Search by Name

Search by Name

Rebecca Proctor Obituary

Rebecca Briley Proctor Rebecca Briley Proctor, 68, died Monday, April 19, 2010, at her home in Tallahassee. Rebecca was born in Daytona Beach. She graduated from Leon High School in 1959 and Florida State University in 1963, where she was a member of Pi Beta Phi Sorority. She was a mother, adventuress and lifelong learner. She lived temporarily in Rockland, Maine, Washington State, Alaska, and Bangkok, but Tallahassee was always her home. She was predeceased by her parents, Morris and Helen Briley, and her brother, Paxton Briley. She is survived by her siblings, Randy Briley (Cindi) and Gwen Henderson (George), both of Tallahassee; her four children, Tracy Proctor Williamson of Larchmont, N.Y., Edward Proctor of Victor, ID, Briley Proctor (Matt Claps) of Tallahassee, and David Proctor (Michele) of Tallahassee; eight grandchildren; her former husband, Ralph Proctor, Jr; and her partner, John McEachern. A memorial service will be held today at St. John's Episcopal Church at 3 p.m. EDT, with a reception immediately following at Eve's Garden. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. John's Episcopal Church, Grace Mission, or Big Bend Hospice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Tallahassee Democrat from Apr. 21 to Apr. 22, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Rebecca Proctor

Not sure what to say?





jeanne bowen

May 3, 2010

Peter and I were saddened to hear of Becky's passing. We have many fond memories of her in Maine. She was a special woman. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Shirley Krause

April 24, 2010

Dear Gwen and Randy,
Mark and I are saddened to learn of the loss of your sister Becky. I am lighting a candle for you and her children, and all who loved her so she may continue to live on in the good and wonderful memories you all share with her. Our prayers are with you all.

Robin McCallister

April 24, 2010

Tracy, Edward, Briley and David, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know that Becky will be sorely missed. She was one of the sweetest people, and always gracious regardless of circumstances. I feel sure she has passed that on. Thoughts are with you,Robin McCallister

Ray McCallister

April 23, 2010

Tracy, Edward, Briley, David
Your mother was truly a very special lady. Some of my most fond memories of
life were growing up with your family at the beach, and your Mom was such a big part of it. I am very sorry for your loss, but so greatful for having
known her.

April 22, 2010

Tracy, Edward, Briley, David, Gwen, Randy and John,
I wanted each of you to know that Becky was my "hero"....she was and will always be who I wish I could have been. Celebrate her life and talk of her often.
Love to each,
Rochelle

Kay Culpepper

April 22, 2010

Dear Brileys and Proctors and John,
I send my deepest sympathy for your loss of Becky. I knew the Briley family since childhood when we enjoyed the Swim Team together and all the joys that went with it! I can see Becky now as the beautiful young woman that she was then and she will always live in my heart and mind in that fashion.
With love,
Kay Lamb Culpepper, (Tallahassee is my home, too)

Leila McClure

April 22, 2010

Many happy memories with the Proctor family over the years - Becky was vibrant, loving, and beautiful!

Kathy McCord

April 22, 2010

Randy, Gwen and family - please accept my deepest sympathy.

April 21, 2010

My sympathy to Becky"s family Margaret Lehmann Evans

Gloria Hancock Maddox

April 21, 2010

As a 1959 LHS graduate, I remember Rebecca. I am lighting a candle in her memory. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Tracy Ryan

April 21, 2010

With deepest sympathy for your loss.

Jan Truelove Starling

April 21, 2010

Gwen,
May the wonderful memories of your sister be with you now and always. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Jan Truelove Starling

April 21, 2010

Gwen
May the wonderful memories of your sister comfort you now and always. I am sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Showing 1 - 13 of 13 results

Make a Donation
in Rebecca Proctor's name

Memorial Events
for Rebecca Proctor

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Rebecca's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Rebecca Proctor's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more