Mary Cummings Obituary
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Kathy K.D.
January 26, 2020
So often I will be driving somewhere or doing just about anything, and something I see or hear reminds me of Mary Jo, and I cant help but smile or laugh. I have so many fond memories going all the way back to Christ Child School and how much joy Mary Jo brought to the kids there when she volunteered. Over the years our paths would continue to cross and she always made it seem like not a day had passed. I miss that. I always miss that every single time I drive by the house on Cretin, which is so often. I am holding on to many special memories, and never forgetting Mary Jo.
Penny Mattson
January 25, 2019
My grandson Kyle still has a picture of them is his room. She was quite the loving person and such an inspiration to those she taught.
2011-2012 Morning Kindergarten Class
Molly & Bryan (Ben, Laura, Noah) Cochran
February 14, 2013
Mary Jo's smile, laughter, tough love, and simple words of wisdom will be missed in room 100 for years to come. All 3 of my kids had the privilege of having Mary Jo as a teacher. We are all better because of her and will never forget her. The picture is the morning class in 2011. She "sainted" both of her classes in the Pioneer Press that year, mailing each of them a picture and a quarter to buy the paper. Always giving.
February 14, 2013
Dear Betty and Family,
We are praying for your peace as Mary Jo smiles on you from Heaven.
Mary Jo first "studied" with our daughter Meredith as a second grader more than a dozen years ago and has been our family friend since. Just the week before she died she was helping us again as she generously agreed to do the flowers for a wedding for one of Meredith's friends even though it was the weekend of her big event, Twins Fest! We are so grateful to Mary Jo for all the wonderful lessons and gifts she has given our family over many years - she gave from her heart and soul. She inspired Meredith to be a teacher and we looked forward to Meredith learning from Mary Jo her secrets and special gifts for teaching young children. Mary Jo's selfless works and generous spirit live on in our hearts; she has truely inspired us!
All our love as you remember Mary Jo, Marty, Jody, Christine and Meredith Duda of St. Paul
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Cindy & Andrea Linafelter
February 12, 2013
My daughter was in Ms Cummings class 15 years ago. A memorable quote that we still live by learned in her class, "life goes on in spite of it all". True as that is we will miss you, and are grateful for have known you, safe travels Mary Jo.
Paula Simmons
February 12, 2013
Mary Jo will truely be missed by any child who struggles in their education. Her tenacity to instill confidence in children was a true gift that led them to succeed in school and beyond. My children were benefactors of her talent and care. Thank you Mary Jo.
Annie Shinbach
February 11, 2013
Mary Jo was a great friend and teacher. From sharing her love of the Twins to sending me off to college with a college survival basket, she was thoughtful in everything she did. I was lucky enough to have Mary Jo as a teacher at SPA and she became a great friend to my whole family... a relationship that lasted long after our time together at SPA. The notes in this guest book are a testament to to the countless lives she touched. She will be greatly missed, but always remembered.
Angie Lee
February 8, 2013
Cousin Jo,when you embraced me as part of your family,you gave me the gift of love.A love that held the bond of friendship and belonging. you were such an inspiration to people you've touched;indeed, an spiritual blessing.I will miss the phone calls when i'm alone.Thank you.you were right"life is too short"I was fortunate to have known you.You will always be in my heart and prayers.
Aunt Betty and Pat, our fond memories together will help us heal.My love and prayers to you and your family.
PAULA AMATUZIO
February 5, 2013
WILL MISS YOU MARY JO. SHE TUTORED SAMI IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. SAMI IS NOW PRE-MED AT ST. MARY'S WINONA. ALL OUR LOVE THE AMATUZIO'S
Kathy Estrem
February 5, 2013
Ms. Cummings made my daughter, Rachel, feel like she was very special to her. She was very invested in all of her kids, even buying them books from the book fair and cotton candy at the Twins game. She was a generous and loving person who will be greatly missed.
Jean Pauly
February 5, 2013
I was also in one of the first classes she taught at St. Boniface in Cold Spring. My first teacher! She will always be remembered because of all the children she impacted. What a beautiful legacy to leave!
Trisha Pratt
February 3, 2013
My sympathy goes out to Mary Jo's family, friends and students. She was the most amazing, loving teacher I have ever met. She was my son Nicholas and my daughter Korissa's kindergarten teacher at JFK 12 years ago. My children are saddened by the news, but have many memories of her and will always be cherished. Rest in peace Mary Jo Cummings. Our prayers are will your family during this hard time. We loved you and will miss you dearly !!
Ann McMillon
February 3, 2013
God bless you MaryJo.
