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Melodye Harris-Juelfs Obituary

Harris-Juelfs, Melodye Ann (nee Schmidt), passed away, Tuesday, July 30, 2013. Beloved wife of William Rick Juelfs. Mother of Ron (Rebekah) Harris and Keelyn Harris. Grandmother of Ava , Jules and Gannon Harris. Step mother of Brian and Sarah Juelfs. Sister of Lynn (John) Mead. Sister in law of John (Carla) Juelfs. Licensed professional counselor, professor of psychology and remarkable friend to all. Services: Memorial Visitation at the FAMILY CENTER at SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Friday, 1:00 p.m. until Memorial service beginning at 7:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Gateway Pet Guardians, Alcoholics Anonymous or Missouri Bapt ist Oncology / Infusion Center. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Jul. 31 to Aug. 1, 2013.

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Sponsored by William R. Juelfs (Ricky).

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Keelyn Schwegel

July 31, 2025

Mom, I miss you so much. I wish you were here for so many reasons. Mainly because I wish you could be here to see your granddaughters grow up. We talk about you every day, we find your pennies. I miss your smile, I miss your laugh and I really miss your wisdom and unwavering support. I love you. My world hasn’t been the same. Love Kee

Ricky

July 30, 2025

Hi Melodye, I've been thinking about you a lot the last few days and especially today. It's July 30 ,
2025 and it's a little after 4 AM. In the morning . 12 years ago you left us for a better place you sometimes referred to as Paradise, and to be with Jesus. I'll remember that morning and that day forever and how it changed my life, as well as that of many others. I'll always wonder what my life and our lives would have been like if you were here, as well as the lives of our families and countless others. I'll see you when it's time. Love, Ricky

David Warner

July 24, 2025

Every time I see your smiling face I reflect fondly on your memory.

Susan

July 25, 2023

Melodye is still the Brightest Light that I've ever known ~ such a joyful, shining example of a Good Christian Soul. A Happy Friend to everyone she met. Inspirational. One of a kind. Unforgettable. My life is better for having known her.

Keelyn Schwegel

July 24, 2023

Back in Colorado and missing you so much. I can't believe it's been 10 years. Seems like yesterday and a lifetime ago at the same time. We know you are always with us, we find your "Ma Melodye Coins" everywhere. Keeping you alive in sharing all the memories of you and teaching the kids to know and love Jesus like you did. We love you so much. One day closer.... until I see you again. Love, Keedle

Kee

July 24, 2022

Mom, I´m here in Beaver Creek with the girls and I wish you were here. We can feel you all around us though. We love and miss you so much.

Susan Grod-Westphal

July 24, 2021

Thinking of, loving and missing you today Sweet Melodye.
Thank you for showing me what true devotion to, and love for, Our Savior Jesus Christ actually looks like.
You were such an inspiring example of that here on Earth.

Erin

December 25, 2020

Merry Christmas Mel! I was thinking about you and Kee on my birthday. We spent so many good times together. I hope you got to spend the day with Christ himself. Love ya!

Kee

December 13, 2020

Mom, I just saw a post that said "Maybe all that Christmas magic you knew as a child was a Mom who really loved you"
I struggle so much this time of year trying to make it as special as you did. Trying to carry on your "magic" that you had for everything with Marlowe and Arden. We miss you so much. I know you are with me. Mar knows all about the "ma melodye" coins. Not a day goes by I don´t think of you. Love you so much Mom. I´m sure heaven is magnificent right now preparing for the celebration of our Lord and Savior. Love you

Kelly and Dave

July 25, 2020

Still a shining light

Chris Pappas

July 25, 2020

I was just thinking the other day, about some funny things you said, way back in our 20’s. My mom passed away 3 yrs ago! I think of her everyday, and smile. If you get a chance, say hello to my mom! Positive thoughts and prayers always!

Erinna Schulz

July 24, 2020

Hey Mel I think of you often, especially when I have begun a new therapy treatment. I remember all of the years we used to sit out back and drink coffee and discuss life. You were always a great mother figure to Ron and Keelyn’s friends (including myself). I miss your huge smile and your laugh that could light up any room no matter how big! I hope you are flying high in heaven and watching over your children and grandchildren. You have a wonderful family ❤ Thanks for sharing a part of your life with me.

Keelyn Schwegel

July 5, 2020

Miss you so much Mom. Thinking of you always but especially tonight. Your granddaughters know all about you.

