Gary Backsmeyer
May 7, 2019
Bob was a very good man and father to his children I remember the baseball games of American legion Post 208 where he loved watching Patrick play baseball. Gary
May 28, 2013
To the Lally family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Butch. I grew up with him when we were kids. We had some great times. My parents (Steve & Alice Ready) were friends with Bob and Bonnie. Butch was a wonderful person. Your in my prayers.
Cathy Ready Kiesling.
Steve Spezia
May 17, 2013
Pat,Shawn,Ryan,Patrick,
As time passes and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
There will always be a special place in my heart for the memories of "Butch" as my very good friend.
Judy Plank
May 17, 2013
My Dear Big Brother, You are part of a love story that is not ending. There are thousands of witnesses before you who claim you are held in the arms of love. May the angels of God watch over you. May Mary and all the Saints pray for you and all those whose lives you've touched. Now and Forevermore, Amen
Dave Hibbard
May 15, 2013
Shawn,
I am sorry to hear your loss, I am sure your father was a proud man knowing the man you are and the influence you have on everyone you come in contact with. Prayers and wishes... Hibbard
Donna Henke
May 15, 2013
I'm so sorry for your great loss.
May 15, 2013
Shawn,
I hate to hear your dad passed away. I will never say the typical phrases you hear when a loved one has passed. It just sucks - period. Regardless if they were suffering or not, it just sucks. It makes you think of all those times he shaped your life and how you are shaping the lives of those around you. A dad plays a different role than a mom. We are all shaped based on both and from what I know of you through work, your dad influenced you to become a very good dad and friend. My prayers are for you and your family to find the goood in all of this. Take care. Val
Danny Green
May 15, 2013
Pat, Shawn, Ryan & Patrick, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have always loved Butch and you all like family. I am grateful for all the happy memories. Like so many others I know my life was better because Butch was a part of it. You are in my thoughts an prayers.
May 15, 2013
Pat,Shawn,Ryan,&Patrick, Brent & I are so sorry to hear about Butch. I remember many of years of being neighbors and ball games with the kids. He will surely be missed.
Bill Doherty
May 14, 2013
I am so very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I just had a great visit with him at a retirement party last week. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Bill Doherty, Local 562, Plumbers & Pipefitters
Nancy McCay
May 14, 2013
Mike and I are so sorry for your loss of such a great father, husband, grandpa, and friend. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers!
In Gods love,
Mike and Nancy McCay
Chanin GELLASCH
May 14, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Prayers will continue for you for the days & weeks to come.
Jim, Chanin, Sam, Rex, Jacey, & Abi Gellasch
GARY BACKSMEYER
May 14, 2013
Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow
Jere Tierney Breite
May 14, 2013
Dear Pat,
I always thought of Butch as a special cousin and am so sorry for your loss. I just spoke with my sister Janet and cousin Eleanor in Destin and they too are greatly saddened. He will be surely missed. Our love and prayers go out to you and the family.
Brian Vaughan
May 14, 2013
Shawn-
Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. So sorry.
Marianne & Mick
May 14, 2013
Patty, our hearts are heavy as we say goodbye to our dear friend Butch. You are constantly in our thoughts. We know our grief is only a fraction of what you must be feeling. We're holding you close.
Sara Pratt
May 14, 2013
Patrick, Mindy & Liam~
So sad to hear about your loss. Nothing can hurt more than loosing a parent too soon- Remember all the wonderful times you had together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
May 14, 2013
Our prayers are with your family.
The Men of Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity House Corporation.
May 14, 2013
Pat,
I'm so sorry to hear of Butch's passing. I pray the Lord will comfort you and your family at this difficult time. Debbie Finocchiaro
PHIL ODOM
May 14, 2013
SEMPER FI - FELLOW VETERAN
THANK YOU - FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY.
You are one of our heroes.
We will remember you always and miss you dearly.
Take your Warrior's rest for a duty well done.
I wish to extend to members of your family my deepest sympathy on their loss. May the force of GOD be with them as they walk through this difficult time. May the loving promises of our LORD and Savior comfort them and give them strength.
As a grateful Veteran, I leave my sympathy and hope you accept this as a small token of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one to our Country.
SEMPER FI
U. S. MARINE AND VIET NAM VET
Carey Smith
May 14, 2013
So sad to hear this and sorry for your loss! Mr. Lally was like a Dad to me growing up and I'll always remember how we'd rib each other back and forth; he was the best and I loved his sense of humor. Thoughts and prayers go out to You, Mrs. Lally, Shawn, Ryan, Patrick and the rest of your family.
May 13, 2013
Mindy, Patrick, & Liam
My prayers go out to you and your families. Those special memories will help you through the days and months ahead. Pam Waterman
Brian Tripi
May 13, 2013
Our hearts ache for all of you. We had the pleasure and privelidge to knowing Butch and he was a wonderful man with a kind heart and loving spirit. Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you all. All our love, Brian, Pat, Jack, and Sophi Tripi
Ryan Pinkston
May 13, 2013
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
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