Lucile E. Miller Lucile E. Miller, an Austin resident since 1951, died March 25, 2013 at the age of 95. Lucile was born November 8, 1917 in Butler, Oklahoma to Grover Cleveland and Julia Ann Norris Jessee. Her father was a printer and newspaperman; her mother was a teacher and newspaper reporter. Lucile is survived by her children; Bob Miller and wife Barbara of Austin, Jeani Smith and husband John of Austin, and Bette Estis of Jacksonville, Florida; adopted daughters Ann Bofonchek, Gayle Brown and husband Troy, Karen Robinson and husband Carl. She is also survived by grandchildren; Jody Miller, Tracey Williamson and husband Mac, Curtis Miller and wife Serafina, Steve Sanderfer and wife Susan, Roy Sanderfer and fiancée Cathy, David Estis and fiancée Simona, and Dennis Estis and wife Jessica. Great grandchildren include Joanie Kirkpatrick and husband James, Leah Samuelson, Serena Brown, John Mellor Jr., Sheena Steiner and husband David, Wesley Williamson, Isabella Miller, Adelena Miller, Joshua Sanderfer, Brittany Jean Sanderfer, Talon Sanderfer, Alexandria Estis, Lilah Estis and Matt Foster. Great-great grandchildren include Katherine Kirkpatrick, Colton Kirkpatrick, Mason Crawford and Alexander Steiner and many loved nieces, nephews, cousins and a wonderful family of friends. Lucile is preceded in death by Roy, her life companion and husband of 68 years, father, Grover Cleveland Jessee, mother, Julia Ann Norris Jessee, brothers, Hubert and Carl Jessee, sister, Loretta Jessee, daughter, Julia Joan Williamson and great grandson, Timothy Sanderfer. In 1933, Lucile met and fell in love with Roy Miller. It was love at first sight, after a brief courtship they eloped and remained devoted to each other through 68 years of marriage until Roy passed away in 2002. Throughout Roy's twenty-nine year military career, Lucile and the children followed him wherever the military posted him, having exciting and educational experiences at each assignment. They lived in El Paso, Texas; Globe, Arizona; Dodge City, Kansas; San Marcos, Texas; San Antonio, Texas; Johnson Air Base, Japan; Ramey AFB Puerto Rico and Austin, Texas. Roy was a 75 year member of the 'HAM' community - W5FOZ; when Lucile was 75 years old she capitulated and decided to join Roy in his hobby; so she took her test for her amateur radio license, passed and became KB5YKM; she set up her 'HAM' station next to Roy's. A loving wife, mother and grandmother, Lucile was also a career woman and an avid volunteer worker. In Japan, after World War II and during the Korean Conflict, she did volunteer work in the base hospital providing a variety of services including admitting patients. Wherever Roy was stationed she volunteered in several different capacities, including serving as a 'Gray Lady' in various base hospitals and clinics. In Austin, she was the office manager for Safeway Farm Products and later retired from the City of Austin as the accountant for Brackenridge Hospital. Lucile was a very active member of Rosedale Baptist Church, where she taught Sunday School for several years. Her closest friends were her 'Golden Gems'. She was proud of her membership in the Daughters of the American Revolution, United Daughters of the Confederacy, Retired Officers' Wives Club and the Association of Government Accountants. Lucile's very large, extended family and the many friends she has throughout the world will miss her wit, counsel, easy laughter and wonderful smile. The family is especially appreciative for the wonderful care Mom received from all her caregivers, particularly Verna Sanders and Dr. David Joseph and his staff. Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from six o'clock until eight o'clock in the evening, on Friday, the 29th of March 2013, at Cook-Walden Funeral Home, 6100 North Lamar Boulevard, Austin, Texas. A funeral service will be conducted at two o'clock in the afternoon on Saturday, the 30th of March 2013, in the Colonial Chapel of Cook-Walden Funeral Home, 6100 North Lamar Boulevard, Austin, Texas. Entombment will follow in Assumption Cemetery Mausoleum, Austin, Texas. Condolences may be sent to www.cookwaldenfuneralhome.com
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Momma, I love you more than you'll ever know, and I miss you more and more everyday. It's getting close to the anniversary, and I can't even believe you're gone. Always in my heart momma, gone but never forgotten
Brittany Sanderfer
March 17, 2014
We give thanks for the life of our UDC sister, Lucile. May God bless you and give you peace as you mourn your loss.
Norma Thronburg, Chaplain
Mary West Chapter 26
Waco, TX
April 22, 2013
Mrs. Lucile, as my family knew her, was always a kind, friendly face at Rosedale Baptist Church. She first welcomed me as a single student. Then, when I got married, she welcomed my wife as well. After kids arrived, she continued smiling and welcoming. Even from her wheelchair, she was a consistent ray of sunshine.
