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Gilbert Cox Obituary

COX, Staff Sergeant Gilbert Gary,
USMC, Retired
(Age 73)

Succumbed to his disabilities stemming from his service in Vietnam. Gilbert died on May 9th 2011, at his home, in Spokane Valley, Washington. Gilbert was born on January 30, 1938 in Lanigan, Saskatchewan, Canada, the son of Gilbert and Louise Cox. Gilbert moved with his family to Spokane, Washington where he later attended Central Valley High School. At the age of 17, Gilbert joined the United States Marine Corps on February 1, 1955.
From 1955 through 1959, Gilbert served in a variety of assignments with the Marine Corps and upon reenlistment in 1959, Gilbert became schooled as an Engineering Equipment Operator. From 1959 through 1965 he served with Headquarters Company, 7th Engineer Battalion, (-) Reinforce; 1st Marine Division, Fleet Marine Force Camp Pendleton, California; Headquarters and Service Company, Camp S.D. Butler, Okinawa, Japan; and, 1st Landing Support Company, 1st Service Battalion, 1st Marine Division (Rein), Fleet Marine Force.
In August 1965, Gilbert was sent to Vietnam. He participated in the site preparation, including runways, for Marines deploying to the Dong Ha and Quang Tri province. While serving with Support Company, 3rd Engineer Battalion, 3rd Marine Division, Fleet Marine Force, Gilbert was awarded the Purple Heart.
In 1966, Gilbert entered Senior Drill Instructor School at Parris Island, South Carolina. Unfortunately, while participating in a hand-to-hand combat exercise, he was re-injured and dropped from classes and was assigned as a Career Advisor at Camp LeJeune, North Carolina.
In September 1967, Gilbert volunteered to return to the Republic of Vietnam where he served in the vicinity of Danang with "B" Company, 7th Engineer Battalion (Rein), Fleet Marine Force. In March 1968, Gilbert became seriously ill and was medically evacuated to Yokosuka, Japan. He served honorably for over 12 years in the Marine Corps.
During his service, Gilbert's decorations, medals, badges, commendations and campaign ribbons included: Good Conduct Medal (3rd award); National Defense Service Medal; Vietnam Service Medal (w/3 stars); Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal (w/device); Presidental Unit Citation; Purple Heart; Pistol Marksman Badge; and, Rifle Marksman Badge.
Following his retirement, Gilbert returned to Spokane, Washington. He was a partner in the TC&M Lumber Company on Trent, owner of the Sunset Inn in Airway Heights, and lastly owner and operator of the Gil's Luggage Repair Shop in Spokane.
Gilbert, with his wife, Shelia was actively involved in Marine Corps and Veteran organizations in the Spokane, Washington area. He was a life member of the DAV #6 and VFW Post #1435 and lifetime member of the Military Order of the Cooties, Pup Tent Unit 23. As a Cootie he served as the Seam Squirrel from 1986-87, and 1991-92, and as Grand Commander from 1989-90. As a Cootie he performed duties as a Chaplain and tirelessly supported the Cootie's Hospital Visitation Program.
He is survived by his mother, Louise Fulbright of Spokane Valley, son, Blake Henning (Evgenia) of Houston, Texas; and six sisters, Maxine Polich and Marlene Reagan (Vern) of Spokane Valley, Maureen Moehle (Ernie) of Dallas, Texas, Marilyn Henderson (Don) of Spokane, Col. Adelaide Quebodeaux, USMC, Ret (Red) of Murphy, Texas, and Tracey Schultz (Ron) of Albany, Oregon; and several nieces and nephews. The family would like to thank Kristie Pangburn for her friendship and Hospice of Spokane for their care and comfort during this time.
He was preceded in death by his spouse, Shelia Cox, and father, Gilbert Cox.
Internment will be on Wednesday, May 18th at 10:00AM at the Veteran's Memorial located at Pines Cemetery, 1402 S. Pines Road, Spokane Valley, WA 99206.
The family suggests donations in lieu of flowers to the Spokane Guilds' School & Neuromuscular Center, 2118 W. Garland, Spokane, Washington or to the Spokane Humane Society, 6607 N. Havana St., Spokane, Washington.
Although he is truly missed, we are comforted knowing that Gilbert is with other Marines standing guard on Heaven's streets.

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Published by Spokesman-Review from May 15 to May 16, 2011.

