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Joyce (JOY) Mothorpe
June 6, 2021
Thinking of you, Nancy, Drew, and Dillon. Shawn was "ONE" in a million and he is missed by so many!! You have beautiful memories you have shared as a family; keep those memories~~being blessed for the short time he was on this earth with you. Healing Prayers, and healing Hugs being sent to all of you!! Joy Mothorpe
Thomas Huffman
November 5, 2013
Nancy, Drew and Dillon. Some of my favorite memories are of me sitting at the bar of Foster's Grille in Manassas when you guys all would come in midday to see Shawn. We moved away from Virginia about 6 years ago but Foster's Grille is still in our hearts. I only found out today about Shawn's passing, I dearly miss Shawn's friendship and companionship. Please know that the Huffman family is holding you in our hearts and in our prayers. Shawn was a great influence in our kids lives as they grew up at the bar in Foster's Grille. Love, Tom and Lisa Huffman and Family
Jim Sue and Sarah Gardner
October 7, 2013
Nancy, Drew and Dillon, You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we heard the news of Shawn's passing. Some say we lose the loved, so that they leave lessons for the living. Shawn taught us all that life was there to be enjoyed and not to be wasted. He was always larger than life itself and a joy to be around. We have so many wonderful memories of our times together in Virginia with all of you. I hope that Jimmy and Shawn have found one another in heaven, he loved him dearly. Please call 630-880-5834. All our love,
August 12, 2013
Dear Nancy,
Although I only new Shawn for a short time I could easily see he was a loving and kind man and you and he share in a beautiful love. My true heart felt condolences for you, your children and your life long friend Michael Mac.
Susan
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July 11, 2013
Nance,Drew & Dillon. I am still trying to find words to express the sorrow of the loss of a husband,father friend & best man at our wedding. It's been a month and everyday I think of the great times & experiences we have all had over the last 30 years from Philly, to the both of us hitting royal flushes in Vegas on the same day to Atlanta where you took us 4 wheeling in the red mud with a 2 wheel drive vehicle and bald tires to Va and NC. Now all as we have left is the memories and stories of the Chef who has left us all way to early.You will be truly missed my friend.
Uncle Don & Linda
Akron New York
Kevin and Barbara Newton
June 27, 2013
We are so sorry to hear about this. We used to see Mr. Foster riding up and down I95 as we both traveled from Haymarket, VA to Wilmington, N.C. I hope his soul will be resting on the ocean.
Nancy Rau
June 24, 2013
To the Foster family,
My family loves Foster's Grille. Little did I know that its founder lives in my hometown of Wilmington, NC. I am so sorry to read of Shawn's death in the McLean Patch. Foster's is a tradition after sports games with my four boys. The grilled cheeses are my favorite and the boys love the burgers, fries and milkshakes. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
laurel
June 24, 2013
So very sad for Shawn,his wife and sons and for his family and loved ones.Many prayers for all of you and know Shawn will always be loved, remembered, and cherished forever!!
June 23, 2013
Nancy, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. We are so happy to have known Shawn. He was a very special person and we will miss him immensely. Our love, Lin and Jim Tars
Theresa Yelmgren
June 20, 2013
Nancy, Drew and Dillon, I am so sorry for your loss. Shawn gave me my start in my business and I will never forget the kindness you all extended to me over the years. I will keep you and the family in my prayers.
Kip Smithers
June 20, 2013
SAD. Thank you for creating the best burger in the world. A burger that tastes like the best burger you could ever make on the back grill. Thoughts and prayers are with your family....you will be missed but your burgers will hopefully live on forever!!
June 20, 2013
Nancy and family. Jason and I are so sorry to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Like everyone else, we have great memories of working with Shawn (and you too) Again so sorry for your loss. Alecia and Jason Williams
Elizabeth Taverniti
June 20, 2013
So sorry - hear about Mr. Foster - I didn't know him but feel I did.
Jan
June 20, 2013
Wow! Great guy and you will be missed. I will be thinking of you on my next trip to Foster's for a burger.
Christina Batcheller
June 20, 2013
So young! Our condolences. Foster's is our favorite burger joint.
Dianne Lane
June 19, 2013
Terrible. We have been Fosters people since we discovered him in Bethesda. We ate at his location in the Sudley shopping center for years. When I was pregnant with my daughter I ate Fosters hot dogs during my last trimester, and when my daughter starting blowing the scale on the growth charts, we "blamed" Fosters hot dogs. Deepest condolences to all the Fosters family members.
