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Donald Lasater Obituary

Lasater, Donald E. Age 90, Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Friday, February 5, 2016. Beloved husband of the late Mary E. Lasater (nee McGinnis); loving father of Kevin ( Alice), Timothy, Thomas (Cathy), Laura and J.B. (Julia) Lasater; loving grandfather of Katherine, Michael, Thomas, Peter and Bennett Lasater; dear brother-in-law of Ann Cooke of Farmington, CT, the late Marjorie Kane of Dallas, TX and the late Carole Damhorst of Hermann, MO. Services: Memorial Mass 3:00pm Tuesday, February 16, at Church of the Annunziata, 9305 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO 63124, with reception following the Mass at The Bogey Club, 9266 Clayton Rd. Interment private. Memorial contributions may be made to charity of donor's choice. Please visit www.boppchapel.com

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Feb. 7 to Feb. 14, 2016.

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Ernie Coe

February 16, 2016

He was a great man. I always enjoyed working for him. My sympathy to the family. Ernie Coe(retired Mercantiler)

February 15, 2016

Dear Kevin, Tim, Tom, Laura, & John,
My heart goes out to you and your families as you go through this transition. I remember your dad for his quiet kindness and his ability to create a feeling of steadfast calm in the midst of storms. He generously sent me off to college with $100 once. That gesture meant the world to a young woman on her own and inspires me to this day. A bright light has gone out with his passing. I hope you will find comfort in the legacy he's left behind. He may be gone but will never be forgotten. Take Care.
Love, Shannon

Larry Ottsen

February 15, 2016

Kevin, J.B. and other members of the Lasater family: So sorry to learn of your Dad's passing. He was a true gentleman and valued member of OWCC.

Bill and Barbara Gamache

February 14, 2016

Heartfelt sympathy to Donald's family. He was a special man who shared so much with so many & will be missed.

Roberta Shapard Potter

February 11, 2016

Prayers and love to the Lasater family. We all grew up together and celebrate the life, yet mourn the loss, of your beloved dad, a St. Louis icon, and Southmoor Royalty. Respectfully yours,

Harriet Switzer

February 9, 2016

Dear Lasaters,
Your Dad was one of my favorite Trustees at Washington U. He and Mary were always so gracious to me. You have my deepest sympathy. Harriet Switzer, former Board Secretary, WU (1980-2007).

Mary Mosir

February 8, 2016

Thoughts and prayers for Donald Lasaters family. Don was a loving man. I fondly remember him when I worked at Mercantile Trust Co. He was admired by many who knew him. He will be missed but we will meet again someday.

Gail Barth

February 5, 2016

So sorry for your loss! Thinking about all of you. Wrote this about the grieving process.

Not Enough

We say we have so much of it
And yet it's not enough
To do, to say, to share our hearts
Or just the daily fluff.

And though we have the memories
To prove we won't forget,
We still allow ourselves to stop
And find time for regret.

If only we'd done this or that
Or not done that at all.
If only we had taken time
To make that one last call.

But even if we had more time
It wouldn't fill our need.
If we had two more lives to spend
We still would not succeed.

We have to learn to move on past
The grief and pain of loss.
And know that we have loved so well
The folks whose paths we've crossed.

And so we honor them by not
Lamenting the amount.
But, rather, we move on ahead
And make new minutes count.

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