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W. Wade Porter Winston Wade Porter, longtime resident of Austin, died February 1, 2011, from pancreatic cancer. He was born December 30, 1952, in Houston, Texas, to A. Allen Porter and Jay Porter. Wade is survived by his wife Rayda and daughter Stacey; his mother Jay Porter of Houston; his brother Clay Porter of Houston and his wife, Susan, and their sons Brian and Brandon Porter. While Wade enjoyed his career as an attorney, most recently as a partner with Allensworth & Porter, L.L.P. in Austin, he also enjoyed reading Presidential biographies, following baseball, and blogging about current events and his life. In one blog post, he wrote the following to be included in his obituary. "My obituary is very important to me. Sort of a last shot that less prescient people than myself often forget to take. I think that the following might be used: 'His sartorial style was known more for its terrifying redundancy than for its distinction. He owned twenty-five pairs of Academy walking shorts, of which he wore the same two every day of his life. His dress shirts were an amazing array of white with small red spots which had been transferred there through over exuberant experiences with Pico de Gallo and pasta sauces. He had over twenty suits, of which no more than three fit at any particular time in his life. As casual wear, he preferred to don golf shirts from different timeshare resorts he had obligingly purchased from Romanian salesmen over the course of his legal career. The T-shirts which he wore each morning to walk his beloved dog, Amber, were known and admired all around the block for their faded humorous statements ("Old guys rule ") and stretches around the mid-section. He never went to a ballpark without buying a cap, and he never wore the purchased cap again unless he found it rummaging through the trunk of his car and managed to bend it back into good enough shape to fit on his pointy gray head. Like the pig of song and lore, his shoes were a "terrible disgrace" and his woven belts were each frayed to perfection at points where they could almost, but not quite, be hidden behind the belt loops of his pants. His penchant for wearing a pair of socks each day, one black and one navy blue, was a tribute not only to his poor eye sight, but to his refusal to be hemmed-in by fashion's dictates, need for peer approval, or even good common sense. He will be missed by all whom he made feel better about their shoe shine each and every day.' That's how I want to be remembered." Services will be held at St. John's United Methodist Church, 2140 Allandale Road, Austin, TX 78756, at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 5, 2011. In lieu of flowers, the family would like contributions made in Wade's memory to the Imagine No Malaria campaign (www.imaginenomalaria.org) or Operation Achievement, a mentoring and enriching program for middle school students in Georgetown, jointly run by Southwestern University and Georgetown ISD. Donations to Operation Achievement can be sent to Southwestern University/Operation Achievement, PO Box 770, Georgetown, TX 78627.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Feb. 4, 2011.

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Bob Biard

February 24, 2011

What an inspiring man, to be a top-notch attorney and a compassionate human being at the same time. I had not seen Wade in a long time, but I have extremely fond memories of laughing with him at Haynes & Boone, about old Cantinflas movies (especially the notorious bomb "Pepe"), and the inscrutable humor of Jimmy Durante. He was a really great guy.

Shelia Amundson-Harding

February 17, 2011

Dear Rayda and Stacey,

I just learned of Wade's death today as I was searching for old acquaintances in the Austin area. I worked for/with Wade at Haynes and Boone in early 1990s. I remember his humor and kindness and I was sad to learn that he passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Dan Harrison

February 12, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about Wade's death. We knew each other from kindergarten until graduating from high school, then lost track of each other until he tracked me down more than two years ago with a very kind and touching note. From what I remember of Wade from our early years and all the wonderful things I've read about him, he was a very special person who touched many people in very profound ways. My prayers and warm thoughts are extended to Wade and his family.

February 9, 2011

Rayda, I am so sorry to hear about Wade. So much has changed for both of us - the Porter's.
Much love to you and Stacey.
Pam Porter

Cathy Boland

February 9, 2011

I knew Wade & Rayda many years ago Wade was always one person who made a difference in life. Wade has touched the lives of so many in such positive ways. He loved life and he will be missed.

Paul Fagin

February 7, 2011

I worked for Wade Porter for nearly two years at his law firm in Austin and, even though he begged me not to, I always referred to him as "Mr. Porter." One of my most cherished memories of him was my last day on the job.

I was leaving to begin graduate school and Mr. Porter pulled me aside to take me shopping and buy me a tie. In his words, "If you're going to be a professional, you might as well look the part." It was a warm sentiment from a man that brightened the lives of those around him. I still have that tie, and I wear it whenever I need a boost of confidence.

Mr. Porter, you will be missed by everyone whose lives you touched.

Marilyn Meyer

February 6, 2011

I worked with Wade at Haynes & Boone, a million years ago....a wonderful, funny, and in my case, incredibly patient man. I know you will miss him, but what a gift he was to all of us. Peace be with you.