When my time comes and I go to see my Lord Jesus, Mrs. Lucile will, once again, be there to welcome me. This time, however, there will be no walker, no wheelchair and no disease.
May God bless her family during this time of sorrow.
Santiago Mejia
April 3, 2013
On behalf of our entire UDC chapter we send our deepest and most heart felt prayers and condolences to the family of Lucile. We are praying for comfort and you go through the grief of losing your wonderful mother, grandmother, and friend.
Rebecca Venhaus, Chaplain
Shiloh UDC Chapter #2538, Plano, TX
April 2, 2013
Dear Miller Family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your mother. During this difficult we are encouraged to rely on God for comfort. The scripture at Psalms 55:22 reads "Throw your burden upon God and he himself will sustain you." I pray that you may find peace and comfort from reading this.
Sincerely,
H Washington
March 30, 2013
Jeani and John,you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Cheryl Boblick
March 28, 2013
All the UDC sisters of Terry's Texas Rangers, Richmond, TX send their condolences.
UDC Terry's Texas Rangers
March 28, 2013
Aunt Lucile, All will miss you dearly, you had a special place in my heart and you know why. I want to offer my Condolences to all the loved ones that are with you in heart, Our prayers are with you all.
Robert & Gemma Jessee
Robert Jessee
March 27, 2013
To the family of Lucile,
May God wrap His loving arms around you and comfort you as you recover from the loss of your beloved mother and family member. Although I did not meet Lucile in person I am getting to know her through the messages shared here and with her obituary and the beautiful photographs. She lives on in her descendants and in your hearts and memories. God bless you always.
Love,
Sherry Davis, Honorary President of General UDC
Sherry Davis
March 27, 2013
Momma, you stood by me when all others had given up on me. I love you with everything inside me. I will always miss your unwavering Faith and love.
Ann Bofonchik
March 27, 2013
Momma Lu, sorry I didn't get to meet you sooner but I am glad I had the chance.
Cathy Vessell
March 27, 2013
Hey Mama Lu I just want to thank you for all your help in the 17 years I have known you. I will always keep you in my heart and in my mind. You are never forgotten.
Your loving great grandson,
Talon
Talon Sanderfer
March 27, 2013
Mama Lu, there is no way to ever express or begin to say thank you for all of the lessons in life you have taught us. From showing us what true unconditional love is all about to showing us what compassion and commitment truly is, and most importantly, what family is all about. From the wrapped candy caramels on the end table to the warm pecan pies coming out of the kitchen, I am blessed to have so many wonderful memories filling my heart. I am so thankful that you got to meet Cathy, Mama Lu. I know that is one thing you wanted so badly for me, to meet a good Christian woman who would stand beside me and be with me just as you were with Daddy Roy. We know that you are with Daddy Roy and Jesus right now, and that does bring a smile to us. Hmm.... there you go again, making sure we find our smiles even in a dark moment. Thank you Mama Lu, for giving us the life lessons that will carry us throughout our lives. We love you and miss you so much!!
Roy Sanderfer
March 27, 2013
Mom, you have always amazed me with your grace and caring. Even strangers have always fallen in love with you. You were my light. Love you, your baby daughter, Bette
March 26, 2013
With all our love and prayers.
Margaret & Jonathan (Jonnie) Miller
March 26, 2013
Momma Lu, words do not come to describe the loss we feel, yet the joy we are experiencing in knowing you are, right now, back in Daddy Roy's arms. Susan and I will always feel like we are the recreation of you two: The Texas Boy finding his Oklahoma girl. We have a lot to live up to. Thank you for everything you taught me (Steve) over the years and know that we love you! Love, Steve and Susan (Dallas, Texas)
Steve Sanderfer
March 26, 2013
What beautiful memories! I'm sorry that Lilah and I can't be there with Dennis but we will be thinking of you all. Love, Jessica & Lilah.
Jessica Estis
March 26, 2013
Heaven has just gained a beautiful and special Angel. Mom, the ones you have left behind are so blessed to have had you in their lives. Thank you for loving us. Your daughter, Karen Robinson and her family Carl, John, and Sheena.
Karen Robinson
March 26, 2013
Mom,
There is no way to tell you how much we will miss you - our Sunday coffees; our lunches; ROWC and DAR meetings; long drives in the country to see the bluebonnets......... the list is endless ........ thank you for your love, your sense of humor, your constant prayers and, most of all, for going seamlessly from being my Mother to being my best friend.
Jeani
March 26, 2013
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