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Patrick O'Mara Obituary

O'Mara, Patrick J. Passed peacefully at the age of 80 on August 4, 2012 with the comfort of his family at his side. Pat was the son of James and Ruth O'Mara and the brother of Richard O'Mara. Pat became a favorite brother-in-law to Jean, Jane and Shirl. He was a lifelong resident of St. Louis, interrupted only for his service to his country during the Korean Conflict. Pat was loved and admired by the many friends he met during his long career in the transportation industry with Foster Brothers, St. Louis Honda, BN Transport and ABF. His appointment to the Forty Club of St. Louis was representative of his contributions to his community. Pat will be deeply missed by Joan, his loving wife of 55 years, and his children Kelly (Ken), Susan (David), Timothy (Valorie) and Michael (Annie). Pat will also be missed by his classmates from Central High School, where he was captain of the championship team in the first Missouri state high school baseball tournament, as well as his motorcycle buddies from the shop and the old car guys who enjoyed visits with him and his 1939 Ford Coupe. Pat touched many lives with his generous love and warm smile, none more than those of his treasured grandchildren. Patrick, Katy, Jacey, Sean, Mallory, Kevin, Lauren, Claire and Jack have been blessed by the love of their grandfather. Services: Funeral service at the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Tuesday, 11:30 a.m. Interment Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The American Cancer Society. Visitation Monday 3-8 p.m. Friends may sign the family's online guestbook at Schrader.com.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Aug. 6, 2012.

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John Wirth

June 9, 2025

I was thinking of Pat today and wanted to communicate that he was a mentor to me when I was a beginning salesman at BN Transport around 1976. Pat had all the attributes of a warm caring person. I am saddened that he has passed and thoughts and prayers to all who loved him.

Sue Parada

August 2, 2020

Patrick was a beloved neighbor at the corner of January and Delor. Love and prayers, Sue Parada

August 31, 2012

Joan,

I just learned of Pat's passing and was so very sad. Pat was a great guy and wonderful neighbor. I'll never forget his diligence when working in your immaculate yard! You were both so good to Kristen and that always meant a lot to me. I can only imagine how sad you must be. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers for a long time!

Love,

Anne

Sue Parada

August 25, 2012

It was not that long ago that we learned about the death of a special neighbor of ours, Pat. I'm not certain that you know about this story that we shared. My first husband (Michelle's father) was aboard the USS Haven in Korea.It was always very near the battlefield. This hospital ship looked like MASH with the helicopters constantly bringing the wounded. Pat told me that he occasionally rode on a helicopter landing on the USS Haven because he took care of mechanical problems with them. I thought it was such a small world that at one point Pat would have landed on that hospital ship in Korea. You know we thought so much of you as neighbors. You have our love and prayers, Sue Parada

Jeanne Basye

August 9, 2012

My sympathy is with your family. I enjoyed working with Pat at ABF Freight. He taught me a great deal.

Mary Ann Mullenix

August 9, 2012

Dear Kelly,
Terribly sorry about the loss of your father. We know how dear he was to you and the rest of your family.

Ivan and Mary Ann Mullenix

Kathy Loomis

August 7, 2012

So sorry to hear about the passing of Pat. He was just like family and I always remember him with such a sweet voice telling stories and making us all laugh! I know how much him and Joan meant to my parents and we will all miss him very much!

August 7, 2012

REST IN PEACE BROTHER O'MARA

GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

I.B.T. LOCAL 600 GOLDEN AGE RETIREES CLUB

Wendy Lamberty

August 6, 2012

I just saw you the other day and was sadden when I heard the news this morning. Gonna miss your smiling face Pat. I always enjoyed talking to you at the dealership. You were a good guy and will be missed.

Terry Carmack

August 6, 2012

Tim, so sorry to hear about your dad. Sounds like he was a car guy like me, too!

Rob and Melinda Hart

August 6, 2012

Pat was a great man and beloved member of our family. We have fond memories of his warmth and smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Bob

August 6, 2012

All of the car guys at Gruchalas will sure miss Pats big smile and sunny disposition.
There never seemed to be a shortage of stories and tales of cars owned past or present.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Koeller Schaefer

August 6, 2012

Pat was like an uncle to me. Though not related he and Joan have always been a permanent part of the Koeller family. He will be dearly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of his loved ones.

August 6, 2012

Carl Mungenast will miss you and have very fond memories of the time spent with you.

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