SHari Renfors
February 3, 2013
Ms. Cummings so touched my son Nathan's life - words cannot express what she did for him - she helped him to get to the next level - 1st grade. She got him reading and tutored him last summer to make sure he didn't forget anything! They celebrated their birthdays together - his is July 5th hers the 3rd but they still did work after the cupcakes! She was a saint! Now that he is in 1st grade - I stil would stop in and talk to Ms. Cummings to get advice or update her on Nathan's great progress! I will so miss her!
Cynthia Cummings
February 2, 2013
Dear Mary Jo,
When you walked into a room - your Heart and Soul walked into the room. You were and are still a very Special Daughter, Sister, Aunt, Cousin, Teacher and Friend. Your Bright Light has touched and transformed each of us. Your loving, giving nature; and boundless energy will stay with me always.
My Prayers are with Aunt Betty, Patty Kay and Oona, and Mike and family.
Cousin Cindy
Laura Chapman
February 2, 2013
Ms. Cummings was an absolutely excellent teacher whom this world will truly miss. Loved by so many. We are so sad to have lost her but grateful for Heaven's gain! Love, Jeremy, Laura, Carter, Addyson & Makenna Chapman
Jennifer Anderson
February 2, 2013
Mary Jo,
You were my kindergarten teacher in 1996 and as well as my brothers I remember having the best of times in you classroom. You were full of energy that made the room light up. You treated all of your students like angels. I will never forget you, and your amazing smile!
Hannah Riederer
February 2, 2013
Mary Jo,
It is hard to believe that all your passion has left us. You helped so many children learn to read and you let no obstacle get in the way. I think about all the years we worked together at SPA and the generosity and support you showed me when I faced hard times. Your light will shine on in all your former students.
Harald, Boyd and Juliette Faber-Savage
February 2, 2013
My sympathies to all of you. Mary Jo was a force of nature with a loving heart that brought unlimited possibilities to life. She left a lasting impact on my career as a teacher and supported us as we created a family that will never disappear from our hearts.
Kristin Bugler
February 2, 2013
My deepest condolences on your loss. I wasn't fortunate enough to have worked in Mary Jo's room at JFK, but I had firsthand knowledge of her generosity. In December, Mary Jo picked up the entire bill (anonymously) for the JFK paras' holiday luncheon. Just one example of what she did countless times, for so many. I marveled at her enthusiasm, energy, and amazing spirit. What a wonderful legacy Mary Jo leaves behind. God bless you all.
Patti McDonald
February 2, 2013
TO the Cumming's family...Mary Jo was Matt and Molly's kindergarten teacher. She was an AMAZING teacher when my kids had her (22 years ago)! She continued to be amazing to this very day! She cared deeply for EACH of her students and had the HIGHEST expectations...accepting each child as they were...
I had the privilege of working with Mary Jo andher kids every year for the annual field trip to McDonald Eye Care...something she started doing when Matt was in her class and continued for 21 years! She was scheduled to come in next week...I will not disappoint you Mary Jo...I will treat your kids with the same respect you did!!
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
God speed Mary Jo...see you at Spring training!
All of you will be in our prayers. God bless.
Tony, Patti, Matt, Molly and Meg McDonald
Karen Laidlaw
February 2, 2013
I only knew her for a short while but she brightened my day and was such a positive person, with so much enthusiasm and energy. I admired her as a teacher and a person. Heaven gained a beautiful and bright angel. I will miss her.
The Wilke's
February 2, 2013
For you Mary Jo,
Your light is now carried in all the children, young and older who you have helped in your years here on earth!
February 1, 2013
We at New Horizon Academy have worked with Mrs Cummings for many years. Making sure the transition to kindergarten is an easy one. She will be greatly missed. Heaven just got an amazing angel.
Dave Crowley
February 1, 2013
Mary Jo,
TwinsFest just won't be the same without you. Sitting and talking to you and hearing the stories you told about your kids as you called them. Hearing those I could tell you loved them all. You'll be missed by everyone you touch.
Janis Minnerath
February 1, 2013
I was one of the first classes she ever taught at St. Boniface in Cold Spring. I loved her dearly then and think fondly of her now. She even sent me a card when I graduated from school. I only hope I can have an impact on the children I teach the way she impacted me.
Kim Thompson
February 1, 2013
Cummings family,
My family is very sorry for your loss. Ms. Cummings you were a true caring teacher holding your students accountable to doing there best. I thank you for being a great teacher to my two kids. I will miss our Thursdays together and your "Betty" stories.
Love the Thompson Family.
Kim, Brock, Piper and Spencer
Spencer Thompson
February 1, 2013
You were a kind and good teacher. I will miss you!!! Love Spencer.