Kelly Albrecht

April 6, 2019

We were thinking of you this morning.

Keelyn Schwegel

January 31, 2018

Mommy, I know you know how much I talk to you. I know you're always with me. This is just the way I tell you how much I love you and how much I miss you so much every day. Marlowe is just getting to the point where she knows who you are but I tell her about you often. I know you see us and I know you know her. I promise to always tell her about you and to carry on "our traditions." I'm waiting for it to snow so she and I can have our first "hookie" day. I have your picture in our living room and I always tell her that's "MA" but I have so much to tell her. I miss you so much... I wish you were here. Dad is trying really hard to be there for her but it's not the same. Aunt Lynn and UJ are so amazing- they have really stepped up to be here for her. Life just isn't the same without you. Your smile and your presence just made everyone, including me, feel ok. I'm doing the best I can to be a good mom but I keep trying to tell Mar about the mom I had and I feel like I'm failing. You were so good to us and I never got the chance to thank you. I never understood the sacrifices you made until I became a mom myself. I wish I could tell you today how thankful I am and how much I love you but it will have to wait until I see you. I know I will see you again and while I can wait because I want to be here with Marlowe as much as possible, I can't wait to see you again. I pray every night that God keeps Mar safe, happy and healthy all the days of her life. I hope you can talk to Him and help me make sure that always happens. She is such a beautiful little girl with the most vivacious spirit and I know you are living through her and me. We miss you, Ma, and we love you so much. Continue to watch over us and bless us. Love you!

Kelly Albrecht

January 9, 2018

Keelyn and family
Happy New Year
Your mom, as you know, sparked up any room!
Grateful to be thinking of her this morning.
She had the gift of spreading a desire to strive to become more like her.
God bless you all this New year

Keelyn Schwegwl

January 8, 2018

Love you, Mom. I miss you every day!

September 30, 2017

Love you.

Keelyn Schwegel

April 25, 2017

Mom, you asked me to continue to share our memories to keep you with me. I wish you were here to meet your granddaughter but we played hookie last Thursday and went to the Zoo. I told her about our "hookie" day at the Zoo and how we got caught and ended up on the front page of the Post-Dispatch in a photo and article about Jane Goodall! I know you were with us but thought I'd share with everyone else too! Love you, miss you. - Kee

Pat Hines

December 13, 2016

I just wanted to say that my daughter, Courtney and I speak fondly of Melodye so often. She was an absolutely amazing angel for us and will never be forgotten. Miss her so much! What a wonderful trail of joy and love she has left us with.

Keelyn Schwegel

December 12, 2016

Thank you to everyone who continues to sign the guest book. Kelly & Ernie, your memories mean so much to me and all of us. She continues to be an inspiration and a memory that lives on in us and I am so grateful she is not forgotten. She was my best friend and I think of her so often. I love seeing your memories and notes. Please continue to share.
Merry Christmas,
Keelyn
(Melodye's Daughter)

Kelly Albrecht

December 12, 2016

God grant us serenity to accept things we cannot change- Courage to change things we can- and the wisdom to know the difference.
My husband and I were just remembering Melodye yesterday- and I was notified of this new entry. Glad her book is still opened.
Prayers for her family at this time of year.

Ernie Brawner

December 11, 2016

Melodye and I were childhood friends. We joked about being our first boyfriend/ girlfriend. We were in 2nd grade together at Watson Elementary, we exchange cards and letters,Ivisited her home several times my parents knew her parents. When ever we would run in to each other she joked about her bribing me to sit with her in the cafeteria by giving me her desert. I ran into her every few years even though its been more than thirty years. I didn't know she was in the same field as me, I'm a therapist in private practice. Hearing this news I feel an important part of my past is gone, I'm so sad.

November 1, 2014

I saw Melodye professionally and she was amazing. I was looking to reconnect with her and just saw of her passing. My condolences to the family. Such a beautiful person inside and out...she was the best.

Kelly and Dave Albrecht

August 30, 2014

We sure do miss you Melodye.see you on the other side.

August 29, 2014

Hope you took 464 Juliet with you!!!
Bobby Wood

Steve/Donna LaBruyere

July 31, 2014

So sorry for your loss Rick, you just have to tell yourself that she's in a better place

May 13, 2014

Happy Mothers Day !!! All the kids miss you. You are in their hearts today.

Ricky

May 4, 2014

Happy Birthday!!

