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THOMAS MARA Obituary

Thomas Charles Mara Fair Haven resident and loving father with a passion for soccer Thomas Charles Mara, 48, of Fair Haven, N.J., died on June 3, 2017, at Riverview Medical Center in Red Bank, N.J. There will be a viewing at John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Ave., Red Bank, N.J., from 4 to 8 p.m. on Tuesday, June 6. There will be a Mass of Christian Burial on Wednesday, June 7, at 9:30 a.m. at the Church of the Nativity. The interment will be private. Tom was born in Kearny, N.J., and resided in Fair Haven for over 20 years. Tom was the beloved son of Tom and Helen Mara. He is survived by his loving children, Collin, Julia, and Alexandra Mara; and his fiancee, Marilyn Postel Pozzuto, and her children, Emily and Christopher Pozzuto; his brothers, Sean (Jennifer) and Michael (Kristen); sister, Carolyn Unger (Christian), and former wife, Dawn Renner, together with many grieving aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews. Tom was a senior management consultant at Victor Kramer Company for 26 years. During his tenure with the firm, he served as a senior consultant to various hotels and resorts nationwide and in the Caribbean. Soccer was Tom's passion. He played youth soccer with Kearny Thistle FC. He was a member of the legendary 1984 Kearny High School soccer team, where he scored the winning goal at Rutgers Stadium, which capped an undefeated season for KHS, and a State Championship title. Tom played four years of varsity soccer at Rutgers University, Newark, N.J. He enjoyed coaching in Fair Haven youth soccer programs. He played adult recreation soccer with the FC Fair Haven Men's Soccer Team. He never missed watching a Manchester United match. Tom graduated from Rutgers University in 1991 with a degree in economics. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus Red Bank Council 3187, and the Scots American Club, Kearny. In lieu of flowers, a contribution to the charity of your choice in his memory would be appreciated.

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Published by The Star-Ledger on Jun. 5, 2017.

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George A Prince Sr

May 30, 2025

TC was a remarkable young man. He was full of energy, plans and very likable.
He is missed as he left the world too soon.

George A Prince

May 30, 2023

With time our eyes are dimmed but our hearts never do, TC was and remains in our hearts and minds. I enjoyed working with him and after work hours spent talking about work, sports and family.

George Prince

June 12, 2017

Helen & Tom, we are very sorry to hear of the loss of your son. We cannot think of a loss that can be expressed in words greater than this. Our prayers for you all. George A & Victoria J Prince Sr

Emmanuel Okoye

June 9, 2017

Helen and Tom Sr., I am heart broken to hear of your loss. My heart felt condolences go out to you, his wife, his children and siblings. On behalf of my family, we will keep you in our prayers and he will be missed.

Emmanuel Okoye

Christina Miranda

June 7, 2017

My heart goes out to the Mara family.
So unbelievably sad to hear that Tom has passed. He was a very special person who touched so many lives in his path. Wishing you peace and strength during this difficult time.

John Ryan

June 7, 2017

I will miss Tommy, it was always a joy to see him on the jobsite. My thoughts and prayers go out to his loving family.

Grace Meehan-Carter

June 6, 2017

I was very saddened to hear about the loss of Tommy. With my friendship and sympathy to the entire family. God Bless Tommy and all of you. An old friend from Kearny. Grace Meehan-Carter

June 6, 2017

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

June 6, 2017

My most sincere condolences to all the family. May God bless you and give you strength. My prayers and love are with you.

Ines Adami

June 6, 2017

I'm very sorry for your lost. My Condolences. My prayers and thought are with all the family during this difficult time. Is no words to express the pain for this moment. I really feel so sad.

Judy Brown

June 5, 2017

I'm sorry for your loss. May it comfort you to know that God keeps those who pass away in His memory because they are precious in his eyes. Ps. 116:15

Larose Saint Jean

June 5, 2017

I was heart breaking to hear TC Mara passing.
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our prayers are with you during this time. -

Larose Saint Jean

June 5, 2017

Helen, Tom & family. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you & your family on this tragic loss. Makes me stop & say to myself, "what was I complaining about yesterday?" There is no greater loss, than of your child. You all will be in my prayers, & will put you and your family on our church's list as well. love & blessings, Pat (mccann) & Jim Cooney

Joe Casey

June 4, 2017

I am so saddened by the loss of your precious Tommy. I didn't know him personally but his soccer exploits reminded me so much of his Dad. I had the privilege and the honor to play against Tom, Sr. and with him in our youth 55+ years ago.
I wish Tom, Helen and their entire family; but especially Tommy's children, the strength and belief in life after death to ease their grave loss.
May he rest in Jesus' warm embrace for eternity.
Joe & Pat Casey
Brielle, Nj

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