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Gregory Bochantin Obituary

Bochantin, Gregory J. Sunday, January 7, 2007. Beloved husband of Amber N. Tyler; dearest son of Kenneth and Lynn (Weis) Bochantin; dear brother and brother-in-law of Nancee (Bochantin) and Mark Schillinger; dear son-in-law of Nina Jo Tyler and Grant Yaggie; grandson of Edith (Waser) Weis and the late John Weis, Ernie Bochantin, Irene (Schorer) Giegerich; grandson-in-law of Nina Lea Tyler and the late George Yaggie and Alvera Yaggie; and great-grandson-in-law of the late Delmer Day Tyler; dear nephew of Leonard and Kathy Bochantin, Murphy and Sherri Giegerich and Pricilla and Stanley Buschmiller; dear great-nephew, cousin and dear friend. Greg achieved his Architectural LEED Certificate in 2006 and was a member of AIA. He was also a lifetime member of the Boy Scouts of America Eagle Scouts Association.Services: Funeral from GEBKEN-BENZ Mortuary, 2842 Meramec St. on Saturday, January 13 at 10 a.m. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. Visitation Friday 1 p.m. to 9 p.m. Dona tions to the American Heart Association or Blood Donations to the American Red Cross.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Jan. 11 to Jan. 19, 2007.

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Lynn Bochantin

December 18, 2007

There has been a Memorial Fund set up in Greg's name at Kansas State University that is where Greg graduated from All donations are tax deductible If you wish to make a donation Checks can be made out to

KSU Foundation Center "M46719"

In the Memo section of the check should be written
"M46719" Bochantin(Greg) Memorial Fund

Mailling address is

KSU Foundation Center
2323 Anderson Ave Suite 500
Manhattan KS 66502-2911


We would like to Thank everyone for their Love & Support

Melanie Shields

March 27, 2007

I had the great pleasure of working with Greg in Greensboro. What an excellent architect. What a kind, friendly man. My deepest sympathy to the family. The Lord is an expert at healing the broken in heart and binding up their wounds. My prayers are with you, God bless you. He is greatly missed.

John Smith

February 13, 2007

As I went to school with Greg, I remember him being a happy and smiley guy. He would find a way to help you, if you needed it. I am sorry to hear that this happened at an early age. You have my deepest sympathies.

Nicholas and Larissa Finley

February 10, 2007

I think back to my more youthful years as I read many of these entries, and I remember Greg full of life. There is a joy in his presence and his presence now fills heaven with light. The smile of his comes up time and again in each of these entries. What a smile he has! We are all blessed and lucky to have known such a person as Greg. God keep us all in his care especially those who are closest to him. I for my part have been out of touch and far away for sometime, but have been touched by this most moving loss. Being a person of faith, I firmly believe that Greg is with our eternal Father and his Son Jesus Christ in the fullness of the Holy Spirit. And I know that he is praying for all of us. My prayers, small and feeble as they are, are for Ken and Lynn and Amber.

Alberta Concialdi

February 8, 2007

As with so many people I have known Greg most of my life. He meant as much to me as a brother and I love him dearly. He was never without an encouraging word or a shoulder to cry on. Words cannot express how much he will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Brian Ritter

January 24, 2007

I had the pleasure of having Greg as a good friend since my second year of high school. We played trumpet in band together, ate lunch together in the BHS cafeteria, cruised in that green Duster together saran wrapping cars or eating Slyders, etc. When I reflect on fun memories in high school, Greg was part of them in some way. After high school we kept in touch and I always had a place to go for the 4th of July for his fireworks displays and for a good New Year's Eve party. Yes, Greg had me in mischief as well from time to time. Somehow he got away with it.
Greg was loyal, fun, loved people, and a warm man who I appreciated. He was a reflection of his parents, who always loved people and welcomed anyone with open arms. His had a heart of hospitality. He showed how much he loved Amber whole-heartedly in so many ways. May Amber and the Bochantin family receive Christ's comfort from such a tremendous loss. I feel honored to have known such a man as my friend Greg.

Jo Tyler

January 22, 2007

This has been so hard for me. I will miss this dear sweet boy. He was much loved and still is by me and Grant. He was the best man my daughter could have ever had. His smile is always in my heart as well as his good natured personality. His death was entirely too soon and I will never understand it. We love you Greg.

Jeanne Christman

January 22, 2007

Greg will be truly missed. He always had a good story for us when we worked together. Amber and familiy, you will be in my prayers to get through this difficult time.

Brian Carroll

January 22, 2007

It was my honor to know Greg, and a privilege to work with him. He was dedicated, sincere and a credit to his profession. Our thoughts and prayers are with his entire family at this time. He will be greatly missed.

Steve Freyaldenhoven, AIA

January 21, 2007

A Scout is:

Trustworthy,
Loyal,
Helpful,
Friendly,
Courteous,
Kind,
Obedient,
Cheerful,
Thrifty,
Brave,
Clean,
and Reverent.

Greg was all of these, and so much more.

Nicole Krasowski

January 20, 2007

I also had the pleasure to work with Greg in Greensboro; he was my mid-western buddy who shared my love for Dunkin Doughnuts and White Castle Sliders. But more importantly, as a professional he cared about his co-workers as well as the clients that he worked with. He took the time to make a personal connection with everyone and will be greatly missed by his friends and the professional community in Greensboro.

