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Sheftell, Jason H.
He walked fast, talked fast, did everything fast. Jason Sheftell was a human whirlwind, racing through each day at 100 mph, savoring every minute of his existence.
People like that usually have time for no one. Yet, Jason had time for everyone. And that is why, after news spread of his passing on Monday, the outpouring of emotion on social media was so profound, the grief so deep.
Jason, a popular, well-respected journalist and loving brother and son, was found dead in his Manhattan apartment.
He was 46.
Raised in Stamford, Jason was a 1985 graduate of Stamford H.S. and 1989 graduate of the University of Pennsylvania, where he studied European History.
After living in Paris, he returned to the U.S. and received a master's in American and United States Studies form the University of Alabama in 1997.
His ascent in journalism began with a writing position at Cigar Aficionado magazine and accelerated after he joined the New York Daily News in 2007.
Jason was the News' real-estate reporter and editor, known for his boundless enthusiasm and personal touch.
"To describe Jason as a consummate professional would be an understatement not only to his talents as a journalist but also as a person," Colin Myler, editor-in-chief of the New York Daily News, said in an E-mail to the staff.
"He was probably the most popular guy in the newsroom - everybody loved him because he was always there when you needed him."
Friends, co-workers and members of the real-estate community flooded Twitter and Facebook with memories of Jason in the hours after his passing. Many of those tributes mentioned his warmth and intelligence along with his love for journalism and for New York City.
Only his closest friends and relatives, however, knew the true depth of Jason's compassion, how loyal he was as a brother, how devoted he was as a son.
Jason's parents were Karen Sheftell, a real-estate broker in Stamford, and the late Fred Sheftell, a renowned psychiatrist, headache specialist and musician. His sister, Lauren, who also grew up in Stamford, now lives in Los Angeles.
In April 2011, Fred died after a four-year battle with colon cancer. Jason became a rock for his mother, calling her daily and seeing her often despite usually working seven days a week.
Karen offered perhaps the best description of her son, calling him, "a beacon of light."
Jason is also survived by his grandmother Wilma, his uncle Steven, aunt Vincenza, along with their children Justin and Melanie; his uncles and their wives, Edward and Linda Rosenthal, David and Jane Rosenthal, and their children, Ken, Julie, Daniel and Rebecca. He also was like an uncle to his cousins' children, Sam, Hannah and Sarah Rosenthal; Jon and Simon Rosenthal; Ike and Cyrus Rosenthal; and Darby, Emily and Max Sale.
Services will be held at Temple Beth El, 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford, CT on Thursday, June 20 at 2 p.m.
Arrangements handled by Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home. www.leopgallagherstamford.com

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Published by Stamford Advocate from Jun. 19 to Jun. 20, 2013.

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Josh Max

October 22, 2024

I worked alongside Jason in Creative Services at the NY Daily News, him doing real estate, me doing cars and motorcycles. He was ablaze with ideas and questions and opinions but genuinely curious about others, too. I found him an open and kind man.

I once gave him a ride from W33rd Street to the Upper East Side and he told me about meeting Keith RIchards in the middle of the night in Soho and how friendly the guy was to a super-fan like Jason, and how he never forgot it.

It's still completely wrong that Jason left this life so suddenly, and so young. But what a testimony to an impactful life lived that I thought of Mr. Jason Sheftell today, October 22, 2024, when he's been gone 11 years, and remembered all these things about a fellow reporter.

James

November 19, 2023

I still have fond memories of working with Jason and I can't believe it's been ten years already. Seems like yesterday we were getting a tour of a penthouse a real estate developer was prepping to flip. Jason was a dynamo that turned so many assignments into an adventure. I miss his energy. One of our last assignments together was by the exercise area near the East River Greenway in downtown Manhattan. I think of him when I pass by that area. He showed me a side of New York many do not get to see and brought it to life for our readers. RIP.