Love, Ricky

(I always got two cards so I had to leave two messages)

Ricky Juelfs

May 4, 2014

Happy Birthday Mel, you would have been 60 today. I guess it would have been a great party! Don't forget to remind everyone up there it's your Birthday week, not just a day. It is truly amazing how one person can affect so many lives. Miss you, have a Heavenly Birthday, Love, Ricky

Ed de Castro

February 19, 2014

Happy Anniversary last week, Rick. It was good to see you. Prayers to you and your lovely wife.

-Ed

Sarah

February 14, 2014

Still dearly missed. I miss you every second of every day! Love you so much. Happy valentines day and happy anniversary!

February 14, 2014

Just looking at your picture, so pretty, so happy. I am so proud of you. Love, Ricky

February 14, 2014

Happy Anniversary, and Happy Valentines Day to my beautiful wife, I think of you every day and today most of all. I love you and miss you. I remember everything about this day in Key West, isn't it odd that the picture in this obituary, the worst time of my life, was taken in Key West when we were married, the happiest time of my life. I will see you when it is time, Love, Ricky

February 13, 2014

I remember what we were doing 13 years ago today. We had our marriage license and were riding bikes in Key West and waiting to go down to the pier and watch the sunset. You were so happy as we danced in the sunset as other people just watched us. We were making our dreams come true and getting married. Getting married on Valentines Day, what a perfect love story, that must have been your idea! Little did we know how short our time would be together, I miss you, Love you, and thank you for letting me be your husband, and for loving me. I will never be the same without you. I will send you a message again tomorrow. Love, Ricky

Keelyn Harris

January 23, 2014

I still can't believe you're gone. My heart aches daily but you know that already. I needed you for so many things still. You weren't just my mom you were my best friend. I know you're up there with Him watching over us but every day I wish you were here with me. I love you, Mummy. Xo, Keedle

December 25, 2013

Hope Christmas with Jesus was all you wanted Ito be. I love you and miss you as I guess you know. I opened this site forever for everyone to send you notes. I 'll see you when it's time. I know you'll be waiting. The world is not the same without you .
Love you, Ricky.

Sherry Schmidt

December 25, 2013

Today is going to be a very bitter sweet day. This first Christmas with Mel's family without her infectious smile and laughter that filled the room. I know her spirit will be with us today because her love for her family lives in each one of them which radiates and warms any room where they all come together. Silent Night, Mel.

Sarah Juelfs

December 24, 2013

To many memories to add! Glad you are with me everyday and I can feel your presence. Miss and love you more than anything! You've helped change my life in so many ways and will continue too. Thank you for finally bringing me everything good that I have in my life, family, friends, soulmate, all of it...I know you took part in it an I'm happier than ever and feel your spirt more than ever. Merry Christmas to the most remarkable woman I have ever known. Words can't describe.

Court Buchanan

December 23, 2013

Thinking of you on this first Christmas without Melodye/Mom - may her vivacios spirit bring you comfort and peace! Wishing you many Blessings in this time!

Kathy Kelley

December 21, 2013

Rick,
One of my favorite memories of Melodye is how she got such great joy out of simple things. Like a discarded rocking chair that you refurbished back to life. Or the joy she got from greeting the costumed children on Halloween. She always glowed when talking about her children and grandchildren. I love how she was always kind to everyone, even the neighborhood dogs whom she would give dog treats to as she walked Mazie. I'm so happy you decided to put up Christmas lights yesterday. They light up the neighborhood just like Melodye's smile. I know the holidays are hard time. Please try to focus on the great memories and good times. Melodye would want you to be happy and live your life with the same joy that she shared with everyone she met.

Chris Pappas

September 18, 2013

I just recently learned of Melodye's passing, and was deeply saddened by this news. Melodye and I knew each other many years ago, and she will always live in my memories. She was truly a wonderful person, with tremendous spirit and drive. My deepest condolences to her entire family.

Pat Hines

August 28, 2013

We just found out Melodye was gone yesterday and we are crushed. Our daughter began seeing Melodye professionally a couple of years ago and she changed her life. As a matter of fact she changed mine too! Melodye was like no one we have ever met. So kind, loving and wise. Her infectious spirit and joy always brought smiles to our faces! I reminded our daughter that Melodye will be a part of every success she ever has in her future. We will remember and miss her always!

