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Janet Bender
April 24, 2024
It is my honor to remember Jimmy. We were teenagers when we were friends. It´s been a long time since we lost a fabulous man. I´ve never forgotten him. I moved out of Montclair before Jimmy got married, so I don´t know his family. I just would like you all to know how great a man your husband, father & grandfather was. God Bless
May 12, 2013
Dear Jean, Heather and Heidi and Family,
I was so saddened to hear of Jim's passing. May he rest in peace and your family find solace in each other and your everlasting connection to Jim.
Love,
Claire Greene (Jana Greene Hand's Mom)
Peter Johnson
May 8, 2013
Please accept our prayers and sympathy on Jim's passing. He was a man of quiet courage and unparalleled expertise and skill. We value our association with Jim over the years and honor his memory .
Albert Rubino
May 7, 2013
Remembering Jim
Theresa Mecke
May 5, 2013
May he rest in peace. From Bob Mecke, ICHS '64 and Terry Mecke, ICHS'65
Patti Winfield Higgins
May 3, 2013
To The Pascuiti Family,
I remember Jimmy very well from Immaculate. He was an inspiration to everyone who knew him. Saw him once or twice at an ICHS function, and he was the same as ever; courageous and always smiling. My sympathies to you all.
Sally and Lou Rivieccio
May 2, 2013
Dear Jean, Heather and Heidi,
We were so saddened to hear of Jim's passing. He was such a wonderful and giving person. We will never forget all of his dedication and hard work while serving on the board of education in Mountainside always thinking of our children. You are a wonderful family and we hope you find comfort in each other through this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
May 2, 2013
Dear Jean and family, please know my thoughts are with you during this time. What wonderful memories you must have of the exceptional man you married. I am sorry I never had an opportunity to know your husband better. Love to you all. Doris Lightner (friend of Ann)
Mike Colicchio
May 2, 2013
Jim was a great man, a true friend and an inspiration to all. I laughed every time I was with him. His mischievous grin and "hey Mad Dog" always made me happy. He leaves a legacy of love and respect. He will live forever!
Linda from Dr Zicht's office
May 1, 2013
Dear Jean and Family, I was so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. God be with you and your family.
May 1, 2013
Dear Jeannie, I remember both of you as such good, life-enjoying young people, and i sense you were good and caring persons for each other. I will pray for both you and Jimmie that the strength you found in God and each other will continue to be present in this new way of life.
Sr. Barbara Garland (Sr. Mary Hugh at ICHS)
May 1, 2013
Dear Jean, Heidi and Heather,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies.
Marlene & Jeff Rauchnbach
Michelle from Dr Zichts
May 1, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Christine (Smith) DeFrehn
May 1, 2013
I write to offer my condolences to Jeannie and the Pascuiti family. We have lost a man who truly knew the meaning of love and life. Jim is a true inspiration for all of us, and that goes for Jeannie as well. My prayers are with you.
Andrea Passafaro Funari
May 1, 2013
Dear Evelyn and all of the Pascuiti family. My deepest sorrow for your loss.
Andrea Passafaro.
Immaculate Conception class of 1967
Rev. Thomas M Cembor
May 1, 2013
Dear Jean and family,
I am saddened to read of Jim's passing. I recall with great fondness my ministry at OLL. The family was a strong presence and a witness to Christ's action in our lives. Jim introduced me to Children's Specialized Hospital and I always admired his spirit of determination that all all barriers be broken down. Jim did remarkable things in his life, but I'll remember him for his sense of commitment, his love of his family and church, and his sense of humor and generosity.
God bless all of you!
Fr. Tom Cembor (OLLL-1987-1993)
Lucy Quatrella
May 1, 2013
Uncle Jimmy - forever in our hearts.
April 30, 2013
From the first time we met in Juno there was an instant connection.We will remember the talking,laughter and friendship we shared and the terrific martinis in the social room. Sherm called Jim his "pool mate". Jim was a wonderful and brave man who always had a smile and good story. He will be missed and remembered in the fondest way. Jean, you and your lovely family were so lucky to have had this dear and special man in your lives and we were so blessed to have known him.
Sherm and Linda Wolff
Donald Graham
April 30, 2013
Sorry to hear about Jimmy. I remember sitting with him in his parents house, some time after the accident, and when I left I was amazed at the outlook on life he still had. He was an amazing person. God bless him and his family.
Lucy Quatrella
April 30, 2013
Uncle Jimmy was the kindest man I have ever known. I will never forget him or the strength, courage, and compassion he showed all of us. He touched the lives of everyone who met him and he will be missed. Dr. Lucy A. Quatrella
Barbara Cocchi PISANO
April 30, 2013
dear Evelyn &the Pasuiti family my deepest sorrow
Janet DiGeronimo Bender
April 30, 2013
I lived across the street from Jimmy for many years. I remember his accident and how strong he was mentally. He was my friend. My sympathy to his family. My prayers are with you all. You lead a full life Jimmy and I will never forget you.
William & Catherine McMickle
April 30, 2013
The vines from the "grapevine" are indeed long. I heard about Jimmy from my sister Adrienne who heard from her sister-in-law Lorraine who heard from Grace.Billy & I will keep you in our thoughts,Billy especially has many fond menories going back to high school & of course the Merril/Hughes/Cipolla bond runs deep.May you have peace
Bill Crowley
April 30, 2013
TO JEANNIE AND JIM'S FAMILIES. I WISH TO EXPRESS MY SINCERE SYMPATHY AND DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO EACH OF YOU AND ALL OF YOU. PLEASE BE ASSURRED OF MY PRAYERFUL SUPPORT DURING THIS TIME.
SINCERELY,
Bill Crowley
Barbara Hughes
April 30, 2013
I remeber being at church every Sunday at Immaculate as a child, Jimmy never missed a week... Skeeter and my Dad would carry him up and down the back stairs...he was always an inspiration... I saw Jim a couple of years ago at an Immacualte dinner and he knew exactly who I was before Skeeter could introduce me... He was a great man and will be missed; many prayers to his family.
Brian J McGrath
April 30, 2013
To the Pascuiti family, I send my sorrow and prayers for your loss. Jimmy was a wonderful person. Always a smile and kind word to everyone.
Brian J McGrath ICHS 66
April 30, 2013
I remember the play Jimmy got hurt. Father Sheehan running on to the field telling everyone not to move Jimmy.Saved his life. Many trips the team would make up to Kessler to spend time with Jimmy and our last game that season on Thanksgiving Day against our arch rivals Our Lady of the Valley. Jimmy arrived in an ambulance and watched the game from the end-zone. The Valley never had a chance-we beat them 40-0-for Jimmy. I remember most a beautiful smile. For some reason he would always put his shoes and socks on first in the locker room. We'd always bust his chops and he would just flash that great smile and not say a word. I can see by his obituary that he pursued life with the same attitude he had on the football field- FEARLESS. To Jimmy's family I offer my prayers and memories of a truly special man.
Mickey Lehmann
Horseheads, NY
April 30, 2013
Our Deepest Sympathy.Jim was a great man. Dave and Lorraine Tucker
Paul Hugus
April 30, 2013
Our hearts go out to Jim, Jean, and their great family on Jim's passing. He was and is an inspiration to us all with his positive attitude and in the way that he lived his life, notwithstanding the challenges that he faced everyday. We were privileged to have known him for the past few years. We pray that God puts him to work doing what he loved to do; helping others. We will miss him dearly.
Paul & Karen Hugus
April (Puchis) Weeks
April 30, 2013
How lucky I was to know Jimmy and Jeannie, and see the beautiful life they made together. Thank you for all the grace you shared with everyone you touched.
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