Benavidez, Debbie (nee Wapelhorst), October 28, 2011. Loving wife of Jason Benavidez; dear mother of Brian, Matthew (Emma) and Jennifer Cookson and Elisabeth, Zachary and the late Emma Benavidez; dearest grandmother of Ethan and daughter-inlaw of James (Vanessa) Benavidez and Cheryl Benavidez; dear friend to many. Services: Visitation Tuesday, November 1, 2011 from 4-8 p.m. at Oak Hill Funeral Home, 10301 Big Bend, Kirkwood, MO 63122. Service Wednesday, November 2, 2011 at 10 a.m. at Oak Hill Funeral Home. Interment Oak Hill Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, 77 West Port Plaza, Ste. 101, St. Louis, MO 63146.