Ralph Joseph Aiello Jr. Ralph Joseph Aiello Jr. entered into rest Thursday, April 17, 2008, in Tallahassee. He was born March 27, 1944, in Oklahoma City, Okla., and resided in New York City from 1954 until moving to Tallahassee in 1987. He was employed as an electrical superintendent until 1997 when cardiac problems forced his retirement. A private family service will be held. Culley's MeadowWood Funeral Home, Riggins Road Chapel (850-877-8191) is handling arrangements. He is survived by his wife of 20 years, Joyce Aiello of Tallahassee; children, James and Julie NeSmith of Bristol and Debbie Robinson of Tallahassee; seven grandchildren, Lauren Young, Porshia Robinson, Riley NeSmith, Marissa NeSmith, Gretchen NeSmith, Dequnn Robinson, Tyquez Moore; and one great-grandson, Wyatt Young.