Mary Stubinski

August 11, 2013

Melody helped me through one the most painful times of my life. Then I felt she started needing me more. We had such frank discussions about life and when it was time to go. I last saw her a month before her passing. And she never let on, that her passing was near. But I felt it. I will miss her than words can ever say. No one can ever replace her zest for life and compassion for others. I love you Melodye may you fly high and say hi to Rod for me. Love you

Kathy Gerlach Hellrung

August 10, 2013

Melodye had an undeniable zest for life, fantastic laugh, and sparkling eyes that just never quit. Her never ending enthusiasm and cheerfulness will be sorely missed and a great loss for all.
My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

Lara Ruland

August 9, 2013

Rick, Keelyn and family,

My life was truly blessed to know Mel, as a woman, mentor and friend. I am grateful that my journey intersected with hers; I am better woman for having known her. Please know what a difference she made in the lives of so many. You are all in my prayers at this difficult time!

Michelle Elrod

August 5, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Melodye at COMTREA. I will never forget her distinctive voice and infectious laugh. She had a true gift upon meeting you for the first time of feeling like you've been friends forever. Melodye took my daughter, Megan McDowell, under her angelic wings after her dad also an employee of Melodye's at COMTREA, David McDowell, suffered a stroke. She has left us with many special memories we will treasure forever. David, Megan and I are thankful for Melodye and truly were touched by an Angel.
My deepest sympathy to her family. May you find comfort knowing Melodye meant so much to so many.

Vicki Wall

August 4, 2013

Rick,
I met you at the LHS 40 year reunion. It was the first time I had seen Melodye in 40 years. It was like no time at all had passed. She was so loving and kind. I will miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kathy & George Murphy

August 2, 2013

You are all in our thoughts and prayers

DeeDee Robinson

August 2, 2013

Ricky, I can remember the day that you found Mel again. When your life started again. She brought such light to your life. You were destined to be together. Be it for 10 years or 100. I will always remember her infectious smile and the happiness that she brought everyone around her. You were truly blessed to find her again. I love you, Ricky, and I'm here if you need me.

Wayne & Beth Croker

August 2, 2013

Rick and Family,
We always loved watching Melodye walk her dogs down the street.
She had so many kind words for us during the loss of our son.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Richard

August 2, 2013

Rick and family Lynn and family Stephen and family I wish I could be with you to help share your greif and sorrow. Melodye will always have a special place in my heart and memories as a wonderful person. God Bless you Melodye. We All Love You. Cousin Richard

Dot Kleinschmidt

August 2, 2013

I worked with Melodye at Comtrea. She brightened our office on occasional visits and once laid down on the floor showing us this excercise she did. She will be remembered as interesting, fun, woman.

Mike Simonavice

August 2, 2013

I pray that God will comfort her family and all of her dear friends. She will be deeply missed by all who have had the pleasure of knowing her and being around her. I am so glad I was able to see her and talk to her again at LHS's 40th Reunion, but NOW my heart is broken. She was a unique person who had the ability to light up a room when she entered it. Her spirit will live on in all of our hearts until we meet again. Life is precious and short and all that truelly matters is that we love the Lord with all our hearts and "love thy neighbor as thyself". Luv u Mel!

August 2, 2013

Melodye was a free spirit, with a love for life and a smile that would brighten any day. I fondly remember our times at LHS and send my deepest sympathy to her family.

Debra Brannan
LHS Class of 72

karen Brunts-VanHoogstraat

August 2, 2013

John, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister in law. May god give you, your brother and his children the strength to get through this. You are all in my thoughts and prayers

Nina Abernathy

August 2, 2013

Harris-Juelfs Family, My thoughts are with you all during this sad time. I have several memories that I would like to share. I went to Grad school with Meloyde at Webster. We were in every class together. I made an instant connection with Melodye during Grad school. She took me under her wing. Then she started to work with me at Comtrea. We were so lucky to go on a business trip to Orlando to promote our programs. Well, we also had some play time to enjoy Orlando. Universal Studios will never be the same! We had a blast and I was so lucky to get to room with Melodye and share many,many laughs with her. I lost touch with her when she left Comtrea but I never lost the connection. She touched so many lives and more than you may ever know. She will be greatly missed. Melodye is now at peace with a huge smile on her face. Heaven not only gained an Angel but someone who will bring a lot of engery, smiles and laughter. God Bless your family! RIP Melodye!

Russ Trudeau

August 2, 2013

Ron, I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I'll be thinking about you and your family. Having read some of the messages people have wrote, she must have been one terrific woman! Definately a life to be celebrated!

Tom,Anna Adams

August 2, 2013

Ricky,
Sorry I could'nt get out to visit today,going out of town.You and your family are in our thoughts today and are very sorry for your loss!God speed.

