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Robert Lally Obituary

Lally, Robert E., III Butch baptized into the hope of Christ's resurrection, Sunday, May 12, 2013. The love of my life, best friend and husband of Patricia Lally; Loving father of Shawn (Amy) Lally, Ryan (Julie) Lally, Patrick (Mindy) Lally and the late Timothy Lally; Dear grandfather of Jack, Cameron, Marin, Evan, Liam and the late Madison Lally; Dear brother of Judy (Don) Plank and Jan (Fred) Boehm; Dear brotherin-law of Maureen (Ray) Fox and John (Diane) Sullivan; Dear sonin-law of Eleanor Sullivan; Dear uncle, cousin and friend to many. He leaves a legacy of love and was the model of devotion to his family. Services: Memorial Mass at Holy Infant Catholic Church, 627 Dennison Dr., Ballwin, Thursday, 10:00 a.m. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Madison Foundation or Autism Speaks. Memorial visitation at the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Wednesday 2-8 p.m. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com .

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on May 14, 2013.

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Gary Backsmeyer

May 7, 2019

Bob was a very good man and father to his children I remember the baseball games of American legion Post 208 where he loved watching Patrick play baseball. Gary

May 28, 2013

To the Lally family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Butch. I grew up with him when we were kids. We had some great times. My parents (Steve & Alice Ready) were friends with Bob and Bonnie. Butch was a wonderful person. Your in my prayers.
Cathy Ready Kiesling.

Steve Spezia

May 17, 2013

Pat,Shawn,Ryan,Patrick,

As time passes and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

There will always be a special place in my heart for the memories of "Butch" as my very good friend.

Judy Plank

May 17, 2013

My Dear Big Brother, You are part of a love story that is not ending. There are thousands of witnesses before you who claim you are held in the arms of love. May the angels of God watch over you. May Mary and all the Saints pray for you and all those whose lives you've touched. Now and Forevermore, Amen

Dave Hibbard

May 15, 2013

Shawn,
I am sorry to hear your loss, I am sure your father was a proud man knowing the man you are and the influence you have on everyone you come in contact with. Prayers and wishes... Hibbard

Donna Henke

May 15, 2013

I'm so sorry for your great loss.

May 15, 2013

Shawn,
I hate to hear your dad passed away. I will never say the typical phrases you hear when a loved one has passed. It just sucks - period. Regardless if they were suffering or not, it just sucks. It makes you think of all those times he shaped your life and how you are shaping the lives of those around you. A dad plays a different role than a mom. We are all shaped based on both and from what I know of you through work, your dad influenced you to become a very good dad and friend. My prayers are for you and your family to find the goood in all of this. Take care. Val

Danny Green

May 15, 2013

Pat, Shawn, Ryan & Patrick, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have always loved Butch and you all like family. I am grateful for all the happy memories. Like so many others I know my life was better because Butch was a part of it. You are in my thoughts an prayers.

May 15, 2013

Pat,Shawn,Ryan,&Patrick, Brent & I are so sorry to hear about Butch. I remember many of years of being neighbors and ball games with the kids. He will surely be missed.

Bill Doherty

May 14, 2013

I am so very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I just had a great visit with him at a retirement party last week. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Bill Doherty, Local 562, Plumbers & Pipefitters

Nancy McCay

May 14, 2013

Mike and I are so sorry for your loss of such a great father, husband, grandpa, and friend. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers!
In Gods love,
Mike and Nancy McCay

Chanin GELLASCH

May 14, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Prayers will continue for you for the days & weeks to come.
Jim, Chanin, Sam, Rex, Jacey, & Abi Gellasch

GARY BACKSMEYER

May 14, 2013

Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow

Jere Tierney Breite

May 14, 2013

Dear Pat,
I always thought of Butch as a special cousin and am so sorry for your loss. I just spoke with my sister Janet and cousin Eleanor in Destin and they too are greatly saddened. He will be surely missed. Our love and prayers go out to you and the family.

Brian Vaughan

May 14, 2013

Shawn-
Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. So sorry.

Marianne & Mick

May 14, 2013

Patty, our hearts are heavy as we say goodbye to our dear friend Butch. You are constantly in our thoughts. We know our grief is only a fraction of what you must be feeling. We're holding you close.

Sara Pratt

May 14, 2013

Patrick, Mindy & Liam~
So sad to hear about your loss. Nothing can hurt more than loosing a parent too soon- Remember all the wonderful times you had together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

May 14, 2013

Our prayers are with your family.
The Men of Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity House Corporation.

May 14, 2013

Pat,
I'm so sorry to hear of Butch's passing. I pray the Lord will comfort you and your family at this difficult time. Debbie Finocchiaro

PHIL ODOM

May 14, 2013

SEMPER FI - FELLOW VETERAN
THANK YOU - FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY.
You are one of our heroes.
We will remember you always and miss you dearly.
Take your Warrior's rest for a duty well done.

I wish to extend to members of your family my deepest sympathy on their loss. May the force of GOD be with them as they walk through this difficult time. May the loving promises of our LORD and Savior comfort them and give them strength.

As a grateful Veteran, I leave my sympathy and hope you accept this as a small token of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one to our Country.

SEMPER FI
U. S. MARINE AND VIET NAM VET

Carey Smith

May 14, 2013

So sad to hear this and sorry for your loss! Mr. Lally was like a Dad to me growing up and I'll always remember how we'd rib each other back and forth; he was the best and I loved his sense of humor. Thoughts and prayers go out to You, Mrs. Lally, Shawn, Ryan, Patrick and the rest of your family.

May 13, 2013

Mindy, Patrick, & Liam
My prayers go out to you and your families. Those special memories will help you through the days and months ahead. Pam Waterman

Brian Tripi

May 13, 2013

Our hearts ache for all of you. We had the pleasure and privelidge to knowing Butch and he was a wonderful man with a kind heart and loving spirit. Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you all. All our love, Brian, Pat, Jack, and Sophi Tripi

Ryan Pinkston

May 13, 2013

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

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