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Barbara Schlesinger Obituary

Schlesinger, Barbara, 82, of Golden Beach, passed away January 18, 2015 surrounded by her family. Beloved wife and mother, Barbara, known to all as Bobbe, was originally from Chelsea, MA and was the daughter of Al and Tessie Butler. She came to South Florida to attend the University of Miami where she graduated in 1954. Throughout her life, she was active in charitable work, notably hosting the Race for Life charity events for many years. She wrote a social column in local newspapers. She entertained family and legions of friends and colleagues who admired and adored her. Her charm, wit, poise and warmth illuminated every room she entered and gathering she attended. She is survived by her husband of 60 years, Sheldon; her sons: Scott and Gregg; her six grandchildren: Charlotte, Alexander, Molly, Theodora, Samuel, and Theodore; and her brother Larry Butler. The funeral will be held Wednesday, January 21, 2015 at 11:00 a.m. at Temple Beth El, 1351 South 14th Avenue, Hollywood, FL 33020, internment to follow at Temple Beth El Memorial Gardens, 4900 Old Griffin Road, Davie, FL 33314.

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Published by Sun-Sentinel on Jan. 20, 2015.

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Jayne Ulcena

January 15, 2025

Remembered always with love & fondness.... An amazing lady, who is always missed. Xx

Jack Sultan

January 17, 2023

Auntie groovy we all miss you very much wishing you a happy birthday in heaven all my love Jack Sultan

Linda S

January 16, 2023

Bobbe is a treasured part of me ....
She will always be with me in my thoughts, in my heart --
When looking at the stars above she will be the one shining brightest -
Bobbe was our blessing, our beloved beautiful star and G-d's angel here on earth -
She was the best of everything good and wonderful....
Loved then, now, for eternity
Linda

I wore above then and will always feel the same ... 1/23

Jayne Ulcena

January 15, 2023

Darling Bobbe´s words of wisdom, love & support remain with me always. A wonderful lady who is truly missed.

Marilyn Foster Silvernale

January 14, 2023

We still think fondly of Bobbe she was like a second mother to me. A real special lady. Much love to her family

Jack Sultan

January 14, 2021

Auntie groovy thinking about you very often... may God bless you always and Blaze our memories on your most incredible life

Marilyn Foster silvernale

January 14, 2020

As the anniversary of Bobbe death approaches We still miss her so much. As the years have passed a lot has changed. We lost my mom , Alice Foster in 2017. She joined my father Bill, Bobbe and Shelly. I know they are in heaven together. Four extraordinary people. Probably starting a sewing club. Dear Toni Paoli joined them in November 2019. We have so many memories of happy times to carry with us.

Gregory Marholin

February 3, 2015

Dear Mr. Schlesinger, Gregg and Scott … my heart is filled with great sadness having learned of your loss. Mrs. Schlesinger was an inspiration and guiding light throughout my life. It has been over thirty years since we have seen each other but you are often in my thoughts. Some of my fondest childhood memories were times spent with your family.

Mrs. Schlesinger was often the angel on my shoulder helping me through very difficult times in my life. There were many times throughout my adult life where I would recall her words of encouragement and advice. The power of those childhood memories of her helped me to find happiness and become the type of person of whom I know she would be proud.

I know the memories of her will continue to inspire and bring joy to everyone who had the great fortune of knowing her. I will miss her tremendously.

Carmen Isabel Lopez Olivella

February 3, 2015

I have so much pain in my soul and in my heart but I am glad I gave her happiness at the end of the year and she let me know with a sweet letter on 12/13/2014

Rob Lysak

February 2, 2015

We will all miss Bobbe's warm smile. Condolences to Shelly, Scott, Greg and her friends who knew her.

January 26, 2015

A great woman. A great loss. My condolences to the family. Bruce and Jacquelyn Rogow

January 26, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the Schlesinger family.