Rosie

August 1, 2013

May the comfort of friends and family be your strength during this time of sorrow. Our hearts reach out to you.

LHS Class of 72
Pamela (Saitta) Wolff
David Riley

LHS '72

Don LaPoint

August 1, 2013

Melodye's Family, I am so sorry to hear the news of her passing. I would like to share with you the happiness and love Mel shared with so many people (especially at LHS '72). She made bad things good and good things even better. Mel had a special "can-do" attitude always tackling the most difficult issue. I can still her her laugh and tell a short joke which made everyone bust out in laughter. Mel made the difference we all needed, she will be missed. May God Bless her and her family! We will always love her!

Michelle Berkley Good

August 1, 2013

The world has lost a beautiful woman. Words cannot express how much Melodye helped me, guided me, inspired me. She changed my life and cheered me through what I knew I needed to do. I aspire to be like her. My thoughts go out to her family, what gratitude you must feel to have had her as a wife, mother, grandmother, friend. RIP

Tai Atherton

August 1, 2013

So sad to hear of Melodye's passing. She was one of the sweetest people I've ever met. My heart goes out to her family. Anyone that knew her was blessed.

Susan

August 1, 2013

Melodye was a Loving Angel on Earth and a true blessing to every life she touched, including mine. My prayers & condolences to her many loved ones.

Jenny Tabachik

August 1, 2013

Medodye was one of the most insprirational people I have ever met. She was beautiful in every way! We will all miss her.

Keelyn

August 1, 2013

I read all of these wonderful messages and it just reminds me that my momma was the best woman I've ever known. She was my best friend and words can not describe the pain I feel losing her. I love you Mommy.

Barbara Fox

July 31, 2013

I don't believe I have ever met ...or will ever meet anyone who possessed such an abundance of admirable qualities like this woman, Melodye..Her remarkable willlingness to share these qualities with others only enhanced her special aura. She understood so clearly the meaning of gratitude and she lived just like she shared... with humor, grace and humility.
Her joy for living was infectious and you always left her side feeling respected.

John Robert "Bob" Harris III

July 31, 2013

To a great aunt and wonderful person, you'll be missed.

Jackie Scarborough & family

July 31, 2013

To our entire family and extended family,
Words are still hard to come by.. but what I think of most is how when we all got together... she made us laugh...me, until my sides hurt.. I am sure she has the same affect up above. Always in our hearts Mel.... peace and comfort to all who she touched!!

Dave and Kelly Albrecht

July 31, 2013

Melodye you were THE brightest star on this Earth. God gain a TRUE angel. We all loved you SO very MUCH. Thank you for your encouragement to sooooo many. You will always be loved. Dave and Kelly Albrecht

Jim Silvernail

July 31, 2013

Mel you will be sadly missed. I will always cherish your friendship and all of the great times we had in the chamber. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you and your lovely family.

Peggy Dodel-Britt

July 31, 2013

When I think of Mel, the words that come to my mind are bubbly, fun, caring, sweet and full of life. A wonderful gal who touched many lives and will be missed. My condolences to her family from one of her fellow '72 LHS Flyers. May she rest in peace.

The Kiewels

July 31, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

July 31, 2013

God bless you as you have blessed us. Rest in peace Melody.

gerogia& mike fuller

July 31, 2013

I'm very sorry for your loss. Melodye was a wonderful person and I'll always remember her laugh.

Molly and Paul

July 31, 2013

Our beloved friend will be so missed. Our prayers are with the family.

Gary Wood

July 31, 2013

I grew up in Crestwood with Mel as a friend & neighbor. Her smile & winning personality were infectious. My sympathy to her family & friends

Sherry Schmidt

July 31, 2013

Melodye(loving known to her family as Dee Dee)and I grew up together as cousins, but I always referred to her as my best friend. From the time of Schmidt BBQ's/Fish Fries to sharing our infectous childhood diseases, or singing"Silent Night" in the back of the family station wagon she has always been the centerpiece of the Schmidt family. We have lost a very special person/friend but heaven has gained a very special angel.
Peace and Love blanket her immediate family

Paula Niedling

July 31, 2013

Rick and Family, Melodye will always be an inspiration and blessing. God has truly gained a very special angel. My prayers are with you and your family.

Misty Mitra

July 31, 2013

To the Harris Family,
Your family welcomed me with open arms when I met Mike and Melodye was such a joy to be around and super excited when our son was born, as if it were her own grandchild.

