Joyce Helton
May 19, 2016
I miss you very much.
Mom
May 18, 2016
Jim and I competed against each other in high school during the late 60's in water polo(Kirkwood vs. Ladue)for 3 years, but worked together as "life guards" every summer at the St. Louis Bath & Tennis Club in Ladue under Kirkwood's famous swim coach, Wilson Stocker.
We also played rock & roll guitar together as well(Jim was always obviously better). Lost track of each other when I went into the Navy after college for 8 years during the Viet Nam era.
The internet brought us together later in life when he returned regularly to St. Louis and later for "concerts in Kirkwood" at his famous "regular" tavern. Know brother Alan. He will be missed by his many friends over the years.
May he rest in peace with his classic R&R guitar music playing in heaven.
Best regards to his family,
Lansing Hecker
Greg & Sharon Pfitzinger
May 18, 2016
Jim sang at my wedding as a special favor to my husband and Jim's room mate and good friend. You were truly loved by all of us.
Sharon & Greg Pfitzinger
Desiree Koczan
May 17, 2016
Mr. Wheeler was my orchestra teacher at St. Elizabeth Academy in St. Louis, Missouri and I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of this great man. He has touched many lives including my own. I offer my deepest sympathy and condolences to all of his family and friends.
Leslie Vander Meulen Richards
May 16, 2016
Alan and Jean, thinking of you today as I read the wonderful memorial to him in the St. Louis Post. I cannot think of better ways to memorialize someone wonderful than those which you suggest. I know he is gone too soon, but resting now in peace and love. Condolences to your entire family.
Sarah Alvey
May 10, 2016
Mr. Wheeler (J-Dub, as I affectionately called him) was my favorite teacher while at both Crayton and AC Flora.
When I transferred schools to Crayton in my 7th grade year, Mr. Wheeler's orchestra class was an intimidating place, since all the other students had known each other for a while. But Mr. Wheeler made me feel welcomed and comfortable, and taught me so much more than music.
I was in his orchestra class for a total of 5 years, even when I no longer had the desire to play. I stayed because I loved him as a teacher and as a person. He was the most genuine person I've ever met. He always had a joke, and he was always finding ways to challenge his students. He convinced me to keep up with playing my cello, and convinced me to audition for Honors Orchestra, which led to an audition for the Junior Philharmonic with the USC School of Music.
He taught me that passion for music is something that comes from deep within, and it can enrich your entire life. I still think about him often, and remember him fondly.
I was extremely lucky to have such a wonderful and caring teacher, who turned into a wonderful and caring friend after I graduated.
I am so sorry for his family and friends' loss, and I am keeping his sister in my prayers.
May 7, 2016
Jim was a wonderful addition to the Crayton faculty. His love of music and teaching was always evident. Hiis easy manner, quick smile, and patience will be remembered. Our condolences to the family.
Susan Childs/ Crayton Middle
April Brown
May 7, 2016
I was privileged to have Mr. Wheeler as my high school music teacher at St. Elizabeth Academy. He was an excellent educator who made learning fun. My deepest condolences to his family and "fluffy" children.
Russ Merritt
May 7, 2016
I was privileged to work alongside Mr. Wheeler for four years at SCVCS. He was a fine educator and better person. Blessings to the family and all who loved him.
Nancy Pope
May 6, 2016
To the family,
I did not personally know Mr.Wheeler, however an Orchestra teacher in my school district forwarded me his obituary. He sounds like a wonderful person and teacher, and I wish I'd had the opportunity to know him. He obviously had a profound impact on Richland One Schools' music programs. The statement about the best way to memorialize Mr. Wheeler (teach someone to play and listen to a great singer) really touched my heart. So, although I didn't know him personally, I will forever be inspired by his life, and I hold your family in my prayers. Nancy Pope, Coordinator of Visual and Performing Arts, Richland One.
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