Piper Thompson
February 1, 2013
Ms. Cumming was a caring teacher. She cared about everyone.
I loved her as my teacher.
Barbara Samuelson-Gutz
February 1, 2013
Dear Betty your loss is also our loss. I had the pleasure of helping you and Mary Jo with your banking needs for many year at the walk-up teller windows at Liberty State Bank. My brother Michael "Sammy" also passed away Monday 28th We had his funeral today. Sammy was a huge MN twins fan as well. We also chose Calvary for his resting place. I'm sure they will meet in heaven and have much to talk about. Two very LOVING people taken from us way to early in their lives. Rest in Peace
February 1, 2013
We at McDonald Eye Care Associates had the privilege of working with Mary Jo for over 20 years. She would have her kindergarten classes visit us each year. We will miss Mary Jo and we will take care of her kids next week when they come for a field trip! Our sympathies are with Mary Jo's family and students!
Ms Cummings talking to her current afternoon Kindergarten class after Halloween costume parade through JFK
Deb Naatjes
February 1, 2013
Ms Cummings, she was a force of nature, and it has been so hard on myself and my children to realize she really was mortal! My heart is sad to loose such a treasure. She has taught 3 of my 4 children in her class, with my daughter being in her afternoon class currently. She has left an imprint on myself and my children that we will not forget. Words cannot express the gratitude I feel for having her touch our lives. Thank you to Ms Cummings Mom (whom she talked about regularly) For sharing your amazing daughter with all of our children (and their parents), we are grateful to you, and extend our deepest sympathy for your loss!!!
With Love,
The Naatjes Family
Jon, Deb, Dylan (12), Parker(9) & Preslee (5)
Katie (Misukanis) Pan
February 1, 2013
Words cannot describe how sad I am to learn of the Miss Cummings passing. She was my kindergarten teacher in 1985. She made such an impact on my life and my family's life. She was an outstanding teacher and friend. She was one of the most giving and generous woman I know. She was a role model on how to live a Christian life. My thoughts and prayers are with Betty and the Cummings family. The world lost an outstanding person!
Janette Lawson
February 1, 2013
Special place in heaven for Mary Jo! Can't believe it was you time..you had so much life in you! I have never had a teacher as passionate about students and their families as Mary Jo. She never left anything unresolved or unanswered.If she couldn't reach you she'd show up at your door!! Love it! Touching lives and making a difference is what she did everyday without care of recognition. Kiss your brain Mary Jo!! Thanks for your spirit and compassion. Never fogotten! Love and prayers to your family- Janette, Dalton, Chad & Madison
Halle O'Falvey
February 1, 2013
Mary Jo always had a smile and a good laugh whenever I met up with her. I have known her since I was 13 years old as freshman at St. Joe's. she will be sorely missed.
Halle
Annette (Andy) Plante
February 1, 2013
To all of Mary Jo's loved ones,
My deepest sympathy to all of you over the loss of Mary Jo. She was a fantastic lady. She will be deeply missed by all those her knew and loved her.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Andy, at Dr Killian's office
I am Dr Killian's dental assistant
Ed, Madeline & Annie Shinbach
February 1, 2013
I cannot think of ever seeing Mary Jo without leaving with a smile on my face. When our daughter Annie was 9, Mary Jo told her that if she left food for the Easter Bunny outside of the house then the Easter Bunny would leave treats there. Unknown to us, Annie left two carrots outside the back door. Sure enough, on Easter morning, there was an Easter basket outside the door and eggs scattered all around the yard. Annie called Mary Jo to let her in on the good news. A generous, passionate person, Mary Jo will be missed by all of us. Betty, you have our deepest sympathy and we hope you can take some solace in having raised such a wonderful daughter.
Margie Koneczny
February 1, 2013
My sympathy to Mary Jo's family. We were fellow Joeds at SJA. She will be forever fondly remembered.
Mary Knutson
February 1, 2013
It is all said so beautifully here by so many. Obvious how this woman touched everyone she came into contact with. She truly lived her life doing God's work. She is one of those people you just know had a direct transfer to heaven. Mary Jo will be missed so very much. My deep, deep sympathy to her mother and family.
Steve Schefcik
February 1, 2013
Miss Cummings was one of the nicest and funniest people I have ever met. Although I didn't have her as a kindergarden teacher, you wouldn't know it because she made everyone feel like they were one of her students. That was just one of many qualities about her that I will never forget! I was lucky to have met such a wonderful person and she is going to be missed by so many people whose lives she touched. She will be greatly missed!