Rex Briggs

June 29, 2013

Jason and I worked together at Yankelovich Partners. When I went to Wired, I got him an internship, and he lived with my wife and I during his stint in San Francisco. I was just reaching out to him to invite him to the 20 year aniv of Wired, and a quick search for his contact info turned up his untimely departure. There is a deep hole in my heart and regret that I didn't reach out earlier.

jason, you will be missed.

brett david

June 26, 2013

Jason; I wrote this for you on the train ride home from your memorial service. I loved you like the big brother I always wanted. I saw all of the good in you, and like everyone else, cannot thing of anything but praise for such a good man and honest friend. With these words, I say my goodbye.

I say this now, to you my friends, to those to which you love
Remind them each and every day of what they mean to you,
For in a glimpse the world can change and lightning from above
Can take their soul so they might not see this day as anew;
My friend it is with eyes of tears I write this final note
I'd give it all to have you back and steal that final breath,
The good you gave your fellow men, the words of truth you wrote
Will last beyond your years on earth; a legacy in death;
New York will never be the same, it lost its greatest voice
A man of love and honesty, you opened minds to see,
But sir it's your integrity that men around will hoist
As beacons and a testament of what we'll aim to be;
This day will come for me in fact, and too my friends will cry
As any man who made his mark the way those like us do,
But God I beg you here today, as angel wings do fly
I pray that when my number's called, I'm half the man as you.

Gary Koester

June 26, 2013

Dear Karen and Lauren,
I am so sorry---you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Larisa Fleysher

June 25, 2013

Dear Karen,
I am so very sorry for your loss... I never met Jason, but from knowing Fred, Jason must have been as awesome as Fred was... my deepest condolences.
Larisa

June 25, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to you Karen and Lauren for this tremendous loss. Our kids grew up in the same wonderful neighborhood. The Notorio Family

June 23, 2013

Karen,

We returned from vacation today and just heard of Jason's passing. Please know that our thought and prayers are with you and Lauren during this sad and difficult time.

Love,

Barbara and Norman Ostroff

Jody Breakell

June 22, 2013

Dear Karen,

I am so saddened to have heard about your loss. One Mom and Fred's LPI "family" called yesterday. Please know that Rob, Dad and I hold you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jody Breakell

Jodie & James Koretz

June 22, 2013

Dear Karen: We are shocked and saddened to hear the news about Jason. I can never remember a time in any of our conversing where you didn't speak about Jason with such great love and pride. We are so sorry. Our condolences to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Anne McDermott

June 20, 2013

I lived on the same block in the West Village as Jason for six years and after meeting him once became completely infatuated. When we ran into each other we'd speak about writing and our careers; he was always genuinely interested and supportive. I remember how thrilled he was to get his Daily News column, and it seems the Daily News was thrilled to have him too. He was a charming gentleman whom I feel fortunate to have known. I wish the dear Sheftell family peace and love as they go through this very tender time.

June 20, 2013

Dear Karen-
I am so sorry to hear of Jason's passing. My heart is broken for you and Lauren. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love-
Natalie Duggan

David Jaudon

June 20, 2013

Jason was a good friend of mine when we were grad students in Alabama during the mid-1990s. I had many terrific conversations with Jason and it was always fun to be around him. Jason also graciously agreed to be one of my groomsmen at my wedding in 1997. I will truly miss his wit and intelligence. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

June 20, 2013

Dear Karen and Lauren,

Both of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Many people do not achieve in 100 years of life what Jason achieved in 46. Our hearts go out to you.

Love,
Bryna and Jon Dreyer

Eileen Carpanzano

June 20, 2013

Dear Karen, I'm so very sorry to hear about Jason. My heart is absolutely broken for you. My deepest sympathy to you & your daughter and family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lynne Kudzy

June 20, 2013

Dear Karen and Lauren,
Joe and I are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts ache for you and we send our love.
Lynne and Joe

Tony Lee

June 20, 2013

Jason was a very good guy. I am so sorry for your loss.
My deepest condolences to all his family and friends.

Claudia DeMonte

June 20, 2013

it is in shock and with great sadness we think of Jason.. a new and wonderful friend. We never saw him where he did not speak of his mother .. his family with such pride and love.
Few families know such closeness. We are blessed to have known him. He was a great journalist and a wonderful friend. ..making all he knew feel special. He was a NY original.

