Katie Skiver
January 8, 2013
Dawn, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I know how much your father meant to you, and I am truly sorry for your loss. I enjoy the stories you tell me about him and look forward to hearing more of them.
Bruce and Christine Litzsinger
January 6, 2013
We are truly sorry for your loss. Roy was a great man, and did so much for the church. He will be missed. We look forward to seeing him again in heaven.
Kathie Young
January 6, 2013
I first met Roy when he was volunteering his talents to our community by overseeing the construction of the Pointe. I had no idea that he would touch my life in the future in a very personal way.
We first attended St. John Church in May, 2010 with our daughter and grandchildren. By the end of June, I knew this was the church I had been searching for. What a perfect time to be a part of St. John, because I was diagnosed with breast cancer in December.
St. John was a significant part of my cancer journey. When I received radiation treatments, I would close my eyes and picture the beautiful cross in the sanctuary with the pink and blue lights. How comforting that was to me. It was as if God's loving kindness was wrapped around me. St. John continues to be a wonderful asset to my life journey.
What a blessing Roy has been in my life helping to make St. John Church an incredible, awesome church that brings such joy to my heart. What a blessing Roy has been to so many people now and to so many generations in the future.
Bill Ruck
January 5, 2013
My deepest sympathy in hearing of Roy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of your loss.
Mary Conway Strawhun
January 4, 2013
Mrs. Duenke, I am so sorry about your husband. I'm Jana, Laurie and Christopher's friend and they brought me to the farm with them one time. You and your husband were so gracious. May God be with you and comfort you. Mary
Carmen Casey
January 4, 2013
Ken,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Sheri Roberts-Ford
January 4, 2013
Please know, that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in God's peace.
Lou Ann Muehleisen
January 4, 2013
Dennis and Joyce
I'm sorry to hear of your loss but know you have the comfort of Jesus that you will be with your dad again. The picture you have shared speaks volumes of his character. May God bless you and you family with grace and mercy in this time of saddness.
January 4, 2013
Good things and peace are wished for you and yours at this time.Bill & Ann Reckel

Butterfly House in FL 2011. Thanks, Roy, for the great memories.
Laura (Stein) Taylor
January 3, 2013
Sharon Schacher
January 3, 2013
Dennis & Joyce,
Our love and prayers are with you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help. We love you and are praying for His comfort and peace.
Carrie Stein
January 3, 2013
Dear Duenke family I am writing this message on behalf of the Stein family. We wanted to let you know how special Roy was to our family and how much he will be missed. I'm sincerely sorry we were unable to attend due to the family having the flu. You will all be in our prayers, love: Trey Carrie Sam Spencer and Bailey Stein.
January 3, 2013
Always ready to lend a hand, share a laugh, enjoy his family and friends...Uncle Roy is loved and missed. Laurie, Katy & Ben Harman
January 3, 2013
Peggy and family
Our deepest sympathy . We are sorry we are unable to be at the chapel to express our condolences. May the Good Lord hold you in the hollow of his hands and build you up. The Lord's blessings to you and your family in this trying time.
Vic and Doris Cooper
Shirley Huesgen
January 2, 2013
Stan and I met Peggy and Roy in the country for the ice cream festival. While Peggy worked in the stands, Roy showed us all around the church. I also remember Roy and Mary delivering Meals On Wheels so that the people received food in snow, rain or shine and they were always happy . Such great people to know in your life.

Fire!
Darryl Holman
January 2, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the Peggy and the Duenke family. Roy was a friend and a longtime Ballwin Days committee member. I very much enjoyed and looked forward to the "Cannon shot" to start each years road race. We will all truly miss him. On behalf of the Holman family and the entire Ballwin Days committee, our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Mary Kay Waterman
January 2, 2013
Peggy and family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Will always remember the many wonderful times with Roy and his gentle humor. He will be missed. Will miss his leadership in the work endeavers in Florida especially after the Hurricanes! God Bless with Peace and Love. Mary Kay and Ray Waterman
Walter & Betty Granneman
January 2, 2013
Dear Peggy,
Our deepest sympathy on your loss. Some of our fondest memories of our years at St. Johns involve you and Roy. May our Heavenly Father grant you peace until you join Roy for eternity.
Roy and Marie Paterik
January 2, 2013
Dennis and Joyce,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of loss. We will visit with other family members at the funeral on Friday.
With our love,
Revs. Roy and Marie Paterik
Carol Custer
January 2, 2013
Ken, Mary, and the entire family - my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Thank you to Roy, Peggy, and family for the fun times at the farm on many Fourth of July holidays and in Florida. Love to all, Carol
Mikki Catanzaro
January 2, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
The Catanzaro Family
John and Ruth Ruprecht
January 2, 2013
Thanks, Roy, for our beautiful kitchen.
Now God has another master carpenter in His kingdom.
Jean Schaffer
January 2, 2013
Dennis, I'm sorry to hear about your father. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Janet & Rick Koebel
January 2, 2013
Peggy, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May he rest in peace and may the Lord give you strength to get through this period.
January 2, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.....may God bless you and keep you in the days ahead.....Kris and Glenn Mabie
Mark and Marcia Schwieder
January 2, 2013
Roy was a wonderful man. We will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of his family.
Stephen Kinstler
January 2, 2013
We are sorry to hear of your loss. You and are in our thoughts and prayers.
Diana Miller
January 2, 2013
Dear Kenny (SR.) and Family,
I am sorry to read this morning, of the passing of your father. I know how very much he meant to you.
From: Diana Miller
Parkway West High School(Ballwin)
January 2, 2013
Dear Duenke Family-
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I always loved your dad. He was such a sweetheart. Roy was "one of the good guys." May only good memories fill your thoughts and hearts always.
Sally (Schwieder) Starzyk and family
Brenda - Bth. Mdws.
January 2, 2013
Mrs. Duenke & Family,
I was sorry to learn of Mr. D's passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Evelyn Brown
January 2, 2013
Dear Duenke Family,
My heartfelt condolences to all of you as you grieve the sad loss of such a very special man. May it comfort you to know how much he was loved. I don't know a sweeter or more talented man than him. It was always a joy to be in his presence, to enjoy his quick wit and great sense of humor. My prayers of strength, comfort and love are with you all.
Daryl Hoeltzle
January 1, 2013
My most sincere condolences to all in the family.
Jana Farrington
January 1, 2013
He worked hard and played harder; Uncle Roy was a lot of fun and will be missed by everyone who knew him. Love, Jana
Michael Paulding
January 1, 2013
To a great uncle and Boy Scout leader.
Verlene & Jim Schmidt
January 1, 2013
O what joy Roy is enjoying now in Heaven. I will treasury the years we worked together and became good Friends. Peggy and Family, our prays for you is God's peace and comfort during this time.
June Paulding
January 1, 2013
God Bless all of you and I know Roy is smiling down on all of you!
Love, June, Scott, Lindsay and Alex
Christopher Knudsen
January 1, 2013
While my deepest sympathies go to Peggy, Ken, Dennis, Dawn and Randall, throughout my life, my uncle Roy's humor is the foundation of all my fondest memories and it's those memories that will continue to live on in my heart.
With all my love, Christopher
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