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June 13, 2011

This will be my last message as your book will be gone soon. Writing on these pages helped me talk to you. I will miss it. You are in my heart forever. Until we meet again my dearest brother. I love you so much. Gone but not forgotten.
Googs ( Maureen)

Marlene Reagan

June 12, 2011

Gary your book will be off soon, so I want to tell you HJow much we love you and will miss you.we had so much fun when we were kids. I will miss you so much till I see you again in Heaven,
your little Brother Butch (Marlene)

Maureen Moehle

June 9, 2011

We went through alot together growing up. I think that is why we are all so close. Now one of us is gone and it hurts so much. I try to remember you Gary with happy memories but I look at your sweet face in your pictures and I am crushed. I pray one day we will see one another again in heaven. I love you forever Gary. Love Maureen

June 4, 2011

June 4,2011
Our sympathy goes out to Aunt Louise and family on Gary's passing.We remember the times when Gary came to my parents farm (Helen and Henry Rockel)and we would give him a ride on our horse named Fly.Gary loved that horse. We wonder how aunt Louise is doing. Even in this time of sorrow your heart must know that memories will always endure and that bonds of love can never be broken. With Sincere Sympathy. Ruth and Alfred Wildeman and Family.

Maureen Moehle

May 31, 2011

Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Sometimes my heart just breaks and the tears fall. I miss talking to you on the phone and visiting when I come to Spokane. Life will never ever be the same. I love you brother. Maureen (Googie)

Marlene Reagan

May 30, 2011

I will not forget you my big brother.
Love you so much. Butch your little brother

Norman Stephan

May 23, 2011

Our condolences to Gary's sister's and our Aunt Louise on the passing of our cousin Gary. In doing research for a Stephan Family tree we happened upon Garry's obituary. I will pass the sad news of his passing on to family in Lanigan. . I remember Gary with good memories from his summer visits to Uncle John' farm. Norman and Bev Stephan Lanigan Sk Canada. If one of you would care to pass on any information about the Cox family, chldren, grandchidren, dates of birth etc we would greatky appreciate it as we have lost touch over the years. my e-mail is [email protected]

May 23, 2011

The Washington State Veterans Cemetery extend our deepest sympathies to the family of SSgt. USMC Ret. Gilbert Gary Cox for your loss, to honor his service to our country and our patriot hero.

May 18, 2011

Gary, You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I sat with you today and missed you very much. Love Annie

Tracey Schultz

May 17, 2011

Thankyou Richard Sook this is Tracey Garys sis and favorite bartender froms years ago in Spokane hope you are well my family thanks you.

May 17, 2011

Dick Sook Ravenswood WV

Vern Reagan

May 17, 2011

Gary, We were Marines and Brothers I will miss you so much,
your brother in law ( vern Reagan )

Vern Reagan

May 17, 2011

Gil we were marines and were Brother I will miss you so much. Thinking of you,
Vern Reagan Brother in law

Mary Ann

May 16, 2011

I didn't know this wonderful man, I wish I had! He sounded like an awesome man. And a hero to me as well. Rest in peace.

Tracey Schultz

May 16, 2011

I loved my brother and will miss him greatly. But now he's at peace and in Heaven !!!!
Tracey his youngest sister

T Shaw

May 16, 2011

I didn't know him either but wanted to pass of appreciation and gratitude for time served. Thank you for your sacrifice that allows me to enjoy freedom.

May 16, 2011

I didn't know him but after reading this, I wanted his family to know he was a Hero in my eyes as well. If I had known him I would have gave him a hug & thanked him for all of US Americans. K Butner

Maureen Cox- Moehle

May 15, 2011

You are my Marine hero and my beloved brother. I will miss your humor, talking about recipes, you saying "love you too kid" and so much more. Thank you for your service and thank you for encouraging me to join the Marine Corps too. I love you and will miss you so much. You will remain in my heart and my mind forever. Love you brother. Rest in peace, your tour of duty is over. Maureen ( Googie)

Marlene Reagan

May 15, 2011

Gary I will miss you so much, you were a good brother. we had the best of times growning up. I won't for get you, Love Marlene

Marlene Reagan

May 15, 2011

I Love you and will miss you so much, I will have you in my hreat till I see you again. your sister Marlene ( Butch )

Maureen Cox-Moehle

May 15, 2011

You are my Marine hero and my beloved brother.I will miss your sense of humor,you telling me "you love me too kid",discussing recipes and much much more. I am so proud of you and your service to this country. I love you and miss you so very very much. You are forever in my mind and heart. Your sister and fellow Marine.
Maureen (Googie)

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