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Robert Backof Obituary

Backof, Robert W. 'Bob' of Creve Coeur, Missouri, passed on December 20, 2008 at the age of 56 after three heroic battles with cancer, fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church. Dear loving husband of Linda (Borth) Backof; cherished son of William and Earline (Blechle) Backof; beloved brother of Barbara (Backof) Leonard (Rick); dear son-in-law of Earl Borth; dear brother-in-law of Steven Borth (Christine), and Lisa (Borth) Goeke (Scott); fun loving uncle to 8; our dear cousin, relative, and friend to many who will be missed by all he touched and knew. Bob was born in Bonne Terre, Missouri. He was baptized at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church in DeSoto, Missouri. After graduating high school, he was drafted into the United States Army during the Vietnam Conflict. Thereafter, he earned his Masters Degree in business and finance. He became co-owner of Budget Glass and Door between 1986 and 2003, becoming well respected in the industry. He joined Manhattan Glass in 2003, where he remained throughout his career. Bob enjoyed snow skiing, fly-fishing, and golf. He was very active in helping others to overcome their struggles and we are blessed to have had him in our lives.Services:Visitation Monday, January 5, 2009 from 2 p.m. until 8 p.m. at BOPP Chapel, 10610 Manchester Rd., Kirkwood. A commital service will be held on Tuesday, January 6 at 10 a.m. in the Chapel at National Cemetery at Jefferson Barracks. In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate Masses or donations to MBMC Cancer Research Office, 3015 North Ballas, 63131 (314-996-5569), or BJC Hospice, 9890 Clayton Rd., Suite 220, St. Louis, Missouri 63124.


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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Dec. 30 to Dec. 31, 2008.

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Bob & Bonnie Blechle

January 9, 2009

Dear Nephew Bob,
We'll miss you. But now you can hear again. Enjoy all the Angels music. Tell Tina Hi! and we love her.

Veronica Trebing

January 9, 2009

Bob-O: You and Linda were a warm spot in my heart. You two made such a beautiful couple (both crazy). I miss you and your antics. You always made me laugh. I don't think I'll ever forget the skiing demonstrations in the office or the other office antics thay made it fun to come in to work. You were not only my boss but my good friend and I'll never forget you. Love, Your Secretary Veronica

Father Mike Coleman

January 8, 2009

Hey Bobby:

You were one of my first friends at St. Rose School. I always remember serving Mass on Holy Thursday when we were in 6th grade. While we were processing around the Church with the Blessed Sacrament I remember you whispering how much you loved serving that particular service. On Prom night, you welcomed this St. Pius boy at your table and made me feel very welcome.
What an honor it was to hear your Confession, give you the Last Rites and share the Eucharist with you in your last weeks. I look forward to all the great sports talks we'll have some day in heaven! Love you, buddy! Fr. Mike

Darlene Burton

January 8, 2009

Dear Nephew,
I prayed so long for you, but I guess Jesus had other plans. I am sure you had the whole klan waiting for you. Tell everyone Hi for us and that we miss all of you. Love Aunt Darlene

Steve Rowe

January 6, 2009

Dear Bob,
Our time was spent in school many
years ago, but your light hearted ways and fun nature are warmly remembered.

Barbara Leonard

January 4, 2009

Dear Bob-O,
I'm so grateful to God that you are able to enjoy the fresh moutain air & beautiful sunsets that you love so much. I know you are with us...
You will always be in the deepest part of my heart.

Love forever & always,
Sissy

Vernon Blechle

January 1, 2009

Dear Nephew, you have been in our thoughts and prayers. What's heaven like? Tell all our friends and relatives Hi. We will try to keep in contact with those left down here. Love Vernon & Margie

Joan Whiteside

December 31, 2008

bobby, your are going to be so missed but I thank GOD for the time
we had with you . You accomplished
so much in such a short time. Tell Jim
I miss him.

Earline Backof

December 31, 2008

Bob This is Mom I am going to miss you so much. Dear Blessed Mary, please take care of my son. Save a place close for me

Suzanne Baker

December 31, 2008

Linda,
We love you and loved Bob (Bobbo) and constantly have you in our thoughts and our prayers! Hugs and kisses go out to all that knew and love Bob - New Orleans here he comes!
Love,
Ricky, Suzanne, Tyler, & Robert

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