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Shannon Vincel Obituary

Vincel, Shannon Theresa Shannon Theresa Vincel August 1, 1970 August 16, 2016 Our darling Shannon was taken from us suddenly. She is the beloved daughter of Anita Vincel Adam and the late Gary Vincel. Shannon is the dear step daughter of Eugene Adam. Dearest sister of Fabienne and Lucian Vincel and Gretchen Ann Fuldner, step sister to Nancy Newland and John and David Adam. Shannon was preceded in death by her maternal grandparents Shirley and Joseph Dreher and her paternal grandparents Paula and Fred Vincel. Shannon was a dear aunt to Alexandra, Lindsay, Jonathan and Jordan and a great aunt to Courtney Hemmann. Shannon was a friend to many and will be greatly missed by her beloved pets Tookie and Vinnie. She will be remembered for her friendliness and happy smiling face. Services: The Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Clement of Rome Catholic Church, 1510 Bopp Rd., Des Peres on Tuesday, August 23 at 12 noon. Visitation at the Church beginning at 11 a.m. Tuesday morning. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials appreciated to Opera Theatre of St. Louis, 210 Hazel Ave., St. Louis, MO 63119 or to Stray Rescue, 2320 Pine St., St. Louis, MO 63103 or Susan G. Komen Foundation, 9288 Dielmann Industrial Drive, St. Louis, MO 63132 A SERVICE OF THE LUPTON CHAPEL

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Aug. 21 to Aug. 22, 2016.

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Nancy Ryan

August 25, 2016

I did not know Shannon, but have a daughter about her age. I cannot imagine your pain in losing her to violence when her health was being restored. Praying that your broken hearts may in time be healed with happy memories and the love that surrounds you. I am so very sorry.

A St. Louisian

August 24, 2016

Dear Vincel family,
I know your family only through your highly recognizable name in St. Louis business community, and did not know your beautiful Shannon. I can only imagine the heartbreak you feel in this senseless tragedy. May God give you strength in the many difficult days ahead, and may you find comfort in your many wonderful family memories. I pray also that justice is served. Rest in peace Shannon.

August 24, 2016

"I have to remind myself that some birds aren't meant to be caged. Their feathers are just too bright. And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up does rejoice. Still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty that they're gone. I guess I just miss my friend." My heart aches for the family and friends of such a beautiful and courageous woman. I am truly sorry for your loss. I feel your world feels drab and empty now that she's gone. Sorry

Anne C

August 24, 2016

Unbelievable, beyond devastating. How could something like this happen.

We did not know Shannon, but reading about her beautiful brave spirit is inspirational.

We share in your grief and sadness, our hearts are with you all

R.I.P. Shannon

August 23, 2016

Fabienne, Anita...
Do not have the proper words to express my sadness.
My times with you all will not be forgotten.

Janice Herberger

August 23, 2016

I don't know you & didn't know Shannon, but her story makes me heart hurt & I just felt the need to offer my condolences. I'm so, so very sorry for your loss. Many, many prayers going up for her parents, siblings & all who love her. Praying also for justice. Rest easy, beautiful Shannon, safe in the arms of God.

August 23, 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss...I pray that God comforts you during this difficult time.

Cari Robinson

August 23, 2016

Shannon has deeply touched my heart with her courage and brave heart. I too travel far far for treatment. She is with Jesus and all the angels in Glory. We must hold onto the holy promises of God during this season of great lament.

Sarah Freeh

August 23, 2016

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your family.

Karen Nugent

August 23, 2016

Words cannot express how I feel for you her family. I have been a patient at CTCA for 9 years and still can't comprehend how something like this could happen. I had radiation 5 years ago and stayed at Guest Quarters West. Many days laying on that bench for some sunshine. Please know that so many of us patients and our families are praying for you and hoping they find this person very soon. Much love to you and your family. May God wrap his loving arms around you and one day give you some peace.

Melissa Clooney-Minkiewicz

August 23, 2016

We are so sorry for your loss. Shannon was classmate of mine at Clayton High School. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Amie Iacono

August 23, 2016

So sorry for your tragedy. May God be with you and your family at this difficult time.

Jamie Deer

August 23, 2016

Love and prayers to your family at this time of grief and sorrow. I met Shannon many years ago when I was a young single mother struggling through college in Chickasha, Oklahoma and she was always so sweet and kind to me and my children. I have often thought about her and hoped that she was doing well and was happy. We had mutual friends and we are now all better people for having had her light in our lives, even if only briefly. Thank you for sharing your beloved with the world.

Dani Toney

August 22, 2016

Lucian, I am so sorry about the loss of your sister..I am at a loss for words .

Justa Johnson

August 22, 2016

I will miss you. You gotyour wings

Alexandra Kassing

August 22, 2016

Lucian,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad and difficult time. Praying for peace and justice, and sending much love...

August 22, 2016

Sending my condolences to the family. May God give you strength and peace during this difficult time. Psalm 29:11

Jenny Nickels Meacham

August 22, 2016

You were one of my very best friends during our tumultuous tween/teen years. The first person to talk to me, the shy 9 year old new kid, and invite me to sit with you at lunch. We became fast friends. So much of my childhood includes wonderful memories with you; dancing to the Thriller album in your basement, spending hours picking out clothes for the Duran Duran concert. You were always kind, fun, and beautiful. I have so many wonderful memories of you and I will cherish them all. Prayers for you and your family. You will be greatly missed.

Kate Montgomery

August 21, 2016

We are very sorry to your loss Lucian. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Dennis and Tina Kostial

August 21, 2016

So sorry for your families loss

James Anthony

August 21, 2016

Such a beautiful woman. May God rest your soul. Eternal rest grant unto you , O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon you and may your soul rest in peace. Amen.

Connie Bolte

August 21, 2016

Sorry for your loss. Shannon will be missed by all.

Denise Lindsay

August 21, 2016

Shannon you were my other half we connected the first time met. I still have our wine bottles we sat and talked played dress up and took a lot of pictures. I will miss you, you will never be forgotten. Stay beautiful I love you.

Kristi Turner

August 21, 2016

So sorry for your loss.

Barbara Koerper

August 20, 2016

So sorry for your loss you are in my thoughts and prayers

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