June 20, 2013

Dear Karen and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Deepest sympathies and best wishes.
Larry & Hillary Weinroth

Diana Gould

June 20, 2013

Karen,

I am so sorry to hear the news of your incredible loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nina Lentini

June 20, 2013

What a tremendous loss for his family and for journalism -- and so young. I note that you chose to tell the world about Jason in a thoughtful obituary that I've included in my blog, http://ninalentinislifewithoutend.blogspot.com/. He is among good company. Peace to you all.

Marilynn Loglisci

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen, I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. I never met Jason, but I feel as if I have known him forever! Over the years ,you always spoke about him. told little stories and updates as any proud Mother would do! Such a special person.. Please know we are here for you as so many, many friends are. You are surrounded with love and support. Marilynn & John Loglisci

Blanche Kaswer

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen,
My heart is breaking for you. May all your memories of wonderful years together keep Jason close to you always. Prayers and hugs for you and your family.

John Roman

June 19, 2013

Karen,
My deepest sympathy for your indescribable loss...

June 19, 2013

My heart goes out to you in this, your time of loss. Jason was an incredible journalist and an even more incredible friend. I will cherish the memories I have of him. He was one-of-a-kind.

Mary Anne Melillo DeFelice

June 19, 2013

Karen I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.

Melodye Colucci

June 19, 2013

Karen,
I am so sorry to hear of your sons passing. While there is no comfort anyone can give when your child passes, I just hope that the happy memories you had will bring a smile to your face.

Lauren Richman

June 19, 2013

You will always shine bright in my heart... I will miss you Jason.

Lauren Richman

June 19, 2013

What we have once enjoyed we can never lose... All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. My deepest condolences to the entire Sheftell Family. So thankful I got the pleasure of knowing such a stellar, unique, special person. May g-d give you all strength during this very difficult time. Try and be strong as you know he would want you to be.

With Love,
Lauren Richman

Judy DeMott

June 19, 2013

Karen:

I was shocked and very sadden to hear of the death of Jason. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Karen and the rest of your family in this terrible time. I wish I had words of wisdom to pass on to you but I don't. The only thing I can say is to talk about him and remember all the fun times you had with him, as a famuly and that might give you some solice.
Again, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen, I am so sorry to hear passing of your son. I didn't know him personaly but I am hearing he was very fine man and very good son.I hope G-d give you a lot of patient to be able curb this lose. Saiid Asher Rastegar

Maureen Yaggi Humphrey

June 19, 2013

My deepest sympathy to your family on the passing of Jason.

donna franchina

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen - i am truly sorry to hear about the loss of your son. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Dora Groccia

June 19, 2013

Karen,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter during this very difficult time. His memories will live on forever in your hearts.

Scott Judd

June 19, 2013

Dear Mrs. Sheftell:
I was so sorry to hear the news of Jason's passing today (which was shared by my Dad, Charlie, who still lives in Stamford and recalled that Jason and I had been friends many years ago). I lost touch with Jason after our High School days, but was happy to learn that he went on to a successful, well-regarded career in journalism, and remained very close with you throughout. I will always remember him as one of the smartest, most charismatic kids and overall talented athletes from our school days. He was a real standout among a rich cast of local characters.

Sincere condolences and best regards,

Scott Judd
Chicago, IL

Renae Deming

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,

Renae Deming

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa Sands

June 19, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Fred many years ago and remember fondly how he spoke lovingly and proudly of his children Jason and Lauren and wife Karen. I never had the pleasure of meeting Jason, but from reading the many online tributes to him, he was a mensch, just like his father.

My sincere condolences to Karen and Lauren for the premature loss of these two wonderful men. You are in my thoughts.

Marie Barker

June 19, 2013

Dear Karen, I Pray that the sorrow you feel today will swiftly be replaced by all the joy your son Jason gave to you and all who new him. May the Eternal Light Shine Upon Jason and may he Rest in Peace. Deeply sorrowful for your loss.

BERTHA BAROSKY

June 19, 2013

DEAR KAREN - WITH SINCERE SYMPATHY AND UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR LOSS. REST IN PEACE JASON.

Diane and Alec Arons

June 18, 2013

Karen

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Lauren. It is rare in life to spend each day following your passion. Jason certainly did that and through his writing and acts of kindness had a profound effect on others.

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