Kelli Lais
February 1, 2013
Every time I think think of Mary Jo I hear her laugh. She was always smiling and in a hurry to get to her next good deed. She spent everyday doing things for others, things she didn't need to do. She always went above and beyond. For example, she made us Easter baskets. They looked amazing and were stuffed full of great candy, a huge chocolate bunny, and a toy. They were above and beyond anything we thought we'd get for Easter. We were some very surprised and happy kids! We enjoyed her company at Easter brunch.
She always went above and beyond when doing things for others. She will be greatly missed.
February 1, 2013
Two of my 3 children had Mary Jo as their kindergarten teacher and I volunteered in the classroom during that time. She was so loving, positive and compassionate to her kids and always treated them as if they were her own. To this day if she saw them , she'd make a point to say Hi and find out what they were up to. She truly was a gift from God! Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Cummings family.
Gay, Kristina, Suzanne, and Steven Schefcik
Patrick Krienke
February 1, 2013
Mary Jo changed my life. I will never forget the first day I had her as a tutor, she made me cry. I was in third grade and was not used to her tough love approach. It was exactly what I needed however and for the next 7 years, once a week, I met with her. There was no time limit to our meetings. She would stay for hours if that's what it took for me to learn. She used to say, “You can't take your parents to college, you can't take me to college, so I'll sit here until you can do it”. I will never be able to thank her enough for what she did for me. It is because of her I am in collage and nearing graduation. On graduation day I am sure tears will be shed and once again it will be because of her. Rest in peace Mary Jo and thank you for never giving up on me.
Steve Schefcik
February 1, 2013
Miss Cummings was one of the funniest and nicest people I have ever met. Although I did not have her as my kindergarden teacher, I knew her very well like most people who went through JFK. This is because she would talk to everyone no matter who you were and always knew how to cheer you up. She touched so many people lives and will always be remembered. Thank you for having such a lasting effect on my life Miss Cummings. You will be missed greatly by everyone.
Graduation day June 5th, 1991
Jenna (Holm) Berge
February 1, 2013
Jack and Mary Jo
Eric & Jack Molter and Kristen Neurer
February 1, 2013
To Betty, Pat, and whole Cummings family, We are so very sorry for the loss of Mary Jo. What a gift she was when we moved into the neighborhood with her dynamic and incredibly generous spirit. She was absolutely beloved to Jack (whom she spoiled rotten!)and us all. We enjoyed spending time at the Twins games and just chatting in the driveway. She was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.
Lori Boegeman
February 1, 2013
To the family of Mary Jo my sincere sympathy. Mary Jo was the kindergarten teacher for three of my four children at St. Michael school in Prior Lake and she was the happiest and most bubbly teacher who expanded not only my childrens learning experience but mine as well.
She was the kind of person whose enthusiasm for life was contagious and once you met her you would never forget her. God certainly welcomed quite a lady to heaven!
David Misner
February 1, 2013
Every one who knew Mary Jo has been blessed. I thought to myself one day, if the world could be populated by people like her, we would all be in heaven everyday. Let her spirit live on within you.
Becky Johnson
February 1, 2013
Miss Mary Jo tutored my children. When we were struggling financially, she didn't charge us. When my children weren't working to their full potential, she called them on it. She taught me how to be a better parent. She was a wonderful, remarkable woman. I miss her already.
Caroline Patrick
February 1, 2013
Mary Jo, I am still in shock. I have oodles of wonderful memories of you. Every child in your life was your top priority. When I was in my school days, I never had you as a teacher, but you helped me in my extra classes I took at SPA, you pushed me to work hard and always believed in me.
I loved volunteering at your events at SPA, I loved our trips to the Dairy Queen, Barns and Noble, and to Best Buy to pick out a stereo for my mom for Mother's Day- remember wrapping that huge stereo on the back of you corolla in the wind? We were laughing so hard! I was so thankful on my 16th birthday when you offered me your corolla for my test- just so I wouldn't have to use our big family van. And, I passed! I loved how on Easter morning, year after year our front door was lined with Easter Baskets for me and my siblings, all filled to the max and wrapped in cellophane. I loved the way you laughed and tucked your hair behind your ear. Going to the Christmas sales with you, my mom and Deb to find gifts for our boys, you had everything all hunted out and you new just which stores we needed to check out. Mary Jo, you were so invested in everyone you knew.
As I read the other memories in your guest book, I am so humbled to know that you have treated everyone the same as me. You have always believed in me being the best I can be and I thank you for that. I miss you already so much.
Go Twins!
