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PHYLLIS CRAWFORD Obituary

CRAWFORD, PHYLLIS (SILVA) Phyllis (Silva) Crawford, 64, of Roanoke, Virginia, daughter of Jesus and Phyllis Silva of San Diego, California, died on October 27, 2010 after a three year and four month battle with Stage IV renal cell carcinoma. Phyllis was a devoted wife, mother and friend. She was an active parishioner of Our Lady of Nazareth Catholic Church and member of the Secular Franciscan Order. A Roanoker for 21 years, Phyllis volunteered with the Christian Women's Club, trained as a court appointed special advocate with the Child Health Investment Partnership, and visited the sick as a pastoral care minister for OLN. In recent years she served as a docent at the Art Museum of Western Virginia and volunteered at Roanoke Area Ministries in their soup kitchen and served on their board. Phyllis was a graduate of Morse High School and attended San Diego State University. She starred in plays both in high school and in a North Carolina playhouse during the 1970s. She loved cooking and music with Frank Sinatra, Barbra Streisand and Michael Bublé being special favorites. She was an avid traveler, visiting over thirty countries in her lifetime, celebrating her fiftieth birthday on the Great Wall of China. Phyllis played tennis for years until her illness stopped her, but she remained a competitive yet congenial bridge player. Phyllis took nothing for granted. As the eldest of seven children of a truck driver, she experienced lean times growing up in San Diego. In the last ten years of her life serving the poor and hungry were most important to her. Her love of life and joyful spirit were an inspiration to many. Her beautiful, irresistible smile and laughter will never be forgotten. She is survived by her husband of 42 years, Dr. James Crawford; son, Joseph (wife: Leah) of California and Roanoke; daughter, Kelly (husband: Daniel Smith) of Falls Church, Virginia; and six siblings, Francie, Bebe, Sandra, Mary Lou, Sally and Art, as well as many nieces; nephews; in-laws and four stepgrandchildren, Devon, Tyler, Tony and Alexandra. A Rosary will be held at 7 p.m. on Friday, November 5, 2010, at Our Lady of Nazareth Catholic Church. A Memorial Mass will be held at 1 p.m. on Saturday, November 6, 2010, at Our Lady of Nazareth Catholic Church at 2505 Electric Road, Roanoke, Virginia 24018. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made directly to her favorite causes: Roanoke Area Ministries and/or Madonna House of Roanoke. At the very least, please pass along a kind act, word or deed with a smile in memory of Phyllis.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Nov. 3, 2010.

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ROSE CONTRERAS

November 10, 2010

Dear Jim and Family,
I'm am so sorry for your loss.I want to say what a beautiful write up in the obits,and to let you know that our church Mission Basilica San Diego de Alcala mentioned Phyliis name for prayers, which I though was nice. Phyllis was a beautiful person inside and out and she always had that beautiful smile.I am so happy that she was blessed with two children and traveled the world, she had a good life only gone to heaven too soon. I was lucky to have met and worked with her at Marston's and then be in her wedding. She will be deeply missed by all who met her. My prayers are with you and your family.

Suzanne Tardif, SFO

November 6, 2010

Phyllis is deeply missed by all of her Franciscan sisters and brothers. I am sure St. Francis and our Lord has welcomed you into their arms. Through your illness you showed many of us how to live. Prayers to her family and loved ones during this tremendous time of grief.

November 5, 2010

Phyllis will be a star that shines from the heavens on earth. Her smile was the love she expressed for life and others as she lived her life loving God and doing what she thought was best for others. She will be missed very much.
Marlene Groth

November 4, 2010

My heart feels your sorrow. I was lucky to have met you Phyllis a few years back. I worked with your wonderful sister Sally. With sympathy, and prayers, and love to the family,
Shirley Widick

Shirley Widick

November 4, 2010

My heart feels your sorrow. I was lucky to have met you Phyllis a few years back. I worked with your wonderful sister Sally. With sympathy, and prayers, and love to the family,
Shirley Widick

Angel Hardman

November 4, 2010

Auntie Phyllis your light will shine in our hearts forever!

Angel Hardman

November 4, 2010

Your light shines in our hearts always Auntie Phyllis!