Linda Fisher

Marilyn Foster Silvernale and family

January 24, 2015

Bobbe was like a second mother to me and a best friend to my mom Alice Foster. They were in sewing group for close to 50 years,of course none of the girls did any sewing, but they developed lasting friendships. I grew up knowing Bobbe and will never forget how her smile lit up the room. I am going to miss her. My thoughts and prayers go out to Shelly and her loving family. We all feel a great loss. Love you Bobbe

Steven Neckman

January 24, 2015

Dear Shelly, Scott and Greg, Though it's been many years since I've seen Bobbe my heart is saddened to know that she is gone. At the lowest point in my own life your wife and mother NEVER gave up on me. While others turned their back she embraced me with love. I will never forget her kindness. The world has lost an elegant lady and I have lost a dear friend. May you, like me, find solace in the beautiful memories she made for all of us. My most heartfelt condolences to each of you and to your own families with much love, Steven Neckman.

malinka jackson

January 22, 2015

To my Dearest Beautiful Bobbe
I was truly blessed to have your friendship, wisdom and loving kindness. Your shining light will be in my heart forever. I miss you so.
Dear Shelly, Gregg and Scott. The deepest sadness and loss is felt by everyone who knew Bobbe. An angel from above that was taken from us way too soon.

January 22, 2015

A great light has gone out of our lives. Bobbe was unique. We will never forget her kindness and laughter. She left a lasting impression on everyone she touched. Our dearest friend for so many years, her memory is in our hearts forever. Our deepest condolences go out to Shelly, Scott and Gregg.

Arthur Whitelaw and David Graden

David Young

January 22, 2015

Scott and I are so sorry for your loss. Bobbi was such an elegant lady. We will remember her fondly. We know her memory will be a blessing. David Young and Scott Bernstein

Barbara Miller

January 22, 2015

Jimmy and I want to express our condolences to Shelly, Greg and Scott and the grandchildren for their loss. So many people wrote eloquently about the beautiful, generous, caring person Bobbe was. All true, but I also never knew a more loyal person. She made an impact and will be missed by so many including us.
Barbara and James Fox Miller.

Ilene Benzman

January 21, 2015

My heart breaks for your loss. Bobbe was truly an outstanding person and a very dear friend to my sister, Ina Gottlieb. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

An, Ashton and Aiden Hayward

January 21, 2015

Our hearts are heavy, we are going to miss you so much, thank you for all the wonderful memories.

Sheldon Schlesinger, Diana Santa Maria and Bobbe Schlesinger ABOTA Ft. Lauderdale Chapter Judge's Night January 17th 2014

Diana Santa Maria

January 21, 2015

Fond memories of a very special night one year ago at the ABOTA (Ft. Laud Chapter) Judge's Night. So grateful to have spent this special time together. My deepest sympathies to Shelly, Scott, Gregg and your entire family. With love, Diana Santa Maria and family

Jim

January 21, 2015

Our hearts are broken. A true angel among us who filled our lives with light and laughter. We will never forget you, dearest Bobbe.
Jim Brochu and Steve Schalchlin

Brenda McHugh

January 21, 2015

Jack and I are truly blessed to have Bobbe in our lives. In life her effusive spirit reached out and embraced us, as it will continue to even now. All our love, Brenda and Jack McHugh

January 21, 2015

Mel and I join your many friends in mourning the loss of this fine, generous, kind, entertaining woman. Bobbe was a joy to be around and left a mark on all who were honored to know her. Our entire family will miss her and our prayers are with Shelly and their sons and families.
With love,
Nicki and Mel Grossman and family

CAROL ORLOFF

January 21, 2015

A WONDERFUL WOMAN. I FEEL FORTUNATE TO HAVE KNOWN HER.....I AM MICKI PECKS SISTER.

Tammy Dobbrunz

January 21, 2015

Our condolences to all of the Schlesinger family, we are blessed to have known Bobbe. She was an amazing woman with a heart of gold.
The Dobbrunz family

Mary Copeland Gonzalez

January 21, 2015

Hopefully, Shelly, you are comforted by the matchless devotion you showed this wonderful woman, especially when she needed you most. You two were quite the love story, and so generous to friends and causes. Who would not treasure her last note to them? She was such a prolific writer, and so quick to acknowledge the slightest act or gesture of kindness or hospitality, any and all of which she richly deserved. She gave a thousand times more than she got, and enjoyed it immensely. Finally, the term "irreplaceable" has meaning. Thankfully, she has left us with countless memories of the best of times.

