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Angie (Durand) Steinbach
December 19, 2012
Dear Jim and Family,
I just received Jill and Jon's Christmas card with the sad news about Pam's death. I want to send my deepest sympathies to you.
It was not too long ago that I was driving down Lake Elmo Avenue past your parent's house, thinking about the time Pam took Wendy, Jill and me for a ride in her new convertible. We had a blast.
I don't know the circumstances of her death, but I understand it was sudden. May your precious memories sustain you and give you peace as you continue down this lonesome road without the love of your life.
Angie
November 30, 2012
Jim and family, we are so sorry to hear about Pam. I have so many fond memories from Golden Valley, and I always loved her xmas card, filling me in on the family. Our hearts go out to all of you. I want to thank you Jim for calling me, it was wonderful talking to you, you have a wonderful family.
Love and prayers.....Bev,Jerry, Jeff and Dan
Angie Doughty
October 28, 2012
Jim, we are so thankful for our Divine appointment today at Rivers Edge Church! You and Pam were such a blessing to us during a hard time in ministry! We were reminded again today of what a blessing you are! So wonderful to see you again, so sad to see you without Pam beaming by your side! The world is a little dimmer without her and Heaven is now a little brighter! We mourn with you. Your joyful outlook and your attitude of thankfulness to The Lord blessed us immensely today! Hugs, Jesse and Angie Doughty
Gary Riedl
October 24, 2012
Jim, I was surprised and saddened to learn of Pam's passing, especially so since you and I had recently re-connected by phone and email after so many years. For you and Pam to have shared so many years is truly a gift from God. Losing her means losing part of yourself. Of course, I remember you and Pam falling in love and being inseparable in high school! I'm sure you remember double dating with Nicky and me and even triple dating with other high school sweethearts. Knowing Pam and you in high school has always been a fond memory of mine. We all have traveled a long way, and it is too true that we can never be prepared to lose someone whom we have loved and adored for decades. My heart goes out to you.
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October 24, 2012
Jim & Family,
With great sadness we mourn your loss of Pam as a wife and mother. She will be missed by all of us as longtime neighbors on Clearwater Lake. May you find peace in her memory and the closeness of your family and many friends.
Jim & Donna Mills
October 23, 2012
Tam & Jim,
So very sorry to hear of your mother's passing.b You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this very sad time.
Robbir & Tim Hiltz
Mary Lou and Denny Rasset
October 23, 2012
Dear Jim and family, Pam was one of those people you meet and instantly become a friend. Her enthusiasm and zest for life were infectious. On the very day I met her at Clearwater Lake in your back yard I felt I'd known her for years. She was that kind of person you knew you liked instantly. My heart goes out to you all.

Christine with Tim and Jennifer
Christine Thatcher/Koehler
October 23, 2012
Jim and family, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Pam. I remember all of you well. Pam had such a contagious smile and laugh that one couldn't help but be happy around her. Connie, Tammy and Dave, you were all a lot younger when I last saw you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ross & Sandra Griffin
October 22, 2012
Dear Jim, Connie, Dave, and Tamara,
Our hearts prayerfully go out to you during this terrible shock. We send our love and care. May God's comfort and supporting love give you peace. Ross & Sandra
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