February 6, 2011

Rayda, I am so sorry to hear about Wade. Curt called me last night to tell me. All those years at FUMC I would look across the congregation and see you and Wade . You were two people we had known longer than anyone - all the way back to law school. It always sort of grounded me to know that there was someone there with whom who we went back many years...had shared important time with when we were young and just starting out. I am holding you and Stacey close in my heart. God be with you. Donde Ashmos Plowman, Lincoln Nebraska.

alice rowlands

February 5, 2011

"I know Wade's brother Clay, my colleague at HBU and Clay's son Brandon, the Collegian sports editor. Wade came from an incredible family. I met many of his family members when Wade and Clay's father died. My thoughts are with them. I loved reading the story, his story, about his life. Clay and Brandon, I am so very sorry. My love and prayers are with you. Alice Rowlands (Houston, TX).

Rebecca Bryant, Elaine Clay

February 5, 2011

Rayda- My Mom talks about you and Wade as if you were part of the family. I am so sorry for your loss. A wonderful obituary. What an amazing man.

Lanie Tankard

February 5, 2011

Rayda and Stacey,

So very sorry to hear about your loss. I did not know about the funeral in time to come. I'm sure Margaret joins me in expressing our deepest sympathy to you. I always enjoyed it when Wade came to our book group. My heart has gone out to your family during this long journey. May memories of happy times together sustain you now.

With love,
Lanie

Bill Pargaman

February 5, 2011

Wade gave us a remarkable gift. Can you remember the last time you read an obituary that made you smile? That gift probably says more about Wade's character than anything we could add.

Dirk Jordan

February 5, 2011

I knew Wade from practicing law in Austin and his involvement with the Inns of Court. I always looked forward to seeing him at the Inn meetings; he had a great sense of humor and was a lot of fun. And during the last few months he exhibited such grace. It was a privilege to have known Wade.

Debbie Young

February 4, 2011

Wade was a classmate of mine at Sharpstown and I remember he was such a nice, friendly guy. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you at this time.

Tony Ciccone

February 4, 2011

I knew Wade for one year. We were on opposite sides of a lawsuit, but we spoke on the telephone almost every single day and sometimes two to three times a day (including many weekends).

I learned a lot in that year from Wade even though we were often at odds.

Wade you are missed and you'll be glad to know we finally settled that case.

Michael Curry

February 4, 2011

Wade will be greatly missed by the Austin legal community. He was well respected and well liked by both the bench and bar.

Gary Franks

February 4, 2011

Wade you are too young to leave us. I remember when you and Jeff used to be at our house---always up to no good.

What a character you were then. Even though that has been over 40 plus years ago I still remember you well. When Jeff told me that you were a fellow attorney, I wasn't surprised. Regardless of what you wanted people to think, you were always one of the smartest of his friends. May God Bless you, your family and your beautiful mom, Jay. Love always.

Danny Hardesty

February 4, 2011

Wade and I were on the Sharpstown High School Debate Team our senior year in 1971. I learned quite a bit from him. I will miss him.

February 4, 2011

We're very sorry to see Wade pass. It was always a pleasure to pass him and Amber walking on the street. We always exchanged grunts as greetings and both chortled as we passed each other. Our prayers are with Rayda and Stacey and the family. The Andersons on Stamford Lane

Joy Segars

February 4, 2011

We have lost a dear, intelligent, and witty man and friend, but God gets to laugh a lot more now. Much love to you both, Rayda and Stacey.

February 4, 2011

We are so sorry for the loss of your very special husband and father.
Sincerely,
Meg, Kelly, Caroline and Sam Shaw

Janna Melton

February 4, 2011

I could always count on Wade for good advice and a good laugh. He made me laugh and I enjoyed hearing him laugh. He was the first attorney I met at Haynes and Boone when I interviewed and the first attorney I told in the office that I was leaving seven years later. I always wanted to have a Haynes and Boone alumni party and hang out and listen to Wade and Rick Reed tell stories. I will never forget the years I practiced with the two of them together at Haynes and Boone. I don't know how many times I walked into Rick's office, found Wade there and enjoyed their give and take as they told stories and imparted wisdom on a baby lawyer who wasn't quite sure what to make of the big law firm world. I will miss him and owe a great debt to him for all the good counsel and advice he gave me over the years -- not to mention introducing me to barbeque without utensils in good old Lockhart. Good Times . . .

Randy Hotz

February 4, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Mike Cannatti

February 4, 2011

We enjoyed knowing Wade as a neighbor, visiting with him on our street parties, and seeing him on his dog walks around the 'hood. Wade and Rayda have raised a fine young daughter in Stacey, and I know she has made him proud.

Danny Hardesty

February 4, 2011

Wade was one of my debate partners at Sharpstown High School in 1971. I learned quite a bit from him. I will miss him.

Cindy Merriell Rhea

February 4, 2011

I had a crush on Wade back in grade school. There was a group of about 5 of us who hung out together. I had the good fortune of meeting up with him again a few years ago when I discovered that my boss, Steve Fowlkes, was a colleague of Wade's. In fact, he offered me a job, which I declined. I know Wade and his incredible sense of humor will be sorely missed, and I feel blessed to have known him.

Perhaps he will say hello to my dad for me who passed away on this day 41 years ago. He had a great sense of humor, too.

Larry McNeill

February 4, 2011

He was one of the good guys, a fine attorney and a fine man. Rest in peace, Wade.

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