance into this world that is so empty without you now. I miss you every day, my love. Mom

Rosemary Khoury

April 17, 2015

Everything that is good in this house, in the garden, and in myself, comes back to you. Love you always.

Marthe Lawton

June 27, 2014

I think of your often, Monica. I miss you.

Lynn Moreen

June 12, 2013

To Monica's family,
I am so saddened by your loss. Monica was a good friend for many years and I will miss her deeply. She was an incredibly special person and a joy to be around.

January 7, 2013

Carol, My name is Beth Bryan, daughter of Florence Howe Bryan. I was doing a search for Monica and was sad to find she is in heaven. My mom made her transition April 2011. I have been going through her things. I came across photos of David and I thought Monica would like to have them. Maybe Monicaschildren would like them. My email [email protected] ...would love to connect with you. Much sympathy, Beth

Rosie

April 17, 2011

Mom, happy birthday...I loved you so much and I always will. I miss you so much, sometimes I don't think I can go on, but I know you would want me to try my hardest to be happy...and I am trying.
You were the smartest, most beautiful mom in the whole world...and I'm so lucky that I was your daughter.

D'anna McNamer

March 23, 2011

Monica, I remember your warmth. I met you when Amber was about 2 years old. I was single in those days. I loved spending time with you and your baby girl. Please give my husband in heaven a hug for me. You are in good hands.

D'anna

Ingrid Ekis

January 11, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Paulette Shuffler

January 8, 2011

Dearest Carol,
I just found out about Monica through Ellen at Gold's. She received a church bulletin and asked me about her. I am so very, very sorry for you and your family. I know how much you have all suffered and prayed, but Monica is now happier than ever and watching over her family. I hope to see you soon and my condolences to all the family.

D'Artagnan Lloyd

January 6, 2011

Monica touched my heart in ways beyond words. Her generosity, wisdom, and loving energy shine on bright as the morning sun. A lifetime of gratitude for time spent with dear Monica, near and far.

January 6, 2011

Dear Carol,

I cannot even imagine how one copes with a loss like that of Monica. What a beautiful person she was. I will always remember her smile. My heart goes out to you, dear friend, and to Bill and Sam and the girls.

Resrie

Carol and Mike Moore

January 3, 2011

Loving thoughts and warm hugs to Carol and Bill. Our love also to Monica's husband and beautiful daughters. Monica will live on in each of your memories.

Mrs. Susannah Berning

January 3, 2011

Dear Mrs. Irwin,

I am so sorry to hear about your daughter's death. I am sure that this has been hard on all of you. You were always so nice to me and got me involved in BSF (I am still in it) and I appreciate it. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Mrs. Susannah Berning

January 3, 2011

Dear Amber, Rosie, and Callie.
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. She was such a wonderful woman and always there for you. Your faith will get you through this and she will always be with you.

January 2, 2011

I knew Monica from our years at St Charles Borromeo Academy. I will always remember her. My prayers are with Sam, Amber, Rosie, Callie and everyone that Monica has touched though her amazing presence here with us. She was a great lady.
Annette Goncalves & Family

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