Michelle J. Holmes

Michelle J. Holmes obituary

Michelle J. Holmes

Michelle Holmes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2010.
Holmes, Michelle J. age 36, of Northfield, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 due to injuries sustained in an automobile accident. Memorial services will be held Saturday, Aug. 21, 2010 at 1:00 p.m. at the Community of Hope Church in Rosemount, MN. Visitation will be held at the church on Saturday from 11:00 a.m. until the hour of services. Lunch will also be served during this time. Arrangements are being completed by the Benson & Langehough Funeral Home of Northfield. Michelle Jennifer Wirth, the daughter of Donald and Julie (Kenison) Wirth, was born on June 22, 1974 in Edina, Minnesota. She attended Apply Valley High School and graduated with the class of 1992. After graduating from high school, she continued her education at Iowa State University, graduating in 1996 with a degree in Communications. On September 24, 1999, Michelle was united in marriage to Brent Holmes at the Murphy- Hanrehan Park in Savage. On August 30, 2005 they were blessed by the birth of their son, Evan. Michelle obtained her Yoga Teaching Certification in 2009 and she became a certified and accomplished Yoga Practitioner and a lover of the practice. Michelle pursued life with passion. She loved her family, being a mom to Evan, and her hundreds of friends and their children. Michelle was amazing in so many ways and a gift to all. We could all learn a lot about how to live and what's important by being near her and paying attention to what she did and said and how she thought. Michelle knew exactly who she was and what she valued. She loved to have fun. Michelle lived life flat out as fast as she could go, always interacting with friends. She always ensured that Evan was involved and connected and knew how to make and maintain friendships. Michelle lived life doing a lot of what she loved and liked. She started the tradition with Evan of making sure that people were not only loved, but liked for who they were. Each morning she and Evan would say goodbye to Daddy from the front porch with a pronouncement of their love and like for daddy. "daddy we love and like you" ... over and over again until daddy was out of site. What a wonderful legacy to leave a child. She was a woman who loved spending time in nature, especially with her horses and dogs. - Michelle and Brent met while riding horses and Michelle continued that passion throughout her life. Anyone who knew Michelle knew instantly that Jack and Tenison were not only dogs, but they were full fledged members of the family. She was a woman of non-violence and non-harming, a vegetarian and was a consistent recycler and composter. She proactively strived to influence those who came in contact with her to adhere to principals of peace and personal responsibility to care for the planet and its creatures. She was a devotee of Jane Goodall and intended to volunteer in Jane's work in Africa. She enjoyed traveling with her family. She is survived by her husband Brent and their son Evan of Northfield and a loving extended family and a life's worth of amazing friends.

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September 17, 2010

Jason & Christina Cain posted to the memorial.

August 29, 2010

Jerry & Nancy Wissink posted to the memorial.

August 25, 2010

Susan & Bill Luzinski posted to the memorial.

Jason & Christina Cain

September 17, 2010

Michelle was a fantastic person, whose upbeat personality and welcoming nature will be truly missed. We only knew her for a short time through her being our Realtor in FH in 2003, yet she always put her best foot forward and was sincere and kind. Our prayers and deepest sympathy goes to the entire family during this very difficult time.

Jerry & Nancy Wissink

August 29, 2010

Dear Wirth Family,
Please know that we are holding you in our hearts and prayers.

Susan & Bill Luzinski

August 25, 2010

To the Wirth family, Brent & Evan: "Today and always, may loving memories bring you strength, comfort, and peace."

Julianne Skaar

August 24, 2010

Dear Brent,
I am so sorry to learn about Michelle. I enjoyed getting to know her at Bible Study a few years back. She is a delightful young lady, truly a wonderful life cut short. I'll be lifting you up to the Father as you deal with this loss in the coming days and months.

Barb Gibson

August 24, 2010

To the Wirth family, Brent & Evan: My sincere sympathy to you all. Such a tragedy. God will help you through this most difficult time.

Kevin Svec

August 23, 2010

To the Wirth family. We are so sorry to hear about this loss. I was in tears at work on Wednesday morning. Please know that we are praying for your entire family, especially for Brent and Evan. They will have a very difficult time ahead, and God will be there with His arms wrapped tightly around them. God Bless!

