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David J. Wilkins

1963 - 2012

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1963

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2012

David Wilkins Obituary

Wilkins, David J.

Elmira: David J. Wilkins, 48, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, January 13, 2012. He was born in the Town of Urbana on May 26, 1963 the son of F. Richard Wilkins and Marie P. Wilkins. He received a Bachelor's degree from Hobart College in 1985. He worked at Ithaca College as a Director of Ithaca Fund, the college's annual giving program. Prior to working at Ithaca College, David worked at Elmira College and had a distinguished career in National Sales and Marketing. He entered the sales field with Proctor and Gamble in 1985 and went on to hold senior positions at Polaroid and Sunbeam. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, son and brother. He was an avid reader and writer, and engaged an active hobby as a screenwriter. He was predeceased by his father, F. Richard Wilkins on July 8, 1988. He is survived by his loving wife, Amy Wilkins of Elmira, NY; mother, Marie P. Wilkins of Penn Yan, NY; his sons and daughters, Daniel and Susanna Wilkins of California and Ryan, Nick and Holly Goetz of Elmira, NY; two brothers, Richard (Susan) Wilkins of Pittsford, NY and Christopher (Jill) Wilkins of Pittsford, NY; and a sister, Susan (Kevin) Denny of Buffalo, NY; along with many nieces, nephews and a grandchild. Calling hours are being observed on Friday, January 20, 2012 from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at Saint Michael's Catholic Church, Penn Yan, NY, with his Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 a.m. with Father Stan Kacprzak, Celebrant. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Autism Speaks (www.autismspeaks.org). Arrangements are being handled by the Bond-Davis Funeral Home of Bath, NY.

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Published by Star-Gazette on Jan. 17, 2012.

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Jim and Karen Sams

February 3, 2012

We were saddened to hear of Dave's passing. Keeping the Wilkins family in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob Roth

January 30, 2012

To you and your family Dave,

I will pray for peace for your soul and peace for your family here who is still with us.

An old friend from work many years ago....

Chris Pollock

January 25, 2012

I am so saddened by Dave's passing. I worked with him closely at Ithaca College and got to know him quite well in the past several months. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. His was a life taken far too soon.

January 19, 2012

Susan and your family, I am so sorry to hear of the death of your brother. Linda Van Buskirk

Keith Stack

January 19, 2012

My Prays are with the Wilkens family. I made aquaintance with David through brother Chris, a good and longtime friend of mine. David was a good man and will be missed.

Pete & Lisa Skorusa

January 19, 2012

Amy, so sorry to hear about your husband. Our prayers and sympathy go out to you and all of the family.

Diane Thompson

January 18, 2012

My thoughts & prayers are with the family. Dave was a good man and taken too soon. When I worked with Dave at Elmira College, he was such a positive person and great to be around. I'm so sorry for your loss.

January 18, 2012

Dave was a friend; a dear co-worker. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers to his family and friends for this very sad loss.
S.Weatherby - (Ithaca College)

Jim Twombly

January 17, 2012

It was wonderful to have been able to spend some time with Dave in a social setting just a short time ago. RIP to a good co-worker and neighbor.

Andy Orgel '74

January 17, 2012

We were so fortunate to see Dave here in San Francisco recently. He was a fabulous member of the Ithaca College community and a friend to so many. Our sympathies to all of you in his family.

S H

January 17, 2012

May you find some comfort in the thoughts and prayers that many of Dave's colleagues at Ithaca College are sending to your family.

Drew, Chad, & Nick Unrue

January 17, 2012

RIP, our godfather Dave.

Amanda Holt

January 17, 2012

Dave was a great friend and mentor. His encouraging words, daily hello's, and inside jokes will never be forgotten.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family and friends.

Wanda Icenhower

January 17, 2012

Chris, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved brother. To the family of David Wilkins my deepest sympathy and most heartfelt prayers for your time of sorrow.

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