June 19, 2013
Sending lots of prayers, sorry to hear the news Nancy. Stay strong! Kristina Deignan and J. Griffin Deignan (Formely of Gainesville, VA)
Cathy Johnson
June 19, 2013
We are very saddened for your loss. The Johnson family send our thoughts and prayers to your family.
sandra steven h.
June 18, 2013
it was only by coincidence that my husband and I were reminicing about our former our restaurant after we sold it in Manassas and wondered how Fosters was doing. We remembered Shawn coming in when we opened to check out the competition..we are so sorry to hear of your loss. God Bless your family.
Drina Cushman Hedgpeth
June 16, 2013
The Hedgpeth family was sadden to hear of your loss from Ellen today. We send love and prayers to you and the boys.
Mark Golombek
June 15, 2013
Shawn and I were pretty good buds in high school and later worked together at Delia's Restaurant in East Aurora while he was still going to school to be a chef. Shawn was a great friend and an awesome chef. R.I.P. my friend.
June 14, 2013
Hi Nancy, it's Beth Bleaken. I know Jeff wants to speak with you, but we can't locate a number for you anywhere. Please call him when you can. 856-795-1574. Thanks. And we are thinking of all of you.
Beth
Lisa and Matthew Moore
June 14, 2013
Sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. God bless your family. Shawn will be truly missed.
June 14, 2013
Nancy,We are very sorry to hearabout Shawn.We will keep you in our prayers and light a candle for shawn in church this Sunday.
Jim and June Nicholas
June 14, 2013
Blair and Family, We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family. Tom and Mary Lou Skura
Dean Francescone
June 13, 2013
I am very sorry to hear of Shawn's passing and wish his family nothing but the best as they mourn his loss. Shawn and I had a lot of fun back at West Seneca West racing my old police car against his Chevelle. It was nice to see him at a reunion where we had a chance to talk about the past and about his accomplishments in the restaurant business. Rest in peace my man, you will be missed.
Paul Horsboll Justin Willoughby
June 13, 2013
Nancy, sorry to hear of Shawn's passing. All our sympathy to you and your family. Shawn was a pleasure when we worked on the restaurant when we were with CCSI.
John Marr
June 13, 2013
I have a lot of fantastic memories of Shawn and am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carole Gunn
June 13, 2013
Nancy, I was so sorry to hear about Shawn. I remember him from the time he was little and lived down the street.There were the hockey games out front with the Gunn boys, Sullivans, McKees, Hibbs and Shawn - so much yelling and fighting but they became good friends. He'll be missed.
Bob Buchanan
June 13, 2013
So sorry to the family.
Kevin Pearson
June 13, 2013
We are so sorry for the your loss of Shawn at such a young age. I can only hope that your found memories of him will someday ease your pain. I fondly remember Shawn and his wife Nancy whenever they rode up to my family's juke joint "Park Place" on rte 29 in Gainesville, VA. Shawn would often speak of his dream of starting his own restaurant with Nancy to my mom, Gloria. He will be missed by all.
Jeffrey Douglas
June 12, 2013
Shawn Foster was always a larger than life character and some of my most cherished memories will of those times we would spend with the boys, Nancy and Shawn. It was wonderful to feel like part of the family and Shawn had a way of making you feel that way. generosity of character with no judgement of others.
Shawn you will be sadly missed, and the world has suffered a great loss. My thoughts are with your family.
-Jeffrey Douglas
N G
June 12, 2013
Dear Foster family,
I'm am terribly sorry for your loss. Shawn was a great guy.
Your family will be in my prayers. God Bless
David & Mary Gow
June 12, 2013
Mark, Sherrie and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Words can not express how saddened we are to know you are going through this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Doug Miller
June 12, 2013
Mark so sorry to hear with the loss of Shawn.He was a great friend growing up on Pamela Ct.My thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
Tim Howard
June 12, 2013
Nancy, Drew and Dillon. I am saddened by your loss. Wishing you to be surrounded by the love and support of family and friends.
Susan Kibler-Smerda
June 12, 2013
Dear Nancy, Drew, Dillon, Blair, Marge, Mark and family, I am devastated with the loss of my cousin. I have not seen you and Shawn in years, to open the paper here in Buffalo and see my dear cousin is heart breaking. Shawn was a wonderful kind person and it is a great loss to our family and all who knew him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love to all Susan, Daniel and Danielle Smerda
Gina Nairn
June 12, 2013
Nancy, Dillon and Drew
We were so sad to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time. I know that Shawn will be greatly missed by a great many people.
The Nairn family - Terry, Gina, Zach, Drew and Taylor
Karen Kyer
June 12, 2013
Foster family: Shawn was part of our lives while Drew played soccer for VSA Heat. His generousity to the team, community was amazing! I remember volunteering at our team's turn for the snack bar. He was always joking, smiling. He will be missed and remembered fondly.
