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Arlan Goss Obituary
MARLBOROUGH - Marlborough: Arlan E. Goss, 70 of Marlborough died suddenly October 10, 2013 at Marlborough Hospital after being stricken ill at home.
He leaves his wife of 48 years, Ellida (Kassimer) Goss ; he also leaves a sister-in-law Bobbi Rothman and a brother-in-law Hai Rothman and many cousins. He also leaves his friends of 50 years, Denny and Cindy Smith, as well as, Rose Moccaldi and children.
He was born in Wilbraham, Ma, the son of the late Arlan R. and Charlotte (Hanson) Goss and has lived in Marlborough for the past 48 Years.
He worked as a tech writer for many of the area computer companies, retiring in 2009 from EMC of Hopkinton.
He was an avid musician who played the guitar, banjo and accordion and sang. He played in many local jams with his fellow musicians. He also loved to play card, doing crosswords and was an avid reader of any kind of books.
Following cremation, a memorial service will be held at 10:00a.m., on Saturday, October 19, 2013 in the John P. Rowe Funeral Home Inc., 57 Main Street, Marlborough, Ma. Burial will follow at Evergreen Cemetery, Wilson Street, Marlborough, Ma.
The family has asked that donations be made in his name to Bay Path Animal Rescue, 5 Rafferty Road, Hopkinton, Ma 01748.
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Richard Kochanek
October 8, 2025
Gus was the greatest friend.
We could talk for hours
Great times at GE in Pittsfield. MA. Blessings and prayers
Dick
richard kochanek
October 8, 2023
I think of my friend Gus every day. Have incorporated his name into
my passwords a a constant reminder of what he meant to me in my life.
Bless Him and his family always Dick Kochanek
Richard Kochanek
October 8, 2022
I cannot believe so many years passed since Gus left us. I think of Gus SO frequently and wish he was still here. Gus was my very best friend. We knew each other since 1961 when we were both at General Electric. He was a joyous person with a strong sense of purpose in life.
We had many great conversations that were filled with memories and great thoughts. Each time we met for a lunch, it felt like no time had passed between us. Gus treated everyone he met with great joy. Gus loved to perform and play the guitar and sing. My deepest sympathy to Lee, his loving wife. My prayers will always be with him. I truly miss Gus very much. I am thankful he was part of my life experience. LOVE AND GENTLE THOUGHTS TO ALL!
Dick
David Boyd
November 13, 2013
Oh Gus, Gus. Pals since we were 10. Good Lord! You will be sorely missed.
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Dick Bolt
November 12, 2013
Gad, I just found out Arland (Guss Guss) had passed. He was a good teen friend from same street in Wilbraham.We will miss our card player from old! Dick Bolt in Swanton,MD
Wendy Smith
October 28, 2013
I am hearbroken to hear the sad news. Al was always concerned how everyone else was doing. Lee, of whom he spoke of often, May the love he had for you carry you through these difficult times. He's in Heaven strumming away on a geetar, banjo and once in a while the accordian. So sorry we never got together for lunch with the old crew @ Honeywell again. You are truely missed.
October 24, 2013
Kathy Silvestris
Roland Gould
October 19, 2013
Al's goodwill, caring and friendly demeanor will be sorely missed by all who knew him. He was also the rock of our music jams. He who gave so much, took so little.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Lee.
Tanya Lakos
October 15, 2013
What a ray of light Al was, at EMC. Each day he was a pleasure to work with, I remember iin the warm months ... There is Al sitting on his lounge chair in the parking lot ... I am so glad I made his retirement party as his joy and laughter will always remain in my memories. The best legacy Al left is the many smiles we all share when we think of him... My heartfelt thoughts are with his family
Tanya Lakos
October 15, 2013
Dear Lee,
I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart is broken for you. The World has loss a very Special Person. We have been friends since High School and when you met Al the two of you were such a wonderful couple. All who met and knew Al loved him.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Lee, I am here for you anytime you need me day or night
Dear Al,
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Now you and Fran can talk about cars. We will love you and miss you always.
Love,
Claire "Hess" Marchand, Francis Jr and Tammy "Marchand" Piazzo.
Suzanne Skelly
October 15, 2013
Lee, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marlene Sweeney
October 15, 2013
I was very saddened to hear of Al's passing. My deepest condolences to Lee and all of Al's family and friends. With deepest sympathy, Marlene Sweeney
Karen Doucette
October 15, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with Al's family. I worked with Al at EMC and each day he made me laugh.
Richard Kochanek
October 14, 2013
Gus was my best friend. We knew each other since 1961 when we were both at General Electric. He was a joyous person with a strong sense of purpose in life. He treated everyone he met with great dignity and respect. He was kind to everyone. Gus loved to perform and play the guitar and sing. My deepest sympathy to Lee, his loving wife, and to all who had the great pleasure to have Gus enter their lives. My prayers will always be with him.
Dick
Bruce Berfield
October 14, 2013
The crap table will miss you my froggy pal. My thoughts are with you
Lynn Nelson
October 14, 2013
You will be truly missed but will live on in our hearts
Jack Bossom
October 14, 2013
Music won't be the same without him. He contributed so much.
Lynn Nelson
October 14, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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