August 21, 2010

Dear Brent ~ We are so sad for you and Evan at the sudden loss of Shelly. What a beautiful soul she was, and it was so obvious to us each time we saw you that she adored you both so much. Her spirit will remain with you and comfort you as you move forward in the next few weeks and months. God is also with you, as are our prayers, to help ease some of your sadness.
Corey, Pam, Sean and Kathleen McSweeney

Kirsten Elton

August 21, 2010

Brent and Evan,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I never had the opportunity to meet Michelle but I know she was a kind and loving mother and wife to you. Please let Brad and I know if there is anything we can do. You will be in our thoughts.
Kirsten Elton and Brad Tongen

Dawn Patterson

August 21, 2010

Brent, Evan, and Family,
A beautiful obituary, for a woman whose life could hardly be summarized. We will miss Michelle so much, but know that all three of you will always be in our hearts. God's Blessings to all of you. -Matt, Dawn, Nicholas & Shelby Patterson

August 20, 2010

I will always know her for her HUGE smile and contagious energy. My deepest sympathies to her family. She is fondly, fondly remembered. God bless --

Ronelle Hunkins Rapp

Eric Hoffman

August 20, 2010

We were saddened to hear of this tragic loss....Shelly was a wonderful person. We keep your family in our thoughts at this time.

Tiffany Nagle

August 20, 2010

Brent, Evan & Family,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I never had the pleasure to meet this amazing mom, but I'll never forget the stories & joy that was always on Brent's face about this LIFE he Lived. True inspiration... your an amazing man and will keep this legacy going on & on..as Michelle assists from afar :)

All of you are in my thoughts and prayers...Take Care.

Love,
Tiffany

Class 92'

August 20, 2010

Holmes, Wirth family-
I'm beyond words with the loss you're feeling and going through. My blessings to you all. The obituary is beautifully written highlighting her love for her family and extremely touching as it reflects her well. I will never forget her and her constant smile during our highschool years.
Peace, love, happiness

August 20, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family - know she's in a great place and will live within you forever...

-Sporcichs

Sara Schwartz

August 20, 2010

To the family of Michelle,

I was so saddened to hear the news of Shelly's passing. My heart goes out to you and all of her friends and family. She was such a great person and was always such a sweetheart. I am so very sorry.

Kim Meyer

August 20, 2010

Brent, Evan and Family,
I just met Michelle within the last couple of months at CPY in Edina. We took several classes together and struck up conversation regarding our real estate backgrounds. I had been in a difficult time of transition and she always asked how I was doing each time she saw me. I could tell that she was a very special person. I will miss her face, her friendliness and conversation. I dedicated my practice this morning to Brent and Evan. May her light continue to shine.

Marlene McEwan

August 20, 2010

Brent and Evan,
Michelle was one of the most open, accepting, and perceptive individuals I've had the privilege to know, and she will be missed beyond words. I know how much she loved you and Evan and I will hold you in the love that she lived every day. Marlene McEwan

Melanie Edwardsen

August 20, 2010

Brent, Evan, and Family:
I just wanted you to know that you are covered in prayers. I pray each day that God would pour out His peace, and comfort over each of you.
I will always remember Michelle for the beautiful, joyful, and gentle spirit she was here on earth, and is now in Heaven.

Jen Baumgardner

August 20, 2010

Brent, Evan, and all who were fortunate to know and love Michelle,
May we all be blessed with peaceful memories of Michelle and the loving example of joy and peace she set for all. She was such a bright light in this world. Michelle, may your light continue to shine and may you find peace. Om Shanthi.

Chance Lindsey

August 20, 2010

Brent, Evan and family-
I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Unfortunately I did not get the pleasure of knowing Michelle, but having the opportunity to know Brent, I know how loving and caring she really was through the compassion Brent showed for her. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless

August 20, 2010

Dearest Brent, Evan, & Extended Family,

Words cannot express the feeling I have for the loss of Michelle. I remember so well seeing your little family walking by my home with your new son in the stroller. How proud you were and rightly so. And as time went on, Evan was sitting up in the stroller and then walking along side of you. Time does go on and Michelle will surely be missed by all. I enjoyed the short time that Michelle sit next to my desk at Edina Realty. That is when I really got to know Michelle and enjoyed her zest for life and her great love for her family. Brent, I am only a few doors from your home; and if there is any thing you need, please don't hesitate to ask. Lean on our everlasting God for comfort and peace. You will get through this time of sorrow , but it won't be easy, but God will sustain you always. Lovingly, Millie Harbaugh

Katie Heimdal-Cronin

August 20, 2010

The AVHS class of '92 were blessed to have Shelly as a classmate and friend. Our thoughts, prayers and sympathies are with family and friends. We will miss you Shelly and remember you always. God Bless.
-AVHS Class of 1992 & Katie Heimdal Family

John Appert

August 20, 2010

Brent: We felt awful at hearing the news. It is always difficult to lose the one's we love but the age and circumstances with Shelly make it more so. Our thoughts and best wishes are with you and Evan as you cope with this tragedy and celebrate her wonderful life.