Ryan & Caroline (Lais) and John & Stephen Patrick
Caroline Patrick
February 1, 2013
Mary Jo, I am still in shock. I have oodles of wonderful memories of you. Every child in your life was your top priority. When I was in my school days, I never had you as a teacher, but you helped me in my extra classes I took at SPA, you pushed me to work hard and always believed in me.
I loved volunteering at your events at SPA, I loved our trips to the Dairy Queen, Barns and Noble, and to Best Buy to pick out a stereo for my mom for Mother's Day- remember wrapping that huge stereo on the back of you corolla in the wind? We were laughing so hard! I was so thankful on my 16th birthday when you offered me your corolla for my test- just so I wouldn't have to use our big family van. And, I passed! I loved how on Easter morning, year after year our front door was lined with Easter Baskets for me and my siblings, all filled to the max and wrapped in cellophane. I loved the way you laughed and tucked your hair behind your ear. Going to the Christmas sales with you, my mom and Deb to find gifts for our boys, you had everything all hunted out and you new just which stores we needed to check out. Mary Jo, you were so invested in everyone you knew.
As I read the other memories in your guest book, I am so humbled to know that you have treated everyone the same as me. You have always believed in me being the best I can be and I thank you for that. I miss you already so much.
Go Twins!
Caroline (Lais) & Ryan and John & Stephen Patrick
Jenna (Holm) Berge
February 1, 2013
Miss Cummings was my kindergarten teacher in 1990. She was one of the most amazing and kind teachers I ever had! She truly cared about her students. I remember a few years ago stopping in to see her at school just to catch up. She touched my life in more ways than she will ever know. Miss you Miss Cummings.
Debbie Reynolds
February 1, 2013
Dear Betty, Patty, Oona and Mike especially: I could not have been more surprised to read about Mary Jo's passing in the local Sun newspaper this morning than if the moon had just fallen from the sky! First of all, we are SO incredibly sorry for your loss. I wish my boys had known MJ better but they heard the stories over and over again.
We moved three houses down the street from the Cummings in 1969 and within it seemed like just a few days, Mary Jo was babysitting for me, my brother Doug and my sister Diane. I will never forget her serving us tuna fish sandwiches and spaghettios for lunch every day that first summer! We thought she was the coolest because my parents wouldn't do that!
The story I remember us laughing about most was my brother Doug slamming the front door and the clock falling in and electrocuting the fish. Mary Jo and I never failed to laugh like crazy about that, every time we told that story, a classic!! I know my brother, who beat her to heaven by 22.5 years, is glad to see her and it made me smile just to think about that. My mom, too! There is quite a party going on up in heaven right now, Betty and you can be so proud of what an impact this one fun-loving, positive, Christian woman had on so many. We remember her so very fondly. Thanks for sharing her with us. Praying for all of you with such a sudden loss.
Debbie (Curtis) Reynolds, MSN, RN
David, Christopher & Dwight, too :)
Andrea Linafelter
February 1, 2013
Ms. Cummings made such an impact on so many children, myself included. My heart goes out to her family, friends, and all of the students who loved her like I did.
Molly Boysen
January 31, 2013
To the family of Ms. Cummings, She was a wonderful teacher and will be deeply missed. My daughter Rebecca had her two years ago and is taking this loss very hard. She loved having her as a teacher and it was at our request that my son Kevin has her this year. She has stayed on top to make sure that they are working to their full potential. We all miss her sooooooo much. May she Rest In Peace.
Rob Gore
January 31, 2013
We're going to miss you Mary Jo! You were so good with our kids...and you had such a generous spirit. Heaven just got a little brighter!
Jason Stern
January 31, 2013
May you rest in peace Mary Jo. I will forever remember your hard work while I was with the Minnesota Twins and the new connection you started this year with the Minnesota Wild. Thank you and may your legacy live on with so many people.
Jason Stern
Theresa Fletcher
January 31, 2013
I could not have asked for a better teacher for my son! In the short time they spent together, she made such a tremendous impact with her awesome sense of humor and fiesty spirit.
My son thought it was the coolest thing in the world that his teacher liked trains and loved her stories so much (and I loved hearing them from him)!
We will miss Ms. Cummings so much, and are honored to have had such a special teacher touch our lives.
-The Fletcher-Hussein Family
Abnita Munankarmy
January 31, 2013
We are so sorry to hear about Mary Jo. Our thoughts and prayers are with Betty and the family.
Abnita, Ry and Ela
Olivia & Beckie Nicholson
January 31, 2013
Man this just sucks!!! She was an amazing teacher and woman. She even survived my Beckie who still is one of a kind... I'm sure she was greeted by the little ones in heaven that were lost too soon!! Along with all all of her family!! JFK and Lakeville Lost an amazing teacher! We love you and so many will NEVER forget you!