Your loving attitude and zest for life with be certainly missed.

Anne Mestres

July 31, 2013

Melodye was such a beautiful woman, inside and out. She helped me through some tough times, even as she battled her disease, always happy, always there for me. A tremendous loss to all who knew her. Prayers to her family.

Michelle Kositzke

July 31, 2013

The world has lost a remarkable woman, and God has gained an angel. My prayers are with you.

Susan Cassimatis

July 31, 2013

Rick, Ron, Rebekah, and Keelyn
Melodye gave so much love to so many! May her strength and spirit remain with all of you and may God grant you peace.

Cheryl Goff

July 31, 2013

We were fortunate to have Melodye and her Family as neighbors. Our children grew and played together in sweet happy times. Melodye was a Beautiful Woman, a Wonderful Mother and a Passionate Teacher. Her smile was contagious and she brought joy to others. Our Deepest Sympathy and Prayers be with the Family. Peace be unto you, In Jesus name. Her spirit lives on!

Cheryl, Andrew, Kenneth and Thomas Goff

Tracye Wendel Sinclair

July 31, 2013

Melodye was always a sweet and wonderful person. I am so sorry and my prayers are with your family. She will be deeply missed but always thought of.

Erinna Schulz

July 31, 2013

Melodye always went out of her way for me. She made me feel special and prized from the time I was a little girl. Thankfully, I met Keelyn in 6th grade and remain friends eversince. Keelyn and her mother(Mel) came to visit me in the hospital after I had surgery. She knew my Dad's name was either her son's name or Keeyln's Dad's name, but she couldn't remember which so she just picked one. This one name happened to be the incorrect name calling him Ron, over and over again throughout the conversation, while I was laying in the hospital bed keeled over from laughing so hard. She laughed too when Keelyn lovingly reminded her his name was Steve. Good times. Melodye also came up to my school when I was in college and gave a presentation on Alcoholics Anonymous. What a special lady.

Deborah Thibault

July 31, 2013

My condolences to Mel's family. I am sure she was greeted with the open arms of the angels. Now she is at peace to laugh once again and watch over all of us until we meet her again. RIP Mel

Mike and Debra Helbig

July 31, 2013

Melodye touched the lives of all who had the pleasure of knowing her with her friendship, her great sense of humor and that nonstop smile. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.

Sue Yorty Foerster

July 30, 2013

My condolences to Melodyes family. Heavenly Father, accept Mel's soul and assure her family that she has a forever home, free of pain and worry. Rest in peace.

Maria Potsos-wagner

July 30, 2013

Mel always had a beautiful smile,and always was laughing.I have many fond memories from back in our high school days that I will remember. Melodye's beautiful spirit will live on forever. in our hearts and minds.

David Warner

July 30, 2013

Her smile will remain the reflection of the love she had for family and friends.From the first time we met in grade school until the last time I saw her at the grocery store just weeks ago, where she asked how I was,with her beautiful smile,she didn't even suggest the reality of her life . Her concerns were always about everyone else. I am honored and fortunate to have known her.

Vanessa Bynum-Benavidez

July 30, 2013

If I could choose only one word to describe Melodye it would be "smiling". I believe with all my heart that she is looking down on us all and smiling. Until we meet again, keep smiling. May you joyfully rest in God's peace, love, and serenity. God bless & keep you, Melodye. You are loved and will be painfully missed...

Kelly williams

July 30, 2013

Ron and BeKah-
We are so honored to have met your mom. Our prayers are with your family. We love you guys
Kelly and Barry

Patsy Jennings

July 30, 2013

My prayers are with her husband, children, grandchildren, and friends for the loss of such a beautiful person. I will truly miss her and our wonderful chats together. The last thing she said to me, "God is good" and He truly is.

Cindy Slota

July 30, 2013

Melodye was a warm, friendly lady and a wonderful mother.

Dennis Stremsterfer

July 30, 2013

Rick and family---

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Rick, just want to let you know you can call me any time of the day or night if you need to talk.

Your friend and pharmacist--

Dennis Stremsterfer

Melanie Menendez

July 30, 2013

May you rest in peace beautiful lady, I have never met you but your daughter Keelyn has had nothing but amazing things to say about you, god has gained an amazing angel.

Ashley Teter-Million

July 30, 2013

Keelyn and family, I am so sorry for loss. If you need anything at all please let me help

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Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

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Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

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Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

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Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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