Matthew Cannady

January 19, 2007

I had the pleasure to work with Greg in Greensboro, NC and I can say I have never met a nicer person. He was a special person and he will be greatly missed by all who were blessed to know him. My deepest sympathy goes to Amber and his family.

Marilyn Volk

January 17, 2007

Ken, Lynn & Nancy, Kathy told me about Greg tonight and I just couldn't believe it. I remember the little boy at the bowling alley and I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to know the man. Know that you will be in my prayers.

Kimberley Pfaff (Kvaternik)

January 17, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing Greg since first grade. I will always remember Greg's huge smile and his gentle, soft-spoken manner which often hid his mischievous side. I have so many great memories of Greg at the lunch table in the BHS cafeteria, on band trips, just hanging out, etc. I am truly sorry to Amber and Greg's family and friends for the loss of such a great person. Take comfort in knowing that he is at peace and with God.

Chrissy Korte

January 13, 2007

Greg was such an incredible person. My heart goes out to his family. Mr and Mrs Bochantin, you are great people. It was easy to see the impact you had on your son. I wish I could be there, today, to share in your sorrow and show my support.

Gregory Schuessler

January 12, 2007

I remember Greg from Boy Scouts, to marching band, to college where he was sooo excited... yes, he wanted to be an Architect! I saw him in the hallway and he said so smiling! He was such a good guy and full of energy with that warm smile of his.

Even though I lost contact with him over the years I am happy he succeeded in becoming an Architect. You know it seems to me that he was able to connect with so many people and on multiple levels. His life on Earth may have ended short but I know that he is in Heaven watching over all of his family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad time.

"It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." -Author Unknown

With that said, Gregory was truly nice!!

God bless and have faith,

Dana Zilch ( Kantouth )

January 12, 2007

I had the pleasure of know greg since grade school. He was always a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with gregs family in this time of need.

Paul Finley

January 12, 2007

Greg is the nicest guy I have ever met. He was kind to all, and always stood up for what was right. You could see his love of life in his smile and in his pranksterous humor. I'm glad I had the opportunity to know him and grow up with him. I know this is hard but someday by God's grace we will all see him again.

I wish I had the words to make it all better. I wish we had a way to hold on to him forever. Look in your heart for the memories, he will always be there.

May his memory be eternal.

Dave & Raquel Smith

January 11, 2007

While we are all sad of your sudden passing we can only remember the good times that were had. From the days when we were young and went camping and fishing almost monthly. When we were in town it was rollerskating, cruising the strip in the green duster, or going to bowl in league on a Sunday morning. We all know that your one of your joys was playing in the jazz band. Your time with us was short but it was well remembered and enjoyed by many. You touched many hearts during your time with us. I know I will not forget.
To Ken and Lynn Greg will be waiting for you with his big smile.
To Amber- you were the love of his life. Remember the good times you had and know that he loved you.

And finally to Greg- play loud, my friend, so when we come calling we'll know where to go.

Jennifer Rappaport (Gravagna)

January 11, 2007

I had the distinct pleasure of knowing Greg for the past 18 years. He was kind, loyal and thoughtful. He will greatly missed and thought of often. We should all feel grateful that we knew him even if it was for too short a time. My thoughts and prayers are with Amber and all of Greg's family and friends.

Lisa LeBlanc

January 11, 2007

Greg and Amber came to North Carolina about two years ago and changed the face of Greensboro. With his big, easy smile, Greg made friendships that defied their timelines. Contributions Greg made wherever he went will long out live his existence on Earth.

May God bless and keep his family.

JACKIE SMITH

January 11, 2007

TO my very dear friends and their families, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you.Greg was a great young man.No one knows why he was taken so suddenly.He will always be in our thoughts and prayers and sadly missed.ALWAYS

Tim and Mary Dye

January 11, 2007

Our deepest sympathies to your family. We pray that you find strenght and somehow find peace in your aching hearts.

John H. Hargett

January 11, 2007

I'm sorry for your loss. Greg was a good guy and he will be missed.

Tricia & Jay Heckstetter (Vivian)

January 11, 2007

Greg was a great friend for last 25+ years who I thought of like the brother I never had. Our families have been like family to one another through the years and I have many memories I will hold close to my heart forever. Greg had a huge heart and passion for life, he will truly be missed.

Donna and Craig Sexton

January 11, 2007

We are all still in a state of shock over Greg's sudden passing. Greg will be truly missed by our entire family. Greg and his family have been a big part of mine and my sisters childhood and adult life. We will be there for all of you if you need us. Our Deepest Sympathy goes out to you.

Logan Anderson

January 11, 2007

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Greg's family and friends.

Lisa & Barry Hertlein

January 11, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of sorrow. We are so sorry for your loss.

Ellen & Gary Rujawitz

January 11, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Erik Velazquez

January 11, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

BETTY BECKER

January 11, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

DIANE BECKER LEWIS

January 11, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Chip Rayfield

January 11, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Please let us know if we can possibly do anything for your family.

JEFF DAY

January 11, 2007

GREG WAS CERTAINLY A GREAT AND FIERCELY LOYAL FRIEND. HIS UNTIMELY PASSING IS A HUGE LOSS TO ALL OF HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS, AS WELL AS THE FIELD OF ARCHITECTURE AND DESIGN. I WILL MISS HIM DEARLY.

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