Jayne Ulcena

January 21, 2015

Dearest Bobbe touched our lives constantly, despite the miles, and will always do so. One of the most wonderful selfless ladies I will ever have the honor of calling my treasured friend. Magical memories and letters keep Bobbes spirit alive. My girls and I remember her with smiles and happiness. We are so sorry for your loss. Jayne, Serena and Bella. Xxx

Diane Linda

January 21, 2015

She was truly one of the most spectacular people i've ever known. Beautiful externally, and even more so internally. Kind, generous, loving, happy.... She was a plethora of positivity all wrapped up in one body. She would always make sure that I knew that I was thought of, cared for and special. I will always remember her laughter and cherish that fact that she truly loved my mother. My heart breaks for the Schlesinger family, her friends, for my mom and for the world who lost a truly wonderful woman. I will miss her very much.

Bobbe, Sheldon, Scott and Gregg

Burt Chojnowski

January 20, 2015

Bobby and I formed a special bond when we first met. Bobbe was vivacious and engaging. She made me feel like I was the only person of the room. I am saddened by her passing but know she touched many people in the same way she touched me.

Alan and Audra Duncan

January 20, 2015

To Shelly, Scott and Greg and the rest of this wonderful family:

Our deepest condolences. Bobbe was the kindest, most generous, vivacious, and gracious person we know. We count it such a privilege to have known Bobbe. The world is lesser place without her.

LITTLE JACK SULTAN

January 20, 2015

TO MY DEAREST SHELDON,SCOTT,GREG, I WISH TO SEND MY DEEPEST SINCERE LOVE AND CONDOLANCES TO YOUR WONDERFUL FAMILY...AUNTIE GROOVY WAS A LIGHTBULB THAT LIGHTS ALL OUR LIVE....SHE CERTAINLY WILL BE REMEMBERED AS THE MOST SINCERE CARING LOVING COMPASSIONATE SOULS ON OUR PLANET....WE ALL LOVE YOU AUNTIE GROOVY AND WILL CHERISH THE YEARS WE ALL SPENT WITH YOU.....MY MOM ESPECIALLY CELEBRATES YOUR LOVE AND COMPANIONSHIP AS ALL THE SULTANS DO!!!!G-DSPEED AUNTIE GROOVY!!!!!!!!!ALL MY LOVE LITTLE JACK SULTAN

Judy Kass

January 20, 2015

Going to miss you my dear friend.
You will always be in my heart??

January 20, 2015

To Shelly,Scott,and Gregg,
No words will be enough to soften the blow of losing a most amazing wife,mother,grandmother,and friend.She was everyones "Auntie Mame".There has never been, or will ever be another Bobbe. I have loved her for as long as I`ve known her,and my heart will always be filled with the joy of having been her friend.

Thomas Angelo

January 20, 2015

To the entire Schlesinger family,
We send you all of our love and thoughts in this difficult time. Your loss is shared by anyone who came in contact with Bobbe. She was the embodiment of class and grace and had an amazing energy that made everyone always feel welcome at her home. I will always remember her with fondness for the wonderful times we were fortunate to share with friends and family because of her efforts to create the most incredible gatherings. She was truly one of a kind and she will be missed by us. All our love, Tom, Hunter and Kassidy Angelo

January 20, 2015

I am thankful to say Bobbe was my best friend. We shared year's of laughter, tears, good times and everything in between. I am left with cherished memories of you in my heart.
With sincere condolences,
Camille Sultan

Andrea Mazor Stabb

January 20, 2015

The epitome of charm and grace, Bobbe will be missed by all whose lives she touched. My deepest condolences to the Schlesinger family.

Ina Gottlieb

January 20, 2015

There are no words to express my deep sorrow. I will remember Bobbe's laugh, her kindness and her wisdom. The incredible
50 year friendship we shared through every stage of our lives was priceless .... and I will miss my special, dear friend very much.

January 20, 2015

Love and Prayers to the Schlesinger Family, The Chaminade-Madonna Family
(Rachel Koebel)

George Shahood

January 20, 2015

Shelly, Greg, and Scott,

My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to you and your entire family.

My wife Kay knew your wife and mother from "Race for Life" at Gulfstream and tells me she was quite the lady.

She had to be a very special lady to have you three in her life.

Our condolences.

George and Kay Shahood.

Linda

January 20, 2015

Bobbe is a treasured part of me ....
She will always be with me in my thoughts, in my heart --
When looking at the stars above she will be the one shining brightest -
Bobbe was our blessing, our beloved beautiful star and G-d's angel here on earth -
She was the best of everything good and wonderful....
Loved then, now, for eternity

January 20, 2015

Bobbe's selfless importance survives her passing.
She elevated the importance of each person's pursuit above her own. Tobkin family

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