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Caroline Loughlin Obituary

Loughlin, Caroline Keller formerly of St. Louis, died at her home in Cambridge, Massachusetts on October 7. She was 72. Mrs. Loughlin was born in New Orleans in 1940, the daughter of Charles Keller, Jr. and Rosa Freeman Keller. She graduated from Isidore Newman High School in 1957, won a National Merit Scholarship award, and graduated from Cornell University in 1961 with a degree in mathematics. In 1962, she married her Cornell classmate Philip H. Loughlin III, and the couple settled in St. Louis in 1965. Mrs. Loughlin volunteered for almost thirty years on projects connected with Saint Louis' Forest Park, including twentyeight years at the Saint Louis Zoo where she was an archivist, historian and book buyer. She also served as an officer and director of the support group, Zoo Friends. In addition, she served on two mayoral Forest Park master plan committees. Her research on the history of the park with Catherine Anderson led to the book Forest Park, published in 1986 jointly by the Junior League of St. Louis and the University of Missouri. The book was a definitive history of the park and became the second-best seller of non-fiction in the St. Louis area at the time. It led to speaking invitations to the authors from more than 100 organizations. Also in 1986, Mrs. Loughlin was a founding member and later president of the support group Forest Park Forever. In 1992, she received the Hiram W. Leffingwell Award, given to persons or organizations that have substantially benefited Forest Park. From 1970 to 1998, Mrs. Loughlin was a member of the Junior League of Saint Louis, where she served as an officer and director. She was also active with the Women's Society of Washington University, and served a term as president in 1993-95. In addition, she was one of the organizers and an officer of the Butterfly House, established in 1995, that later became a division of the Missouri Botanical Garden. After moving to Boston in 1999, Mrs. Loughlin volunteered her time at Cambridge's historic Mount Auburn Cemetery, and became a trustee of the cemetery in 2010. Mrs. Loughlin was a member of the board for the National Association for Olmsted Parks, and received the group's first Caroline Loughlin Volunteer Service Award. She also was on the board of the Emerald Necklace Conservancy, supporting a chain of parks designed by Frederick Law Olmstead. View, the magazine of The Library of American Landscape History, described her as among the country's most active stewards of the \Olmsted firm's landscape history, and named her its 2012 Preservation Hero. Mrs. Loughlin was predeceased by her brother, Charles Keller III. She is survived by a sister, Mary K. Zervigon, her husband, Philip H. Loughlin III, two sons, Philip H. Loughlin IV (Ellie M. Loughlin) and Thomas K. Loughlin, and two grandchildren, Christopher R. Loughlin and Katherine E. Loughlin. Services: A Memorial service will be held at Mount Auburn Cemetery on Sunday, October 27, at 11:30 am. Mrs. Loughlin was inurned at Mount Auburn Cemetery. Donations may be sent to the National Association of Olmstead Parks or to the Friends of Mount Auburn Cemetery.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Oct. 13, 2013.

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Marilyn Baginsky Selig

November 5, 2013

Caroline enjoyed our reunions and it was fun to celebrate our gatherings with her. I have a vivid memory of spending an afternoon in the Keller home listening to a recording of the songs from The Most Happy Fella (Frank Loesser's wonderful broadway musical). This was not the musical taste of our fellow students and I was very grateful to Caroline for introducing me to such wonderful music. My condolences to her family.

Rodney Plimpton

October 28, 2013

Our hearts goes out to Phil at this time for the loss of Caroline. See seemed to be such an excellent wife, partner, and friend to him that it is hard to imagine her no longer being at his side; but what wonderful memories to cherish.

Jane Levy Sizeler

October 15, 2013

I was shocked and greatly saddened to learn of the loss of Caroline. We spent many happy hours together as children and teenagers and at our last class reunion Caroline reminded me that we were once debate partners. She was such a big part of our Newman family. I send my deepest sympathy to Mary, Phil and the entire family.

Piper Morris

October 15, 2013

I am so sad and so sorry to hear of Caroline's death. I always so enjoyed working with her at Mount Auburn Cemetery and valued her wry but always-wise comments and insights. A great and generous lady gone, a bright spirit forever dimmed.

Sarah Maxfield Smither

October 15, 2013

I was stunned to hear this shocking and very sad news about our old Newman School classmate Caroline. She was one of the smartest and funniest people I have ever known. It has been great to have reconnected with her in these last few years at our little class reunions in New Orleans. Sending my love and thoughts to Philip and Mary and all of Caroline's family. Sarah Maxfield Smither

Cecile Torbergsen

October 15, 2013

Dear Mary and family,

With memories from Audubon Elementary and Newman Schools, I will always treasure having known Caroline. Please accept my deepest condolences, and know that you and Caroline's family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Fondly,
Cecile Costley Torbergsen

October 15, 2013

I feel so privileged to have known Caroline, even a little. She continues to inspire me, and I offer sincerest condolences. --Jane Roy Brown, Library of American Landscape History

Alan Guma

October 15, 2013

Very sorry to get this news, and extend sincerest condolences to Philip, the family, and to Mary and her family.

Jerry Friedler

October 15, 2013

Phil and Mary - I just learned of Caroline's passing and I am so sorry. From grammar school, to debating, to marrying an Exeter classmate, to her interest in gardening we led some what parallel though separate lives. Our occasional meetings were too few. I offer you my condolences.
Jerry Friedler Newman and Exeter '57

December 2012 Candlelighting Ceremony at Mount Auburn Cemetery

Jennifer Johnston

October 14, 2013

Good Books, Movies, Plays, Ginger Snap Cookies, Delicious King Cake from Mardi Gras - just a few of the things that will always remind me of my friend Caroline Loughlin. I can still hear Caroline in my mind - when we agreed on something great, the response could often be "well, exactly."

Happy Times

Jennifer Johnston

October 14, 2013

October 13, 2013

So sorry to learn of Caroline's death. I am a member of The Junior League of St. Louis and remember Caroline so fondly. I have her book Forest Park and had such fun looking through it again today. What a wonderfully written history of our beloved park. Caroline along with her co author, Catherine really hit the mark on this work!
Caroline, kindest of wishes and prayers to you and your family. Pat McKinnis

Tony Gagliano

October 13, 2013

Mary: I was so sorry to hear from Moon and Verna about your sister's death. Please give my condolences to her family and I hope you and your family will be ale to cope with her loss and your grief as well as you can. . .

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