Kris McKibben
January 31, 2013
I have so many great memories of being Ms. Cummings' helper when my kids (Carlie and Joe - now 8th and 9th graders) were in her Kingergarten class, especially the hours putting up those paper chains on the ceiling that I believe her mom so lovingly made for the classroom - they were awesome. Mary Jo was an excellent teacher who loved her kids. She always taught her students that they could do things for themselves - she expected a lot because she knew they were capable of so much! I regret that I hadn't seen her in a long time. She will always be a big part of my memories of JFK and it make me so sad that she is not there. I will think of Mary Jo when I watch the Minnesota Twins, as I'm sure she will be cheering them on from the best seats in the house!
Robb Nelson
January 31, 2013
If you were lucky enough to have Ms. Cummings as your child's teacher, you know that her life's lessons will live on for years to come. I still hear our daughters repeat Ms. Cumming's famous quotes “Don't sweat the small stuff” or “You get what you get and you don't through a fit”. She had a true gift with children and could get the very best out of them. If there are truly angels on earth, and I believe there are, we just lost one on Monday, January 28th. Oh, how we wish we could see you “tomally”!
Robb, Deb, Brooke(9) & Paige(6)
Jeanne O'Brien
January 31, 2013
I am heartbroken. She was one of the most fun, beautiful and engaging people that I have ever met. I was a student at The Children's Theatre Company and her caring personality had a huge impact on me and my time there. Thank you Mary Jo for all your love!
sam Gore
January 31, 2013
i like mary jo so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Carlynn Miller-Gore
January 31, 2013
We were so grateful to have known Mary Jo. She taught both of my boys to read. She had a very special gift with children and families. The world has lost an incredible woman with a huge heart. Heaven is gaining another angel. God bless you, Mary Jo. I selfishly wish you were still here with us. Our prayers are with your mom, Betty, and the rest of your family.
Joe, Cathy, Cory, Joey, Katie, and Michael Goracke
January 31, 2013
Betty, you and your family our in our thoughts and prayers, at this most difficult of times. My family and I got to know Mary Jo, as a teacher at St. Michael school in Prior Lake. She had our three oldest children in school and the fell in love with her, as my wife Cathy, and I did. A funny little story if I could, involved our twins who are now 32 years old. Katie and Joey we waiting at the bus stop, and as the bus approach, Cathy started to walk back home. Katie saw that Joey got on the bus and immediately run to catch up with her mother. When Joey told Mary Jo the story at school, Mary Jo called the house. Katie decided she no longer needed to attend school. Mary Jo arrived at our house a few minutes later to find Katie under her bed. As Mary Jo, pleaded with Katie to go with her back to school, finally Katie agreed, provided "Ms Cummings" would take her to the Dairy Queen after school. Katie, enjoyed that Dairy Queen treat that day, but also started her on that road of loving school. Ms Cummings we'll always appreciate you going that exile mile.
Penny Mattson
January 31, 2013
My grandson Kyle had Ms. Cummings last year and he thought the world of her. I had the pleasure of meeting her several times and she is the most caring and loving person I have ever been around. God welcomed a beautiful person to heaven but she left her mark here on earth. My deepest sympathies to you.
Angie Ohnstad
January 31, 2013
I am still in shock. Mary Jo was not only a wonderful teacher for my daughter, Finley, but a good friend when I needed to talk to about the everyday happenings in a teacher's life. She gave me some great advice and I always enjoyed stopping by her room. What a wonderful person! She will be missed!
Love, Mitch, Angie , Finley and Piper Ohnstad
ann meany
January 31, 2013
Betty, we are so sorry for the loss of your amazing daughter, Mary Jo. She was an angel on earth for our family. We are shocked and saddened to hear about her death. It seems impossible for her to have passed as she was so full of love and engaged in life. She always had a story to share with us about you, her mom. She was very generous and went out of her way to help others. She was going to save us seats at Siena's graduation this spring. She helped our family not just by tutoring Siena but by making all of us better people...seriously. We will miss her so much. Sending you and your family love and prayers at this difficult time.