Our thoughts and prayers are with during this difficult time.
Regards,
Karen (formerly Pulice) and Kelly Kyer and Heather, Michael Pulice
Frazer Hendrick
June 12, 2013
I was so sorry to hear this Shawn was ,so full of life and love for his family . He will be truly missed by all that had the honor of knowing him.
Peggy & Dan Embon
June 12, 2013
Nancy
We are so sorry for you and your boys. Our love and prayers are with you.
Lynn McCarton
June 12, 2013
Shawn was a great person he was very kind and giving and always willing to lend a helping hand. He always had the ability to make you laugh. He will be missed by a lot of people. My heart goes out to his family. May God bless you and be with each of you during this difficult time.
Lynn McCarton & Family
Bevie Gibson
June 12, 2013
I could write a book about the times we have shared. Who's going to steal flowers every week and bring them to me ? I saved all your sweet and silly notes you left on my desk over the years. I can hear your laugh and see your smile. I watched you as your boys turned into young men and how proud you were of them. I never complained no matter how many times you pulled out that old picture of you and Nancy on your wedding day. I know how much you loved her and your boys and how proud you were of your family. I know you are in heaven and I'm betting it will never be the same with that big personality of yours. God, he's yours now but forever In our hearts. I love you Shawn Foster.
Steve and Wendy Richbourg
June 12, 2013
Dear Nancy, Drew and Dillon,
Our hearts are aching for you in this very difficult time. Although we know words offer small comfort in your time of sorrow, we do wish to express our deepest, sincere sympathy to you all.
May heartwarming memories of Shawn surround you and bring you comfort.
Love and prayers to you and family,
The Reserve at Mayfaire
June 12, 2013
Dear Nancy, Dillon and Drew,
Our deepest thoughts go out to you and your family at this terribly difficult time. On behalf of Cary, Don, Nate, Lucas, Temple, Jeff, Walker, Dave and the entire Mayfaire family and community, we would like to make sure you are aware that we are here if you need anything at all. Shawn will be truly missed.
Lauren Foster
June 12, 2013
Nancy, Drew, and Dillon, mom and dad, Mark and Sherrie...
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I was down there with all of you. Please know I am there in spirit and am sending love and prayers to you all.
And to my uncle Shawn, I will always love you!
"Goodbyes are not forever. Goodbyes are not the end. They simply mean I'll miss you...Until we meet again!” – Author Unknown
Love,
Lauren
XOXO
Bret Schardt
June 12, 2013
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss, Shawn was bigger than life every time I saw him. If there is anything you need please don't hestitate to ask. Your family is in our prayers
Sherrie Wilson
June 12, 2013
What a great friend he was to me, and everyone he came in contact with. Haymarket, VA will be forever touched by Shawn and the work he did for, and in the Town. My heart goes out to his family during this sad and emotional time. God bless you.
June 12, 2013
Nancy, Drew & Dillon,
So Sorry for your loss, We are in disbelief and our hearts and prayers go out to you. It was a pleasure knowing Shawn and he was a great friend to our family!
Love,
Brian & Heidi Thacker
Haymarket, VA
Shari DeMarco
June 12, 2013
Blair, Marge, Lauren and Kate. I am so sorry for your loss
Cindy Schwab-Critoph
June 12, 2013
Dear Nancy, Blair, Mark and families:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sad time......
Donna Knupp
June 12, 2013
To the family of Shawn, I work in the Town of Haymarket and got to know Shawn through his generosity to the community. He was a fine man and started a wonderful business. My heart goes out to you for your loss and I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Holly Hall
June 12, 2013
Our hearts and prayers go out to Nancy, Dillon & Drew. Shawn is someone we will never forget. He had a kind, kind heart and we truly loved him. Rest in peace dear friend.
Chelsea Burke
June 12, 2013
You will be missed Shawn. Thank you for geting me my first job at Foster's so many years ago. I'll miss seeing you driving your race car in the Haymarket Parade. Rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with Nancy and the boys <3
Pitzer Family
June 12, 2013
Our hearts are very heavy and broken with the passing of such a kind and wonderful close friend. Rest in peace Shawny. We love and miss you terribly.
Nancy, Drew, Dillon, Mark and Blair, our deepest sympathy and love to you and the family.
June 12, 2013
Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Foster family.
