Mary Janet Cargill

Mary Janet Cargill

Mary Cargill Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 7 to Feb. 9, 2010.
Cargill, Mary Janet (Morse) Died on February 5, 2010. A native of Minneapolis, she was preceded in death by her parents, Willard A. and Mary Fraser Morse, brothers, Willard and Fraser, and husband, James R. Cargill. She was known to her friends and family as a private, independent, intelligent, strong, and informed woman with a good sense of humor and a passion for bridge and sports. Mary Janet was a graduate of Northrop Collegiate High School (Minneapolis), attended Wheaton College (Norton, Mass.) and completed her B.A. degree in mathematics at the University of Minnesota, where she was a member of the Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority. She was employed at Honeywell as an engineering assistant before marrying James R. Cargill in 1947. She was active in the Junior League of Minneapolis, executive officer and board member of the Northwestern Hospital Auxiliary, and a supporter of philanthropic organizations. Mary Janet excelled in all activities that she pursued, but she especially loved golf and was a keen competitor. She played the City League for the Minikahda Club for over 20 years, won the Woman's Club Championship in 1966 and 1981, shared top honors in the Member-Member Tournaments of 1994 and 2006, and won many other competitions. A determined player and an active learner throughout her life, she preferred to carry her own bag and shot an 87 in her final round last November. Mary Janet was devoted to the Minikahda Club and served as its first woman board member. She also will be fondly remembered at the Minneapolis Club, Ironwood Country Club (Palm Desert, CA), and The Reserve (Indian Wells, CA). She is survived by her children, James R. (Susan) Cargill II, Austen S. (Cynthia) Cargill II, Marianne C. (Steve) Liebmann; nephew, Craig Morse; nieces, Linda Larson and Debbie Le Doux; and six grandchildren. Memorials preferred to the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum Annual Fund (www. arboretum.umn.edu). Services will be held Wednesday, February 10, 1:00 pm at Plymouth Congregational Church, 1900 Nicollet Avenue, Minneapolis, MN 55403.

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February 18, 2010

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February 16, 2010

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February 15, 2010

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Gail & Ren Cottle/Brown

February 18, 2010

Dear Family of Mary Janet,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We were fortunate to have met Mary Janet at The Reserve and enjoyed golf and a few dinners with her over the years. I was a new golfer when paired with her once on ladies day and she was so kind, encouraging and helpful to me. She was a true competitor and it was clear she loved golf. The gathering at the Reserve club on the 19th was a fitting and lovely tribute of her life. Mary Janet was an authentic and genuine human being. We are happy we had the pleasure of knowing her. Gail Cottle and Ren Brown

February 16, 2010

JIm, Austen and Marianne, I'm sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I will always remember her kindness to us "kids" growing up (even when we didn't deserve kindness:) Brent Frost (Winston-Salem)

John King

February 15, 2010

Jim, Austin, Marianne and family,

I so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. It was great to see her again at Patrick's wedding. We got a chance to catch up on things. She was always such a nice lady. She will be missed.

John & Diane King

February 14, 2010

Mary Janet was amazing. She was such a lady. I had the pleasure to golf and play bridge with her. She was down to earth and treated everyone with respect. All of us will truly miss her. Carol Hanson

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February 9, 2010

Cynthia,Austin and families, I am so sorry to hear about Mary's passing. I will be thinking and praying for you to stay strong in this sad time.

Joan Kampmeyer

February 9, 2010

My sincerest condolences to the Cargill and Liebmann families relative to the loss of Mary Janet.

Joan Kampmeyer

February 8, 2010

Dear Family,

I am one of the original "Pussies". So, I have had the pleasure of enjoying Mary Janet over the last 20 years. What a kick of time we have had over all those years!

At first I was taken aback by her being such a private person, but then moved beyond that and found out what a truly unique person and friend she was. I am so very thankful she was in my life. She was fun, strong, God know competitive, and a true friend.

She will be missed.

With love and caring to all of her family.

Kathy Johnsen

Deb Gill

February 8, 2010

We are all truly sorry for your untimely loss. We'll be thinking of you during this difficult time.

Cookie Kronfeld

February 8, 2010

Mary,you were a great bridge partner and score keeper. I will miss our evenings at Paneras and our early card games. You were not only a lovely individual, but a good friend. I am saddened by what you went through. You are in my heart. Cookie

Courage Center

February 7, 2010

On behalf of the staff at Courage Center, please accept our condolences on the loss of Mary. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time

Craig & Vickie Bailey

February 7, 2010

Marianne,Steve,Andrew,Amber and All,
Mary Janet was so full of life, I guess it was hard to imagine this day would ever come. Craig and I want to send our sincere sympathy and want you to know we are thinking about you in this time of sorrow.

Marcia Massee

February 7, 2010

Austin and Cynthia,
I am so sorry for your loss. Mary Janet was beautiful, generous, and very competitive. Our whole family will miss her presence at our cabin in Spooner-especially for our Fourth of July get-togethers and her spirited participation in our tennis event. We share these wonderful memories of Mary Janet with you and all her friends. I pray that God will give you comfort and peace in your loss and reassurance of a reunion with your mom in her eternal resting place.

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