Ann, Lance, Siena and Nyasa
Kelly Krienke
January 31, 2013
I am having trouble catching my breath having just read the obituary. My husband and I were just talking about calling Mary Jo this week as we like to catch up and fill her in on our son's exploits. She tutored him from 1st through 8th grade in reading and writing. Driving to Roseville several times a week and often refusing payment because she 'loved' Patrick so much she wouldn't take anything for her efforts. She taught him to read and write where others failed. More than that she gave him the gift of tough love and taught both him and I to stop feeling sorry for him as a dyslexic and instead simply work harder. Today I know she would be so proud of him as he has achieved the Dean's list at UMD in Philosophy. He owes so much of his success to her teaching but also her tough love approach. She use to tell him, 'Pat, your boss is never going to give you half of a workload because your 'special', so get over yourself and get to work'. That will be her lasting legacy for me and I will be forever grateful that we knew her. My condolences to all of her family, especially Betty, who I know she loved so much.
Jenny Vinck
January 31, 2013
We are so very sorry to hear about Mary Jo's death. Betty and the rest of her family and extended family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jenny, Tom, Jack, Henry and Sam Vinck
Kathy Klein Diffatte
January 31, 2013
Mary Jo's heart knew no boundaries. I met Mary Jo at Christ Child School too many years ago to admit to. My life was never the same after that. I am so glad my son Nick was able to experience her joy for life, and her infectious laugh the few times they were together. Mary Jo had a way of making anyone she was with, feel like the most important person in the world. She left an indelible mark on anyone who knew her. We will all never be the same again. Be at peace, Jo.
January 31, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Betty, Mike and Patty.
Love
Betsy McMenomy
January 31, 2013
There are, absolutely, no words to describe the loss of such an unbelievable, positive, fun, and loving person.
Thank you, MaryJo, for loving my kids.
Thank you for being their day "mom".. for hugging them, teaching them, and mentoring them.
Thanks for visiting my daughter in the hospital (and bringing the six pack for my brothers).. and thank you for being a terrific friend.
The number of folks signing your guest book is a testimonial to your impact.
You were/are loved.
The Kozulla Family- Lakeville
A Ruhland
January 31, 2013
I really miss ms cummings. and i love her.
Molly ruhland age 5 in her class now
Chad, Amy, Emma, and Adam Denzer
January 31, 2013
We are deeply saddened at the loss of the Queen of our school, Mary Jo. My children were not in her class, but she touched us all with her kind and generous heart, passion for all she did and who she encountered, and her hearty smile and humor. It won't be the same without her. She leaves a legacy of generosity, kindness, and love...she put her heart into her kids and families. Our deepest sympathies to her mother, family, and friends.
A Ruhland
January 31, 2013
Ms.Cummings was the BEST kindergarten teacher IN THE WORLD for me! I loved her SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!And I will miss her ALOT!!!!!She was a loving,caring,awesome and a VERY kind person to have as a teacher(or a friend,a part of your family or a relitive)I will always think of her to be in your(and mine)heart.
Lucy Ruhland age 7 and a half
Mia (5), Mallory, Andy and Jen Black
January 31, 2013
We are thankful for the time our daughter had with her this year. She was loved by our entire family.
Tammy Mohn
January 31, 2013
Mary Jo was my son's teacher and my friend. Then she became the tutor to my goddaughter when she had cancer. She was an amazing lady. I know she is in heaven giggling with Rachel and catching up on everything. She special! She loved her mom more than anything on earth. She gave her life taking care of others always willing to give her last dollar to others to help the less fortunate. If you were lucky enough to have her for a teacher....you were one of her chosen forever!
I will miss you my friend!!!!
Lynda Rouillard
January 31, 2013
Ah, Mary Jo. What a gift you gave to all of us:students,parents,teachers,and friends. I sent many children to Mary Jo as a daycare provider-and she took them all under her wing. Say hello to Diane Keller for us-JFK has lost a really good one.
Mike, Katie, Sam, and Will Widmer
January 31, 2013
I couldn't have hand picked a better teacher to introduce my son to the ins and outs of gradeschool. Ms. Cummings loved and cared for all of "her kids" enough to tell them "No" when needed. She welcomed my younger son into the group on my volunteer days and treated him as if he was one of her kindergarteners. He loved going into her class and looked forward to the day that he too would be one of "her kids". She will be greatly missed.
John and Gabriella Gardner
January 31, 2013
Mrs Cummings was exactly what my daughter needed. I just wish Gab knew how good of a teacher she had.
Tammy Gardner
January 31, 2013
No words can express my sadness! Mary Jo was the kindergarten teacher to my three youngest but more than that she was a special friend and had a heart of gold and always was there for anyone that needed something!! Heaven gained another angel way to soon!!!
Nekaya, Thomas, Olivia and Evan Simpson
January 31, 2013
Can't put into words how much JFK will not be the same. Such an advocate for the underdog. She loved her kids like they were hers! And at every book fair at school, she would whip out her checkbook and buy each and every child a book, so no one would feel left out. Most generous person I've ever met.