Robert Gim - Foster's Grille of Urbana, MD
Eileen Kusowski
June 12, 2013
Mark & Sherri...our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Sending hugs and love! If there is anything we can do, please let me know! Love you guys...Eileen, Mark & Megan
Art Hoover
June 12, 2013
My heart is sadden with the passing of my friend. Shawn will truly be missed; my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jerry Neuner
June 12, 2013
Blair:
Very sorry to hear about your loss. My sympathy to everyone in the faamily.
Mike & Sandy Rowzee
June 12, 2013
Nancy I am truly sorry for your loss Shawn was not only one of my customers but also a good friend. Sandy and I will miss him and keep you and your family in our prayers.
Montrina
June 12, 2013
So sorry for your loss. I am praying for you all! I will miss him dearly!
Cindy Klempay
June 12, 2013
Nancy and boys I was sorry to read of Shawn's death. He was a joy to know. Take care and God Bless.
Mary Lou Scarbrough
June 12, 2013
Nancy, Drew and Dylan,
I am so sorry for your loss. Shawn was so loved and seemed larger than life at times. He was a great person and did wonders for the community. He will truly be missed.
Mary Lou Scarbrough
Jennifer Preli
June 12, 2013
On behalf of the Mayor and Town Council of the Town of Haymarket, we send our deepest condolences to you Nancy, Dillon & Drew. We hope that you find some peace knowing that those who work, live, or simply pass through Haymarket will benefit from Shawn's passion and commitment to make this a great family community. We are forever grateful for his dedication.
Ginny Simmons
June 12, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Lynn Beck/ Russell
June 12, 2013
Dear Blair and Mark,so sorry to read of the loss of your brother my heart goes out to you and your family
Davi Mohammed
June 11, 2013
Nancy, Drew and Dylan, I'm so very sorry for you loss. I found out this afternoon and just couldn't believe it. My husband and I was at the Fosters Grille in Bristow just this pass Sunday and all we spoke about was Shawn. What a coincident this had to be. Our VSA Heat family have always been grateful for what Shawn did for us at our fundraiser. He was a wonderful person. I remember when he coached the GDBA team when my Dylan was on his team and they went to the finals and we also had a soccer tournament. What fun and memorable times we would cherish. You and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers during this trying time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do!
June 11, 2013
Nancy,Drew, and Dillon...My thoughts and prayers are with all of you;please know that I care!
Joy
June 11, 2013
My dear Nancy, Drew, and Dylan~~I am at a loss to express my sincere empathy for your loss!! You were there for Kelly and me, please let us if we can be be there for you and the boys~~ I am soo sorry Nancy Please call me if you need ANYTHING....LOVE YOU~~Joy
Gail Killman
June 11, 2013
Nancy, I am so sad for you & your family's loss. I sold you & Shawn an ad in the Guest Services Directory for WB. Then my son Jesse, worked for y'all at the Forum. Prayering for your comfort & healing. May God bless!
Alice Riley
June 11, 2013
Nancy, Drew, and Dillon: Just learned of Shawn's passing and couldn't believe it. Words cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Shawn was a great guy and will be missed by a lot of people. I have very fond memories of your family and our VSA HEAT soccer family. Shawn was so gracious to grill for us at our team parties. I used to brag to people that we had THE Shawn Foster to personally grill for us. Those were fun times. Love and prayers to all of you.
Jim and Debbie Mould
June 11, 2013
Dear Nance and boys,
We are heartbroken at your loss. We loved Shawn and have such wonderful memories. We will be down as soon as the arrangements are decided. We love you!
David Fogleman
June 11, 2013
Nancy and boys, I am so sorry to hear of Shawn's passing. We've had a 30-year relationship dating back to the Peppermill in Wrightsville Beach. Such great times!
Karen & Julian Kryzanowsky
June 11, 2013
We are so sorry to hear of Shawn's passing. We were neighbors in Thunder Oak but we didnt know him well. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers
Beth Bleaken
June 11, 2013
Dear Nancy, Jeff and I are so sorry for you and the boys. May God bless you all.
June 11, 2013
Dear Nancy, Jeff and I are so sorry for you and the boys. May God bless you all.
Love, Beth & Jeff Bleaken
Maxine Siegel
June 11, 2013
Nancy (and sons) - I am just at a loss for words. Please know I am sending you strength, love and hugs.
cheryl blackmon
June 11, 2013
Resting in the arms of Jesus
Mike DeStacy
June 11, 2013
Thoughts and Prayers to the family.
Rob and Joan Lawrence
June 11, 2013
Nancy and boys: you have been in our hearts and on our minds ever since we learned of Shawn's passing. He was so full of life and had such a generous spirit. He will be missed by many. We are out of town, but will be in touch when we return. Rob and Joan Lawrence
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