RALPH TALBOT TROY FEBRUARY 4, 1935 - January 26, 2014 Ralph Talbot Troy died bravely and peacefully on January 26, 2014 in Hender-sonville, NC, following a long battle with cancer. His wife and children were at his side. Ralph was born in Monroe, Louisiana in 1935 to Vera Nobes Troy and Richard Matthew Troy. He graduated summa cum laude from the University of the South at Sewanee, Tennessee, with a major in political science. In 1956 he married Frances Warner of Lookout Mountain, Tennessee. After earning a law degree from Tulane University in 1960, Ralph returned to his home town, Monroe, where he joined his father in the family insurance and mortgage banking business. Ralph was elected mayor of Monroe in 1972, at the age of 37. Mayor Troy accomplished good things for the city, including a successful flood prevention program and an urban renewal initiative that provided new and improved streets and sidewalks. He also updated the police and fire communication systems, significantly improving surveillance, patrol, and emergency services. In 1982 Ralph and his family moved to Wilmington, NC, to maintain a home by the sea. There he enjoyed sailing and scuba diving and was an avid tennis player. Ralph served as Chair of the Democratic Party of New Hanover County (North Carolina) and on the management team for Harvey Gantt's campaign for U.S. Senate against Jesse Helms in 1990. He also worked for the successful re-election campaign of North Carolina Governor Jim Hunt in 1996. In 1997 Ralph and Francie built a home in the mountains in western North Carolina where they resided for fifteen years. He was a vocal and active board member for United Way Fund in Boone, NC. Ralph believed strongly in community spirit and service, and he led and spoke for the common good in every place he lived. Throughout his political career, community involvement and family life, Ralph championed causes for equality, fairness and justice - particularly for those in traditionally disadvantaged groups and victims of oppression. Ralph was known for his sharp mind and a wonderful sense of humor. He enjoyed many friends and was dearly loved by his children and his wife of 57 years. Predeceased by his parents and his older brother Richard, Ralph is survived by his wife, Francie; his children Pamela, Joan, Talbot and Joshua; his grandchildren, Willa and Talia; his brother, Nat Troy; seven nieces, five nephews and dearly held extended family Bill Warner, Felicia Kahn, Michael Murray and John Cribb. Those wishing to make donations in Ralph's honor are invited to contribute to the Elizabeth House/Hospice, 571 South Allen Road, Flat Rock, NC, 28731. A memorial service will be held at a later date.
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February 11, 2014
Ann Garrison
Dear Francie....I read about Ralph and wish to extend my sincere condolences to you and your family. My husband, Bob Garrison (who passed 7 yrs ago at age 79)and I were friends with you in Monroe when Ralph was mayor. You and your family are in my heart and prayers. Thinking of you with great affection, Ann
February 4, 2014
Francie,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family. We always thought so very much of Ralph. David & Beth Crouch Blackwell
February 4, 2014
Lisa Quinn Stetler
Francie,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ralph was a wonderful person. Not sure if you remember me - I was Jack Howe's granddaughter - I spent many a wonderful afternoon at your house. You both were always so wonderful to me. I have so many fond memories of you both in Shandy Point. Thank you so much for that. Sending love and thoughts your way.
February 4, 2014
Mrs. Gandy
Sorry for your loss. Draw close to God for comfort. James 4:8
February 3, 2014
Francie , please accept our condolences to you and your wonderful family in your loss . Ralph was an amazing man , and we can all take comfort in the memory of what he achieved in his lifetime .
Best regards , Jim & Becky Overton
February 2, 2014
Happy birthday, Ralph. We will celebrate the entire month of February, as we have done in the past. We love you still and always. Margaret and Walter
February 1, 2014
Jimmy Balfour
Mr. Troy was a good man for the job in Monroe, Louisiana and I imagine he did the best job that he could do when he was elected the Mayor. He must have enjoyed living in North Carolina.
January 31, 2014
Andrew Rogers MD
Ralph was a fine man and loving father. I knew him but for a short while when he was mayor in Monroe. Smart and a passion for helping others led him to a life of service. My sympathy to his Frances and the children.
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