November 4, 2010

Sally, your sister Phyllis was a beautiful woman. I saw her picture and thought it was you. I am sure that Phyllis was a wonderful sister. I know that God will comfort you and your families. Lydia Macy (Brentwood, CA)

November 3, 2010

Mija, your suffering has ended. But you live in the hearts of people who knew you, and had the privilege of seeing your beautiful smile and hearing your laugh. I know you are happy where you are, in the hands of the Lord you loved so much. Strength and comfort to all your family. Love, Auntie XXXOOO

Auntie Mendibles

November 3, 2010

Mija, your suffering has ended. But you live in the hearts of people who knew you, and had the privilege of seeing your beautiful smile and hearing your laugh. I know you are happy where you are, in the hands of the Lord you loved so much. Strength and comfort to all your family. Love, Auntie XXXOOO

sally macy

November 3, 2010

Phyllis, you will be missed dearly. You were an angel in life. I will miss your positiveness, your enthusiasm, and most of all your laughter. Sister Sally

Sally Macy

November 3, 2010

Phyllis, I miss you and love you. You will always be an angel in my heart. You were and always will be an inspiration to me. I'll pass it on as best I can. Sister Sally

Lisa Bush

November 2, 2010

Our heart goes out to the family and friends that Phyllis leaves behind. My son Joseph and I have had the honor of meeting Phyllis many summers back as we begin our trips to California during the summer vacations with Joanie. Phyllis always made us feel special and at home. Her laugh and her smile were amazing. Joseph and I loved her and were inspired by her love of life. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time.

Estelle Nichols Avner

November 2, 2010

Phyllis was truly one of God's angels. I met her 15 years ago when my beloved mother-in-law, Kathleen Nichols, was dying. Phyllis would visit her, representing the church, and when we met, I knew instantly how tremendously special she was. Kathleen, who had lived her whole life in Scranton, PA had only lived here a couple of years and had not had the opportunity to make many friends. Phyllis immediately became one of her dearest friends. Kathleen died at home and Phyllis had spent many hours visiting and comforting her. After that, I only saw Phyllis once several years ago when we ran into one another. When I saw her beautiful picture yesterday in the paper, I was filled with tremendous emotion remembering the vital and loving role she played in my mother-in-law's life when she needed love and comfort. I meet many people as I go through my daily life (as most of us do) and Phyllis was easy to remember and respect and appreciate her kindness because she was so special.

To her family, I send my thoughts and prayers.

~Estelle Nichols Avner

Jackie Arnett Sonka

November 2, 2010

I feel for your loss, thinking of the Crawford family and those that were touched by her life..
"To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die" xxoo

November 2, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to the Crawford family. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carole Poling (Falls Church, VA)

Pamela Henson

November 1, 2010

My deepest sympathies to the Crawford family. I promise to pass along a kind word and a kind deed to honor her memory.

Donnie Taylor

November 1, 2010

It is with profound sorrow that I learn of Phyllis' passing coupled with relief that she no longer has to suffer from her illness. I know that she has suffered for years with her disease, yet she bore it with dignity and enjoyed every moment of her life. She and I studied Scripture together at OLN, and her smile and faith-filled spirit will be sorely missed. I am honored to have known Phyllis, and she will never be forgotten.

Anne Burnett

October 31, 2010

I enjoyed many years of knowing Phyllis on the tennis courts. She radiated faith, and I was happy to be able to introduce her to our daughter, Julie. They became great friends as well as Julie being her hairstylist. Our last meeting, we were both walking at Tanglewood Mall, and I had just said a prayer asking for healing for her, when we saw each other. You are all in our prayers. Love Anne Burnett

Julie Padgett

October 31, 2010

To the Crawford Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that Phyllis spent her life preparing for her final journey. Here on Earth, she earned her wings for Heaven. She was a wonderful lady who will be dearly missed. I know you all have so many fond memories on film and in your heart. Those will be treasured. I know she is watching down over you all with her smile. I was truly blessed to know Phyllis and glad to have met you all also. Please know you are all in my prayers. With Love, Julie

October 31, 2010

As I look out of my window at the rock in your front yard, I shall always remember Phyllis and my sitting on that rock when she first learned of her illness. As we looked at the beautiful mountains together we shared an endearing and positive conversation about her illness and life. Phyllis left a beautiful impression on everyone who came in contact with her and will always be remembered for her love of people, her love of life and her love of God which she shared so beautifully. Wayne and I send our love and prayers to the family. We shall miss seeing our backyard neighbor. Wayne and Barbara Cook

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