Angie Couillard
January 31, 2013
Ms. Cummings was my daughter, Sydney's kindergarten teacher this year. To say that she positively impacted her life just doesn't seem to capture what she truly meant to my daughter. My daughter loves school and loves learning, and I attribute that to Ms. Cummings. I spoke with her a week before she passed away and she gave me such great parenting advice. She had a way of calming a nervous mother and teaching me to help my daughter - all at one time. I saw the absolute LOVE she had for every one of those kids. What a blessing she was to all "her kids" and to my family. Sydney and I will miss you, Ms. Cummings. We will never forget you.
Chad, Amy, Nick and Gavin LeBeau
January 31, 2013
No words can express how blessed my family feels for having been a part of such a wonderful, caring, and loving woman's life. We will miss her greatly.
January 31, 2013
Words can't describe how incredibly blessed our family has been to have known Ms. Cummings. An angel while living and now a true angel to us all. Thank you for making sure my kids reached there utmost potential everyday. Brody (5) says he loves you and you are the best teacher EVER! Logynn (6) will never forget you.
Love always,
The Brown Family
Tim, Sara, Logynn & Brody
Laura Brovold
January 31, 2013
She was such an amazing teacher. I feel blessed to have had her be a part of my son's life. She will be missed by so so many.
Amber Ruhland
January 31, 2013
I'm trying to find the right words to say to you. All of this has been so surreal.You were loved more than you will ever know. You did so much for so many people and I pray you are looking down from Heaven watching us as we all mourn your loss. Lucy and Molly loved you so much. We were so blessed to be able to have you in their lives. We will miss you. We will never forget you.
BJ, Amber, Lucy, Molly, and Jake Ruhland
Roxann Brennan
January 31, 2013
I went to St. Joe's with Mary Jo, she was a lovely person. I am sorry to hear of her passing. Please accept my condolences on your loss.
Elizabeth Baum
January 31, 2013
Wonderful, generous, and caring. Most loved Kindergarten teacher, who blessed the lives of so many.
Room 100 will never be the same.
You will be deeply missed!
Joe Lais
January 31, 2013
It would be impossible to exaggerate her impact on the Lais family. She made learning to read exciting, interesting and fun. When the school and the parents failed, Mary Jo knew the secret to teaching boys and girls to read and enjoy it for life.
We have the memories of the Twins games with Mary Jo and Betty. When you went to a game with her you just might end up with your picture on the scoreboard. She made things happen.
Someone else came up with the phrase I think captures her spirit and the meaning of her life. Mary Jo Cummings was Crazy Generous. That's how I will remember her.
Debbie Daly Filla
January 31, 2013
Mary Jo and Betty so so much a part of the Daly family's life and memories. My thoughts and prayers are with Betty and the rest of the Cummings family.
Kathy O'Hara Stauff
January 31, 2013
I am so sad to hear of Mary Jo passing. We were 3rd cousins and shared the same birthday. No matter how much time had past, when we saw each other she'd say "Hi Cuz". I attended grade school and high school with her and always loved her sense of humor. Reading her legacy makes me want to be a better person. My prays go out to all who loved her.
Wendy Stendel
January 31, 2013
She was my son's teacher. She taught those children more than their abc's! She taught them life-long lessons about kindness, love for mankind, and perseverance. My favorite phrase of her's...."you get what you get, and don't throw a fit." Thank you Mary Jo! You were earth's angle to our children.
January 31, 2013
Mary Jo was a wonderful friend to our family. We will miss you a lot. Love you! The Pritzl Family
January 31, 2013
An incredible loss. With heavy heart we grieve not only for the students blessed to have had Ms. Cummings, but also for those that will never have the experience of being in Ms. Cummings classroom. She believed in every student she taught and pushed each to reach his or her full potential.
With love and admiration, the Rost Family, Cheryl, Mike, Hilary, Harry, and Hannah.
Rob Malec
January 31, 2013
Mary Jo was a true friend. I will never forget her generosity to me and the loved and suppport she shared with the Minnesota Twins.
Rob Maelc
January 31, 2013
I will never forget the friendship Mary Jo shared with myself personally, as well as wtih the Minnesota Twins organization. Mary Jo is one of a kind!
Kathy O'Hara Stauff
January 31, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Mary Jo's passing. We were 3rd cousins and shared the same birthday. It didn't matter how much time had passed, when we would meet she'd have a big smile and say "Hi Cuz". I attended grade school and high school with her and will always remember her laugh and great sense of humor. Reading her legacy makes me want to be a better person. My prayers are with all who loved her.
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