Jamie Anderson

August 19, 2010

I looked at this screen forever. I haven't seen Shelly in 18 years, yet looking back at when I knew her I can see how much she touch my life. My prayers are with the family.

August 19, 2010

Dear Brent, Evan and Family, Tears came when I heard of the loss of Michelle. She was a such a wonderful friend. She had a contagious positive attitude. Knowing Michelle meant you were blessed. She was a GREAT MOM to Evan! He was always her 1st priority and made sure he was always loving and learning each day. I just want you to know that you are all in my prayers.

Michelle is safe in His keeping

Becky Burrell (friend from Hosanna Bible Study)
Farmington, MN

Nicole Orr

August 19, 2010

Brent and Evan~

I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers, Shelly was a wonderful person who will be missed by many.

Keith Ritchie

August 19, 2010

Our thoughts are with you Don, Julie and family.

August 19, 2010

Brent and Evan,
We are heartbroken over the loss of your Michelle. Please know how much you all mean to us. We will hold you in our prayers. May God carry you through these difficult days.
Anna, Wade, and Talia Bushman

Mary Quickstad

August 19, 2010

Brent,Evan,Gail,Bob,Shayna & Michelle's family...I am thinking of all you with such a heavy heart. May all the good memories you have help lighten your burden and the love you have for each other help to console one another. I am thinking and praying for you Brent & Evan.

Anna and Wade Bushman

August 19, 2010

Brent and Evan,
We are heartbroken over the loss of your Michelle. You are in our prayers and thoughts. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

August 19, 2010

Dear Brent, Evan, Mr & Mrs. Wirth: My heart just aches for all of you. I have shed many tears at her loss for all of you. The Tri Delta sisters are inconsolable at her untimely departure. As Melissa Berke's Mom, we were with her on many occasions at ISU and since they commuted to and from ISU together for 2 years, I know what fun they had. She was certainly a sparkle in everyone's lives and will continue to remember her bigger than life. Our deepest sympathy, prayers and hugs are sent your way. Mom Berke (Wanda and Marv Berke - formerly of Eden Prarire, now of Rockton, IL)

Diane Sieber

August 19, 2010

Brent, Evan, Bob & Gail,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Michelle. I will be thinking of you all and wishing you peace of heart and mind, and beautiful memories to sustain and comfort you.

August 19, 2010

Brent, Evan and family.... we are so saddened by the loss of such a dear woman, friend, mom, wife, aunt.... I can't even imagine the grief. We are praying for you. Find comfort in knowing Michelle left many hearts changed- simply because we were blessed to call her our friend. Leah, Doug, Owen and Gracie

Daryl & Kris Serbus

August 19, 2010

Brent, Evan and Family -
Kris and I are so sorry to hear about the loss of Michelle. We cannot imagine what you are going through right now but you and Evan will be in our prayers. May God comfort you at this very difficult time. We will always cherish the time we had with Michelle forever.

Erik and Erica Hinkie

August 19, 2010

Dear Brent, we are shocked and grief-stricken to learn of Michelle's death, and express profound sorrow and condolences for you and your family. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. The Hinkies.

August 19, 2010

I'm just so saddened by this. Shelly was on the danceline with me in highschool. We always had such a fun time together. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

The Darringtons

August 19, 2010

Don, Julie, Brent, Even and Michelle's entire family and friends. We are deeply sorry to hear about Michelle. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers as you deal with Michelle's departure from our world. Heaven as gained an Angel and the earth will never be the same. Please let us know if there is anything you need from us at any time. Our love, The Bayers

Heather Carlin

August 19, 2010

Dear Brent, Evan and all who hold Michelle close to their hearts,
I simply cannot express to you how so very sorry I am for your loss. Michelle was a beautiful person, both inside and out, who lived life with such passion and energy. Michelle's friendship blessed my life in so many ways. I love you, Michelle and I, too, will hold you close to my heart.

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