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John Hackenberg Obituary

John H. Hackenberg, 62, died Wednesday, April 21, 2010. He is survived by his two daughters: Jennifer Hackenberg of Northborough, Katy Hackenberg of Westborough; and ex-wife, Susan Patterson of Northborough; siblings, Nancy, Marge, Jim and Stan. Born and raised in Middleburg, PA, John was the son of the late John and Dorothy Hackenberg.

John was a veteran who served in the U.S. Army during the Viet Nam war. He graduated from UMass Lowell with a Bachelors Degree in Electrical Engineering and worked for Digital Equipment Corp. for over 25 years.

At John's request, all funeral services will be private. Hays Funeral Home in Northborough is assisting the family. Memorial donations may be made to: The Worcester Animal Rescue League at 139 Holden Street, Worcester, MA 01606. For online condolences please visit:

www.haysfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Apr. 24, 2010.

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James Grochmal

May 12, 2010

I worked with John for over 10 years at DEC. He was a joy to work with and I always appreciated his humor during difficult times. My sincerest condolences to his family. I will miss him.

Rick Jones

May 4, 2010

I worked with and for John for several years at DEC on the Vax 9000. John was a great manager and person. I am truly grieved by his passing.

tom savarino

April 29, 2010

I met John in 1984 in the Technology group in High Performance Systems. He was always encouraging and helpful. I learned key things from him that became instrumental in my career, but the lessons about empathy that I took from our relationship have been important in my life. He was truly a great man.

Phil Hurd

April 29, 2010

I worked at DEC as a freshly-minted engineer right out of college. I was originally intimidated by John because he was so smart, and so focused, and asked such hard (to me) questions, that I thought I'd never live up to his standard. But then as I got to know him, I realized John had a wonderful, dry sense of humor and was really interested in other people. He was a great guy to look up to, and I'm sorry for your family's loss.

Cliff Lupien

April 28, 2010

John Hackenberg was one of the first members of the "Large Systems Engineering Group" that I met back in '73 when I showed up. I worked closely with him for most of the next 11 years. He was the nicest and most professional man ever. He taught me more than most professors.

David Hobson

April 27, 2010

I worked with John for 20 years, and there was never a more helpful and professional person than John. He was a dear friend and will be missed. My condolences to your family. David Hobson

Robert Haller

April 25, 2010

John Was My Mentor and friend. He taught me so much about be an Engineer and doing the right thing. I do not have words to express the loss I feel. My heartfelt Blessings go out to friends and Family.

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