Bessen, Kurt J. Sat., Nov. 3, 2012. Beloved son of Jeanette and the late Norman Bessen; dear brother of Elaine, Diana (Tom) Butler, Mark (Tammy) Bessen and Sharon (Cameron) Carey; dear uncle of Patrick, Benjamin, Cassidy and Kailyn; our dear grandson, nephew, and cousin. Beloved best friend of Amy Schmeding. Services: Funeral from KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois, Thurs., November 8, 9:30am St. Martin of Tours Catholic Church for 10am Mass. Interment Park Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions to Habitat for Humanity appreciated. Visitation Wed., 4-9pm.