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Thomas Emms Obituary

Emms, Thomas H. Monday, August 20, 2012. Beloved husband of Susan (nee O'Neill) Emms; loving father of Brad (Dineen) Emms, Keith (Terri) Emms, Todd (Kristen) Emms and Mark (Gina) Emms; dearest grandfather of Zachary, Nick, Ashley, Tommy, Jack, Henry, Ellie, Caroline and Michael; dear brother of Carol (Bob) Ziegler; dear friend to many. Services: Visitation Thursday, August 23, 2012, from 4-8 p.m. at Oak Hill Funeral Home, 10301 Big Bend, Kirkwood, MO 63122, (314) 965-8228. Mass Friday, August 24, 2012, 10 a.m., at St. Clare of Assisi Catholic Church, 15668 Clayton Rd., Ballwin, MO. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the The ALS Association, 5615 Pershing Ave., Suite 20, St. Louis, MO 63112. Please visit our online guestbook at www.stlfuneral.com.
Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Aug. 23, 2012.

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September 8, 2012

Dear Sue & Family I just found out about Tom from Mary (Hannon)Stein, my sister in law. It has been a very long time since we saw each other, we went to DuBourg together then we shared a room @ St Mary's having a baby. I rembemer we had a great time. We will keep you and your family in our prayers, sounds like he was a great guy. I have one too & consider myself blessed. Howard & Sandy Stein

September 3, 2012

Todd and Kristen and family,
Our sincerest sympathies in your father's/grandfather's passing. Our prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in knowing he is out of his pain on earth and up in heaven doing the things his earthly body would no longer allow him to do. God bless you all.

George, Nancy, Craig and Nick Koester

Kathy Svoboda

August 29, 2012

Dear Susan and family, We were out of town and just heard today about Tom our love and prayers are with you. Like many others Dan and I remember what a great sense of humor Tom had and always a smile. May God and the love of family get you through this difficult time...Kathy and Dan Svoboda

susan kraus

August 27, 2012

Sue and family, Jim Knight gave us the news but I was out of town. I would have paid my respects in person if I could have. Please accept my deepest sympathy.You are in my prayers.

Cash Register

August 26, 2012

Sue,
I just found out. Please know that you and all your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Tom was like a second father to me. I will never forget how he made me laugh and his deep laugh. I will miss him.
Cash, Jill, Connor and Sydney

Pat Hagen

August 24, 2012

Dear Susan & Carol

Don & I are so sorry to hear of the loss of Tom. He was a fun man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Pat & Don Hagen

Frank and Carolyn Haag

August 24, 2012

Susan, please know that we are thinking of you and your family and hope time will bring you peace. You are in our prayers.

August 24, 2012

Is this the Tom Emms that went to Du Bourg HS and Southeast Mo. St. If so I went to both schools with him. Neat guy and well liked by everone. Jim Cotter

August 23, 2012

Susan and family, You are in our thoughts. and prayers. We did not know Tom but he must have been quite a guy. Len and Carol Schneiderhahn Shoults

August 23, 2012

Sue, We were so sad to hear about Tom. You and your precious family are in our thoughts and prayers. He was one of the funniest men I have ever known.
Love Robbie, Ulli, Bob and Betty

Kathy Pircher - Ramspott

August 23, 2012

Susan,
I was shocked and saddened when I read this mornings obits. I have so many memories of you and Tom when we were all much younger. We always had a great time even when Tom hyptonized me and he could not get me out of the trance for quite a while. Or the time we went to Union Station and ran through the tunnels to say a farewell to another friend. I have always remembered the kindness of your family and Tom's to me way back then. We should have kept in tough when our boys were kicking soccer at St. Clare's but time rambles on. I send you my heartfelt sympathy and that to your sons and their families. Too, too young to be lost to his precious family. Take care and God love all of you.

Marianne Donahoe

August 23, 2012

Susan and family,
We keep you all in our prayers during this time. We pray your life of memories with Tom carry you through the days and weeks ahead.
Your cousin, Marianne and Joe

Sidney Clark

August 23, 2012

Mark,
There is no journey traveled that God is not with you. My family and I will hold your up in prayer. Rejoice in knowing that you will see your father again.

August 23, 2012

Brad: Your Medtronic Family has you in our thoughts and prayers.

Grace Benner

August 23, 2012

Dear Susan & Family,

I was so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. I know how much the Emms/O'Neill families will miss him. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

MaryAnne McGinn

August 23, 2012

My heartfelt sympathies to Susan, whom he loved so deeply and shared so much, to his sons and their families, always his pride and joy. Tom brought kindness, good cheer and humour to all who knew him. We will always remember his laugh, his voice and his friendship. He was a really good man and he will be missed by all who knew him.

August 23, 2012

Tom was strong, gentle and kind man. We were lucky to know him. God Bless him and the family suffering from this loss.
Love, Uncle Jim and Aunt Kathy SanFilippo

Ron Schroll

August 23, 2012

Tom and I were best friends in grade school. He was a good friend and my thoughts and prayers are with Sue and his family.

The Maddox Family

August 23, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time, may God continue to bless and keep you.

Kevin and Jane Whelan

August 23, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Emms family. May you find comfort and joy as you reflect upon the wonderful memories of times together.

Jim & Suzanne Rosenauer

August 23, 2012

We will always rememberr how enjoyable and fun it was to get together with Tom and Susan. Tom would have us in stitches, laughing so hard, at his stories. Nobody could tell a story like Tom. We will pray for Susan and the family.

August 23, 2012

sue; I don't know if you'll remember us or not, but when I read of Tom's death in this morning's paper,the most wonderful memories flooded my brain. I picture you and Tom at Sunday dinner with all of us, and mom laughing herself silly at the antics Tom and I used to pull at the dinner table. We were blessed with your delightful friendship. It's sad we did not keep in touch over all the years that have passed, but memory is a wonderful gift. Few people could make my dad laugh as heartily as Tom could--and you joined right in! We will keep all of you in our prayers and we will be thanking God for the privilege and blessing of your friendship.
With love and prayers-maryellen judge

Pat (Kolve) Jeffries

August 22, 2012

I'm sorry to hear of your lose. I knew Tom for many years back when it was fun to work at SWB Yellow Pages. You have my deepest sympathy. Tom was a great guy and fun to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with Tom's family and close friends.

Pat Branscomb

August 22, 2012

I only knew Mr.Emms for a short time but during that time I found a friend. He will be greatly missed. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."

Maureen Karas

August 22, 2012

I remember Tom's wit and his smile the most. Saddened to hear the news. Please know Tom is in my thoughts and prayers.

Cindy O'Neill

August 22, 2012

What a wonderful man Uncle Tom was and I know the O'Neill girls can't imagine a family gathering without him. His sense of humor and ability to make so many of us laugh will be missed. Thoughts and prayers are with him and all of you.

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