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Sokol, Anthony Tony 89, formerly of Brentwood, MO, died on Monday, July 16, at The Quarters of Des Peres, an assisted care facility. Tony was born December 6, 1922, near Split, Croatia and -- at the age of 14 -- immigrated with his family to Chicago, Illinois. After graduating high school, Tony was immediately inducted into the Third Division of the U.S. Army as a machine gunner during World War II. He earned a Purple Heart and three Bronze Stars for bravery. He fought proudly for his adopted country in North Africa, Anzio and the Rhäne-Saone Corridor of France. Outside of Strasbourg, France, Tony was shot while checking on a fellow soldier. The gunshot wound left him with a paralyzed leg, but that never limited his participation in athletics. In college, he was known as Two-Point Tony in wheel chair basketball. Friends could never keep up with him on walks he took with his crutches. Ironically, he had won All-State honors in Illinois for high school track before entering the Army. Because he was an avid soccer player, his young friends called him the forward with the educated toe. He was the eldest child of the late John and Helen Sokol. His younger sister is Kay Spialek of Chicago. Although living more than 60 years on crutches and later in a wheelchair, he always felt that his war injury was a blessing. He met and married his Army nurse, Joan Strub of Brunswick, MO, to whom he was married for 62 years before she passed away in 2009. They had three daughters: Donna Johnson (Michael) of Brentwood, Kathy Sokol (Keith Walker) of Glendale, and Mary Jo Cancila (Jack) of Kirkwood. He had eight grandchildren: Anthony Tony Johnson of St. Louis, Michael Mick Johnson (Erin) of South County, Rebecca Damazyn (Timothy) of Rock Hill, Jeff Schiffman (Maricela) of Los Angeles, Kristine Schiffman of St. Louis, Michael Cancila of Brentwood, Kathleen Cancila of Kirkwood and Victoria Cancila of Kirkwood. He was the greatgrandfather of Serena Schiffman and twins Nicholas and Mary Kate Damazyn. Through the GI bill, Tony earned a Master's Degree in geography from the University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana. He worked in St. Louis for the U.S. Air Force's Defense Mapping Agency as a cartographer for more than 30 years. He was a devout Roman Catholic with a great love for Saint Cosmos and Saint Damien; he was a loving father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle and friend to many. He serves as the epitome of the Great American Dream. Coming to the United States with his family of meager means, Tony not only ensured that he received a college education, but also his three daughters. He never regretted not having a son. He attended every high school game in which his daughters were cheerleaders. When questioned by the parents of the male athletes about what position his son played, he would proudly point to one of his daughters on the sidelines doing a cartwheel and split. Services: Visitation will be at 10 a.m. on Thursday, July 19, at the Church of the Immacolata, 8900 Clayton Road, followed by an 11 a.m. funeral mass. Burial at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery will be at 12:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Disabled American Veterans' organization or Cor Jesu Academy's scholarship fund at 10230 Gravois, St. Louis, MO, 63123.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jul. 18, 2012.

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Joanne McKean-Runge

August 2, 2012

Dear Kathy, Mary Jo and Family, Kathy you use to walk me to school at Immaculate Conception was I was in first grade. I remember your parents and my parents joking and taking about that and how proud your parents were of you! I am sure he is home in heaven now. Please take care and know you are in my prayers!

Sharon Hawk

July 25, 2012

My name is Sharon Hawk and I worked at DMA NOW the National Geospatial Intelligence Agency, NGA for 31 and 1/2 years. Your father Tony Sokol was a boss when I worked there. I retired in 2011. Tony was one of the nicest people that worked there at that time. He would do anything for you dispite his hardship. It didn't surprise me he was a WWII hero. He was also a hero at work and treated everyone equally. You will be in my prayers. I didn't now he was from Croatia, I am Polish but my parents were born here but some of my grandparents, born in Poland, migrated to Southern Illinois. Tony was a great dad, boss and man and will be missed. You will be in my prayers. Another irony is that I lost my only brother at 2 years old and I have two sisters so my dad also had three girls and he is a WWII veteran. God bless you always and Tony will be looking out for you as an angel.

Barb Shaw

July 21, 2012

Dear Donna, Kathy, and Mary J, I will always remember your dad as such a loving, strong, independent family man. Thanks for all your love. I will never forget the father's day that you included me in at SAH. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Love always, Barb

July 21, 2012

Je suis navré pour le deuil qui vous frappe.
Etant dans la même tranche d'âge, je comprend très bien la situation. La vie est comme cela et cependant la perte d'une personne âgée est plus normale que celle d'un enfant. Mon tour viendra, et si Dieu est là, je protègerais les miens et laisserais le souvenir que j'ai fait des choses utiles et pleines d'affections. O. Flos.

Dinah Jones

July 19, 2012

Condolences and sympathy to Donna and family. Your father lived an amazing life. May you find peace and joy in happy memories.
Dinah Ross Jones

Brenda Wilson

July 19, 2012

Mary Jo and family,
I have always been fascinated and encouraged by your Mother and Father's rich history and you are greatly blessed with such a heritage. I was so sorry to hear that your Dad had passed away. My sympathies, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Rosemary Gahr-Wielms

July 18, 2012

May the Lord be with him. He's back w/ his long life love again. Daughter of Dorothy Strub-Gahr Ann & Great Uncle Tony Sokol was My mothers godparent. Sincerely Rosemary Gahr-Wielms.

Bob & Cheryl Mueller

July 18, 2012

I never had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Sokol, but based on what I know from Mary Jo, he is a true hero on many fronts--in patriotism, family and spirit. So sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.

Chris Murphy

July 18, 2012

May poignant memories of the happy times with your father comfort you during your time of loss.

Brian Grass

July 18, 2012

My deepest condolences on your loss. Mr. Sokol lived an amazing life and raised an equally amazing family. I am blessed to consider you all amongst my closest friends and wish you comfort in this trying time.

Pat Gallo (Thomure)

July 18, 2012

The legacy Mr. Sokol left is one of love, devotion, and an exemplary example for living life to the fullest. I remember all those sporting events he attended while the girls cheered throughout their high school years! As a child I also recall his quiet presence whenever Kathy and I played at her house. It was a house that exuded love. Mr. Sokol instilled self-confidence, responsibility to duty, and American pride in his daughters. His light may now be gone from this life, but that light now shines from heaven. He can be proud of his accomplishments in this lifetime and can now take his rest as a "good and faithful servant."

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