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Elaine Parliman Obituary

DR. ELAINE L. PARLIMAN, Doctor of Veterinary Medicine, 68, resident of Norwalk, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, April 6, 2011 at her home. She was born in Tulsa, OK on September 24, 1942 to the late Austin and Ruth (Gibson) Parliman. Ms. Parliman had a great love for nature and animals of all kind. She was an avid hiker, gardener and animal rescuer. Elaine loved art and enjoyed completing design projects both inside the home as well as outdoors. She was a graduate of the Veterinarian School at The University of Wisconsin, Madison, and founded the Veterinary Student's Animal Rescue Center in Stoughton, WI. She was also the founder and owner of My Home Visit Veterinary, Inc. She is survived by her beloved husband Mark Dombroski Oaks, her sister, Pricilla Engle, of Maryland, and her brother, Richard Parliman of Utah. She is also survived by Alex Dombroski of Texas, Amanda, Diana, Derrick and Devon Fornoff of Oregon, four nephews, three nieces, five great nephews and two great nieces. Elaine was a truly extraordinary individual with a passion for performing mission work abroad, especially in Africa and India, as well as outreach to the local community. Elaine's commitment to care giving was fostered and nurtured at Nyack Missionary College, from which she graduated after successfully completing a degree in cultural studies. She will be sadly missed by her loved ones and by all those who have had the pleasure of meeting her. Her family invites relatives and friends to a service in Elaine's memory at the First Congregation Church, 1 Walton Place, Stamford, CT on Saturday, April 30th at 11am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Friends of Felines at P.O. Box 8147, Stamford, CT 06905. Please visit http://www.adoptapet.org for updates on adoption and volunteer opportunities. The family has entrusted the funeral arrangements to Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Avenue, Stamford, CT. If you wish to make an online remembrance, please sign the family guestbook online at www.bosakfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Advocate on Apr. 28, 2011.

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Lynn & Bill Lavalette

May 8, 2011

So sad to learn of Dr. Parliman's death. Although we only met her last year for a home visit to our house, her compassion was obvious, and the reason she was chosen to provide care for the impending adoption of 2 rescues, one of whom came to us sick. Her tender care will never be forgotten. Our heartfelt condolences to her husband and family.

April 30, 2011

God bless the life of Dr. Parliman in the way that she took care of God's animals and the compassion she showed to the parents of the animals.

Rarely do we find a gem as precious as Dr. Parliman.

Thank you Dr. Parliman for always being there when Ruby and I needed you to look after her cats and my dog.

Miss you much!!!
Kindrea Walston (Keira-dog)
Ruby Perez (the Cat Lady)

Michele Hogan

April 30, 2011

Sad to hear of Dr.Parliman's passing. She was a wonderful lady and my Mom enjoyed having tea with her on her house visits to care for our cats. She will be very missed but in our hearts always.

Maryann Leary

April 29, 2011

Your kindness to cats and humans will never be forgotten.

Just Cats

April 29, 2011

Your care and compassion raised the bar for all of us.

You will always be missed - and always be remembered.

Rosemary and Tony Madia

April 29, 2011

We were shocked and saddened by the news of Elaine's death. Her love of animals will live on in all those who knew her. We will never forget her tender touch with our kitties and her phone calls about their well-being. She was an extraodinary human being who will be missed by many.

Amy Hoyt

April 28, 2011

My sincere sympathy to Mark , and all of Elaines family. She is irreplaceable in the world of cat/animal rescue.
I will miss her so very much as will my assorted cats that she so lovingly cared for.
Amy Hoyt

April 28, 2011

Our Elaine, A loving soul.
Always, giving to all of Gods creations.
A unique humble spirit.Always Allowing his will be done.
A witness of Christs love for us.
You will be missed by many.
But with time, we will reunite.
His Rod and staff have now comforted you.
You shall dwell in the house of the lord forever. AMEN
MOST LOVINGLY PAULINE S.DUPUIS

April 28, 2011

Elaine was a lover of all animals. She will be blessed for her kindness and will be missed by all.

Joey Karwon,Stamford,Ct.

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