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Heloise Geraldine Carr Mayer

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Heloise Mayer Obituary

Mayer, Heloise Carr Heloise Carr Mayer passed away on Friday, June 8, 2012 at the age of 86. Beloved wife for 55 years of the late Dr. Tansie J. Mayer Jr.; loving mother of Tansie J. Mayer III of Berlin, Germany, Gerald Mayer (Jane) and Rosalyn Mayer McIntyre (Mac); dear grand- mother of Olivia and Nathaniel Mayer; dear sister of Salenia Carr Bush (Clarence); dear sister-in-law of Marietta Mayer Shelton; dear aunt, great-aunt and a dear friend. Mrs. Mayer was an educator in the St. Louis school system and had taught for many years at Metro High School. Services: The Funeral Service will be conducted at Pilgrim Congregational Church UCC, 826 Union Blvd., St. Louis on Saturday, June 16 at 10 a.m. Visitation at the Church beginning at 9 a.m. Saturday. Private Interment at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. Memorial contributions appreciated to the Multiple Sclerosis Society, 1867 Lackland Hill Parkway, St. Louis, 63146. A SERVICE OF THE LUPTON CHAPEL

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Jun. 14 to Jun. 15, 2012.

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Yvette Levy

June 23, 2012

Love you Mrs. Mayer, Rest In Peace.
Y. A. Levy

Michael Rell

June 19, 2012

Mrs Mayer, Your memory will live on for so many years to come. You touched my life in a way that few teachers did with your caring attitude and heartfelt desire to bring out the best in everyone. (Class of 1974)

Endia Walls, MD

June 17, 2012

Few teachers leave such an impression that they are easily remembered some 20 odd years later...Mrs Mayer I remember you well. Thank you for your dedication.

Laurie Bolden-Wilson

June 17, 2012

I express my sympathy and condolences to Mrs. Mayer's sons and family. I would also like to reiterate some of the things said about her. Mrs. Mayer also had a positive effect on me. She taught me in both, English and Drama, at Metro. She always motivated me to strive for better. She was a very loving, strong, smart, classy, and dedicated teacher. Her teaching style was such that it seemed 1 on 1. She will be missed but highly honored. GOD bless you all.

Cassandra Green-Martin

June 17, 2012

Mrs. Mayer blessed every student she taught! Her unique, caring and matter-of-fact style of teaching touched each and every one of us. A bright light at Metro has been extinguished! I STILL love to read! I'm sending my thanks to you in heaven Mrs. Mayer! Rest Forever in Paradise to a dear teacher!

Lisa Cole-Collier

June 16, 2012

Mrs. Mayer you were a positive light in my life. Your love for your craft and your students is unpassable. I am proud to have been one of your students.-

Rachel Steffen

June 16, 2012

Mrs. Mayer you were such a wonderful teacher at Metro. You made me feel special and to this day I remember your kind words to me. Your kindness and generosity of spirit is alive in all of your students. You touched us all.

Yulonda Deshay

June 16, 2012

The best teacher in the world! Had a true love and passion for her students.

Tamara Davis Kilgore

June 16, 2012

It is such an honor, privilege and blessing to have had Mrs. Mayer as an influence in my life. She was a multifaceted diamond demonstrating how I could become the same. Even today I'm continuing to follow her model, some 32 years later.
To her sons, thank you for allowing her to be a mother to so many others. May God comfort you during your loss. And may her legacy affirm your paths in life.

Cynthia Bumb

June 16, 2012

Dear Heloise,
You were part of the Search Committee that called me as Pilgrim's Pastor, and your support for me never wavered. It was a joy to visit you and your dear Tansie as your health prohibited you from attending church. And then my son Andrew became a Metro High School student, and I saw the plaque placed there in your honor; what a thrill it was to say that I knew you! To your sons Tansie III and Gerald, and to your family, I send my deepest condolences. I hope that you and Tansie are dancing the time away in heaven! Peace be with you, Rev. Cynthia S. Bumb, "Pastor Cindy"

Carol Smith

June 16, 2012

I remember her smile and her way of drawing out your best. Also remember going to school at some point with Tansie Jr. Lovely memories she will be missed.

Tonya Budwell

June 15, 2012

A wonderful teacher, a beautiful lady, and an example of what we should all strive to be. Rest in peace Mrs. Mayer.

Kathy Blanks-Lewis

June 15, 2012

SHE BELIEVED IN US WHEN THERE WHERE SO MANY DOUTERS! A LOVE FOR HER STUDENTS THAT WAS LIKE NO OTHER YOU WILL BE MISS BUT ALWAYS REMEMBERED LOVE YOU CLASS OF 74

Tammy Durham

June 15, 2012

Mrs. Mayer expected more from me and she challenged me to set my expectations higher as well. I attribute my success in college and in life to her teaching and high standards. She will be missed by many.

Jacqueline Wooters

June 15, 2012

I had the honor of having Mrs Mayer as my oral communications teacher at Metro High School. She taught me some of the most valuable lessons about confidence and life. You will be missed. Jacqueline M Daniels Wooters (San Diego, CA)

Sandra Stewart

June 15, 2012

Mrs. Mayer was my favorite teacher at Metro. She believed in me and she brought out the best in all of us.

Laura Joffe Hendrickson

June 14, 2012

I feel honored to have been a student in Mrs. Mayer's class. Not only was she a great teacher, but she was kind, clear headed, empathetic and strong. One day, when I was having a difficult day in another teachers class and had gotten into some trouble, Mrs. Mayer took me aside and told me in so many words that she had tremendous faith in my ability to achieve and that she had expressed this to other adults who hadn't shared her opinion when they had watched me struggling to stay in school. Having an adult on your side when you are facing those types of challenges is tremendous. Having an adult by your side behind the scenes when you aren't even aware of it shows a courageous character and a willingness to hold true to your beliefs about others. I have never forgotten that moment or Mrs. Mayer's wise kindness and I was glad I proved her right. I feel blessed to have known her as this memory always reminds me of the power of the goodwill of others. Bless her and may she rest in peace.

Brian Krippner

June 14, 2012

I was privileged to be among her students. She balanced the classroom and 1-on-1 aspects of teaching perfectly. She leaves a wonderful legacy of lifelong learners.

Sheila (Magrath) Miranda

June 14, 2012

Mrs Mayer was one of the most eloquent amazing women I've ever known. I originally had her as my piano teacher at age 10 and then as my English teacher at Metro High School. She will always have a special place in my life and heart...

Sarah Hollander

June 14, 2012

RIP Mrs. Mayer. What an elegant, strong and thoughtful woman. I still have the card (with Susan B. Anthony dollar taped inside) Mrs. Mayer gave me for graduation from Metro in 1989. She encouraged me to keep writing....and I am! My thoughts are with her family.

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