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Lara Mertens Obituary

Mertens, Lara S. (nee Tockstein) entered into eternal peace with the Lord on Monday, October 15, 2012. Beloved wife of Steven Mertens; Amazing mother of Amanda (Zach) Bryant, Zachary, Madison and Megan Mertens; grandmother of Amelia Bryant; daughter of Raymond and Judith (Mason) Tockstein; sister to Diane Radley (Tockstein) and Victoria Gallagher (Tockstein); niece, daughter-inlaw, sister-in-law, loving aunt, cousin, friend and neighbor. Lara was born on Jan 18, 1968 in St. Louis, MO and graduated from DuBourg HS, resided in South County and currently worked at the Moolah Shriners. Lara cherished her family and blessed this earth with her giving heart and profound creativity. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends. Services: Funeral from KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois Friday, Oct. 19, 9:30am to Assumption Church, 4725 Mattis for a 10 am mass. Memorials may be made to Shriner's Hospital. Visitation Thursday 4 to 9 pm

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Oct. 17 to Oct. 18, 2012.

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Kelly Manning

November 7, 2012

Lara, you'll always be a true friend to me. I have great memories of you. love,Kelly

patti carroll

October 24, 2012

Love to you kids
Amanda, Zach, Madison & Meg and lil Mia
XOXOX

October 21, 2012

Lara was my buddy at Bishop DuBourg and I was so excited to befriend her again on Facebook. God has taken another beautiful angel home. You will be miss Lara

Theresa Monroe

October 19, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jim, Theresa, Emily and Riley Monroe
(Emily #55 - U18 WC team)

Angie Kramer

October 18, 2012

So sorry to hear about Lara... Prayers to all ..

October 18, 2012

Lara was a special person i remember working with at st anthony's center. i remember that day she found out she was going to be a grandma she was happy and just lit up talking about it. My prayers are with u and ur family.
pam

Katie (Kelly) Maddox

October 18, 2012

Steve and family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa & Joe Brinkmann

October 18, 2012

My heart aches for the Mertens & Tockstein families. Especially Steve & the kids. Please know that we are here if you need anything. Be strong and smile as you remember Lara.

Jenn Fruhwirth

October 18, 2012

Prayers are with the Mertens and Tockstein families. May God bless you and comfort you in this tragic time.
Sincerely,
Jenn Fruhwirth and the entire Fruhwirth family

Kris Hasenfratz Ten-Eyck

October 18, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. May she rest in peace.

Chris & Jeff Martin

October 18, 2012

Lara touched everyone's hearst with her love & joy! I have VERY fond memories of summer weekends at my cousins. You will be missed. May God's love help the family through this difficult time.
Blessings to all.

shelli carbrey

October 18, 2012

I am so very sorry for you loss. our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I teach with vicki at st. joes. our hearts are saddened please have comfort that she is with our Lord in Heaven..

Diane Coulson

October 17, 2012

Steve i am so sorry for your loss my Katie played on your soccer team a long time ago but i will never forget the kindness our family felt around Lara and you as her coaches. God Bless you and your family . All our in our prayers

Tina Chibnall

October 17, 2012

Sorry for the loss of your loved one, Lara - rest in peace

Tina Chibnall

October 17, 2012

Sorry for your loved one - may she rest in peace

Patty Schefer

October 17, 2012

Many fond memories of Lara on the ball fields. She alway made the games about the whole family. She was an amazing Mom. Peace, Prayers and Blessings.
Patty & Dave Schaefer

Beth Osterhage

October 17, 2012

Dear Mertens family,
We were so saddened to hear of Lara's passing. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to ask.
The Osterhage's

October 17, 2012

sorry for your loss steve and family, i lost my 21 year old son a year 1/2 ago, and my life is changed forever, you are in my prayers, your not alone , your friend joe chabloz

October 17, 2012

Lara, I will carry you in my heart, until one day, we meet again. I will love you until the end of time.

Paula

October 17, 2012

Steve, I am truly sorry to here of your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. God bless.

Mike and Cari Rooney

October 17, 2012

Steve,
So sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.

Alex & Kayla Hollemeyer

October 17, 2012

Steve & Family,
Mike & I are truly sorry for your loss. We are praying that you and your family can get through this tough time and begin the healing process.
I remember cheering you guys on from the bench of the Soccerdome with Lara and the kids. That seems so long ago but the memories are still fresh as ever. She was a great person and we are very fortunate to have known her.
She will be missed by many.
Sincerely, Mike & Vicky Swederska

October 17, 2012

You are in our prayers and our thoughts during this most difficult time.

Chris Bequette
Erin Roth

October 17, 2012

Dear Steve, Amanda, Zach, Madison and Megan,
Your friends at Assumption Parish and Parish School of Religion are keeping you all in our prayers and hearts. May you find comfort in your happy memories and God's grace and peace in the love and care of your family and friends.

Donna Koppy
Assumption Parish School of Religion Staff and Students

Bill Fernandez

October 17, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great sorrow....take comfort in the joy and happiness Lara brought into your lives.

October 17, 2012

Dear Steve and family, Words cannot express the sorrow felt for your loss, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Stan & Kelly Guenther, and Nicole Mard.

October 17, 2012

Dear Megan and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Remember you now have a special Angel in heaven to watch over you.
Keith, Mary & Amy Pinter

Toby Barrow-Eckert

October 17, 2012

Vicky and Diane, I have such fond memories of your family and all of the sports through St. Lou AC and Johnny Macs. Lara was a little spitfire. I am so sorry that you have lost her at such a young age. You and your parents are in my prayers.

October 17, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. If I can do anything, please call 487-2742. Your neighbors across the street, Leonard Eaton and Eileen Dattilo

October 17, 2012

Steve, our thoughts are with you and your children at this moment. God bless.
Andy & Debbie Ferguson

Debbie Sutter

October 17, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss, please know that we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike, Debbie and Meg Sutter

Jonathan Magruder

October 17, 2012

Our prayers go out to the Mertens family. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Magruder Family

Patti Frein-Carroll

October 17, 2012

Lara you will be dearly missed
May you watch over and protect your loved ones as you did here on earth. I will love you in my heart forever!

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