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RICHARD ELLSWORTH MCILWAIN, II Richard Ellsworth McIlwain, II, 63, died at his home on June 20, 2009, with his family by his side, in Ft. Pierce, Florida. Mr. McIlwain was born in Kittanning, Pennsylvania and moved to Ft. Pierce in 1970 coming from Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. He received his Bachelors degree from Nova South Eastern University, served in the U.S. Air Force for 6 years during the Vietnam War in Laos, Thailand, and Vietnam. He was a member of St. Mark's Catholic Church, Elks Lodge #1520, Ft. Pierce, FSU Booster Club, Gator Trace Country Club and loved to play golf. He was a FBI Academy Associate from 1973- 1980, detective with the St. Lucie County Sheriff's Department from 1980-2004, and investigator for the States Attorney Office, 19th Judicial Circuit. Survivors include his wife, Geri Kari McIlwain of Ft. Pierce, FL; son, Richard E. McIlwain, III of Ft. Pierce, FL; daughter, Lindsey (Chris) McIlwain Clay of Ft. Pierce, FL; stepdaughter, Kari Lynn Reinke of Port St. Lucie, FL; stepsons, Marc Arquit of Houston, TX and Michael Arquit of Jacksonville, FL; brother, John Robert (Jack) Rea of Ft. Pierce, FL; sisters, Linda A. (Lou) Beyer of Milwaukee, WI, Sue Ann VonSchledorn of Milwaukee, WI and Virginia Schuster of Kittanning, PA; grandchildren, Preston and Caleb Clay. Memorial contributions may be made to the Treasure Coast Hospice, 1201 SE Indian Street, Stuart, FL 34997. Services: Visitation will be held on Tuesday, June 23, 2009 from 5-8 PM at Haisley Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, June 24, 2009 at 10:00 AM at St. Mark's Catholic Church. Inurnment will take place at Hillcrest Memorial Gardens. Arrangements are under the direction of Haisley Funeral & Cremation Service. A guest book may be signed at www.haisleyfunera lhome.com

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Published by TC Palm on Jun. 23, 2009.

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Rose Hylton

June 23, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Don Daniels

June 23, 2009

My prayers are with Richard and his family. I was blessed to have known 'Rick' as a co worker with The St Lucie Co Sheriff's Dept. He had a great mind for the work and a wonderful personality. He will be sorely missed. GOD BLESS YOU RICK

jerry roden

June 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Stacy Blount

June 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with Richard, Lindsay and the family of Rick McIlwain.

Diana, Stacy (Blount) Annone, Tracy(Blount)Tassone.

Bo Milton

June 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, Rick was a great guy.

jeff bennett

June 23, 2009

Rick was a good person and a really good friend and will be greatly missed.

JOHN K. CALDWELL

June 23, 2009

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH LOVED ONES.

Chuck Shafer

June 23, 2009

My sincerest heart-felt condolences. Rick was always quick with a laugh and a smile.

I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.

Juan F. Torres III

June 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 23, 2009

Our deepest sympathy and prayers to the family. Rick was not only a natural born lawman, but a really nice guy.
Donna (Kirk) and Paul Hamm

June 23, 2009

Sorry to hear of Rick's passing. He was a great guy! Our prayers are with the family!
Fred and Pam Wilson
Fort Pierce, Florida

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